How do I destroy my desire for sex and companionship? Seriously if this was gone my life be perfect
>>17011070
prostate cancer..............its worse........
Hate to say it but you really can't. Humans are hardwired for interaction and that is not something you can change.
>>17011084
Well then suggest some helpful suicide tips plz.
>>17011082
It can provide either death or lack of sexual desire. So I'm good with it senpai
>>17011070
Get a cat.
>>17011070
I want to be asexual too.
>>17011098
Hate cats desu , how about a dog
>>17011090
No need for that, just find outlets for your needs. Fap to satisfy the need of release.Become a tripfag and interact with the other faggots here to satisfy your need of companionship.
>>17011105
Asexual people are lucky . They don't have to deal with no gf feels
>>17011070
People alone at sea end up talking to the mast
Soz dude you're stuck with the human race
>>17011108
> tfw you will never be asexual
why even live?
>>17011107
I wanna hug someone , but clearly that isn't an option . So I wanna find something that will get rid of it .
>>17011109
So death is the only option ?
>>17011070
>How do I destroy my desire for sex and companionship? Seriously if this was gone my life be perfect
No, your life wouldn't be perfect. Like cutting out part of your soul, you're then left with a huge void that you have no idea how you could ever fill. And trust me, nothing will fill it. Nothing.
Forget this idea and go back to your normal life. Learn to enjoy it. Treasure your friendships and your relations with your family. Don't go down this road.
>>17011120
Where are you? If close by I will walk to your house and hug you intensely.
>>17011129
>no friends
> family doesn't care
>no gf
I work 40 hours and make art so don't go say that I need to do something with my life .
And I talk to people all the time , there is just something about me that prevents me from having normal relationships.
>>17011136
Indiana . Your not near me
Cut your balls off
>>17011186
Could a doctor legitimately do this ? Also, physically removing it seems dangerous. Isn't there chemical castration?
also , this doesn't get rid of my desire for companionship
>>17011070
Masturbate as soon as you wake up every morning. Even if you are not aroused. Make yourself masturbate. It will kill your sex drive for the majority of the day. I've been doing it for the past 5 years.
There are loads of bad side effects, but at least you lose sexuality lol
>>17011198
I'll try this .
But how do I get rid of my desire for companionship?
Seriously don't though, it's not worth it lol. Your testicles make testosterone and support your body a lot too
>>17011196
You're trying to go against nature and you will fail. All humans have a social instinct. Without this social instinct, societies would never have formed.
Honestly it is easier to just find companionship than it is to completely eliminate all desire for it. You're batty, to hold a contrary opinion.
What the fuck is wrong with you
>>17011206
Why would my body NEED testosterone? Isn't that chemical just for getting me to fuck and grow muscle ?
If you masturbate all the time, it will make you feel drained, so don't do that. It only makes you more aroused all the time, because you become addicted to it. Obviously that isn't what you want :)
Yeah but if you go on Google, you'll see all the side effects for removing your balls. Apparently it causes an early death too
>>17011212
I accept the reality that I cannot receive companionship. However , the feelings of being alone don't help at all.
So I want to stop wanting sex and companionship, I get that , life will be 100%
>>17011205
my method isn't perfect. But in general it's been working pretty well. I actually just woke up a hour ago, walked into the bathroom, fapped, showered. And now I'm ready to start the day. And I have 0 interest in the opposite sex. I think because since i fap so early that my brain isn't woken up yet. So something to do with the chemical balance makes me not care about girls for 90% of the day. I'll go the rest of my day doing things and not caring about girls.
You just have to get yourself into the habit of it first. Once it's a routine you'll be fine
>>17011216
That's not true
Yeah, I understand what you mean. If you get your testicles removed, you'll feel a lot of changes which you probably won't like. You'll probably change a lot, and be at risk of certain diseases. Also it only reduces your sexuality by an amount, rather than removing it :(
>>17011234
So suicide is my only option then ?
>>17011233
Oh, it IS true. I've had a HORRIBLE experience with masturbation in my life. It completely ruined me. Now, I have managed to escape my addiction to porn and masturbation. Life is about 100x better now. I feel happier, and life feels great. Google NoFap :)
>>17011240
Well, you could possibly try the masturbation method that other people are suggesting. But I don't recommend it personally. Masturbation numbs your brain and your feelings. You barely feel happy. But most people don't realise this as they are already addicted. If they stop fapping for a few months, they'll notice a BIG improvement in their lives.
>>17011247
I went No Fap for a month and I felt depressed and bored as fuck
Fapping causes the 'pleasure' hormone Dopamine to be released - in MASSIVE amounts. So you become addicted to the pleasure rush you get. Eventually your brain becomes resistant to dopamine, meaning regular activities do not satisfy you. Masturbation becomes a necessity for pleasure, and the world starts to feel shitty. It's a downwards spiral - and trust me - you do not want to fall down it. Life without fapping is the best thing ever.
Time. It gets pretty repetitive and boring honestly. Dunno how old you are, but I'm 26 now and I've noticed a pretty significant decline in my urge to go out and fuck regularly. I still have sexual wants of course but I can get that fixed easily by just jacking off a few times a week. Rather than talking some new girl from work to come over and fuck.
Until your burnt out from it you probably won't understand. I never thought it'd happen to me, but it has and I gotta say I'm happy its happened. So much less stress and alot more time for myself and my hobbies.
You'll never get rid of your sexual drives but try looking at in in terms of things that are more pragmatic and simple for you I guess.
>>17011250
Yeah you felt depressed because your pleasure receptors have been numbed by fapping and orgasm. If you quit for 90 days, you will be on the road to recovery. It's a tough journey, but workouts and cold showers will help you to get there. It takes a strong will, but you can get there. Life becomes AMAZING. I used to be awkward around girls. But now, I'm confident as ever!
>>17011253
no.. Because when I went that month without fapping. All I could think about was getting a girlfriend. which is something I don't actually want. fapping keeps me sane.
>>17011262
Whatever floats your boat lol. I've become MORE sane since I quit fapping. Life became better, and I wasn't considered a 'weirdo' at school. Seriously, I used to be a STRANGE person when I used to masturbate. But now everyone sees me as normal! :)
>>17011262
Get a gf and you'll ask why you ever wanted one in the first place. Those things are pretty shitty. All you get from a relationship is easy access to a clean vagina. Sexually yes a lot less work and a less chance of getting an STI, but really you can get the same release from masturbation.
Just go out and get friends, I mean you can't fuck your m8s unless your a fag or whatever but that's what companionship is over all having a good time with others you enjoy being around. A gf just seems to be for sexual relief and getting bitched at.
>>17011108
I'm asexual and it fucking sucks. You may not crave sexually but that will only make your cravings for an emotional and romantic connection with someone even stronger, and people are rarely willing to commit unless sex is involved.
Usually when they say they're understanding, it means 'I can convince them with my dick/vagina'.
>>17011280
You're no asexual, you just haven't someone that has turned you on yet
>>17011275
Well that was really pessimistic, but I guess relationships can be hard. However you DO get a strong bond and connection to your girlfriend/wife, and you can eventually be happy together when you get older. It's not everyone's cup of tea though. Even I feel the same way sometimes, cos I've always had social anxiety. But NoFap has made life easier.
So apparently I can get rid of this desire. Guess suicide is my only option
>>17011280
You can connect without being romantic with them.
I don't get you people.
Sure it sounds like it sucks that most people want to fuck, but it sounds like you don't want the physical closeness more so just an emotional connection.
Why does it have to be in a romantic relationship?
>>17011287
Dunno if id say pessimistic, it just makes sense.
If I want a bond I have that with friends that I make over time and my family.
The bonds that are formed over romantic involvement with another seem pretty dangerous for the most part. I see very few people older than me or my age who don't regret it. They usually find them selves in the same shitty situation they were in after starting up a new relationship or whatever as most of them aren't very smart. How many times should a person touch a hot stove before learning?
>>17011291
Maybe you should see things a different way:
Do you masturbate? If so, try to quit. It'll make your brain healthier and better.
Go to the gym regularly too. It'll make you feel amazing about yourself.
Also, take cold showers, because they help give you strength and willpower (it takes willpower to step inside a freezing shower, but it's worth it when you get out and feel the benefits). Google benefits of cold showers haha.
Then get out there, and socialize! You'll notice how good life becomes when you do all these things. Every one of them benefits you emotionally, and you might even change your views about sexuality. It saved me from suicide...
A cold shower every morning will make you feel fresh and prepared for the day. Facing the unpleasant cold water will help you face other unpleasant things.
But whatever you do, DON'T choose suicide. It is not worth it. I nearly killed myself out of depression. But now, I'm a mentally healthy person. If you try this, your life will get better. Trust me. You don't need to lose your sexuality to be happy.
>>17011316
>don't masterbait
Barely do it
>gym
Fuck no
>socialize
I do all the time
Cold showers help you lose sexuality too! It's even mentioned here: https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/29dtzm/why_cold_showers_are_essential_to_succeed_with/
>>17011271
how is fapping everyday any different from a guy who has sex with his wife everyday?
>>17011333
>Masturbation
It doesn't matter if you barely masturbate. You need to STOP completely for the benefits. Go about 1 month and see how it feels.
>Gym
Going to the gym is worth it. Ignore building muscle, doing a good workout will make you feel amazing. It just takes willpower!
>Cold showers
Cold showers give you the willpower you need for life! They help you face any challenge. They have definitely helped me. You need to resist the feeling of cold on your body, and you will learn to resist anything. They give you the willpower to go to the gym XD
>>17011353
Fuck the gym
Might try the cold showers dough
>>17011070
I know that feel. But I also know that there is no destroying it, I just have to get laid
>>17011122
>>17011349
Yeah I know, it's a bummer. Having sex every day causes the same pleasure release that masturbation does. But it doesn't wreck your brain like fapping does, because with fapping, you can do it whenever YOU want, and TO any porn. Porn gives you a bigger pleasure release which ruins your brain.
Sex has some benefits that fapping doesn't have, also.
>>17011362
I don't look at porn when I fap. I haven't looked at porn in a long time
>>17011141
gonna be straight with you, look up schizoid personality disorder
all the textbooks call it "rare" but i'm starting to believe the couple people who have suggested it's actually really common after seeing people describe schizoid symptoms 5 times as often as mood swings on here.
>>17011362
>>17011341
>>17011353
all this nofap stuff is dog shit but do it if you want, won't kill you
> Why sex has more benefits than fapping
https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/28w7wi/masturbation_doesnt_have_the_health_benefits_that/
>>17011363
That's okay I guess. It's porn that's a big problem. If you don't masturbate a lot, it doesn't harm you any more than sex does.
>>17011366
Trust me man, I feel really strongly about porn addiction and NoFap. My life went down a fucking pit, and I nearly committed suicide several times. I was so depressed, I had social anxiety, and I wasn't responsible. I couldn't get work done because porn distracted me too much. My head was a perverted mess.
Now, I'm healthier than ever. But basically, NoFap is NOT bs. There are countless people who have tried it and never gone back to fapping (unless their addiction was too bad)
>>17011372
I masturbate everysingle morning as soon as I wake ups. Even if I'm not aroused. I masturbate because it kills my sex drive and interest in girls for almost the entire day.
If I go no fap. I'll think of girls nonstop the entire fucking day. I won't be hard or anything, but I'll just think of girls and wish for a girlfriend. Which is not something I actually want
>>17011280
Sex is fucking tedious and honestly not much fun most of the time.
>>17011379
Take cold showers. They lower your sex drive.
The reason why you want a girlfriend when you quit fapping, is because you go through withdrawal from fapping. If you stop doing it for maybe a month, your attraction to girls pretty much drops. Thinking about girls non-stop happens in the first few days only.
>>17011378
Ok if you're actually addicted to porn then yes it'll help to cut it out, obviously
otherwise, for most guys fapping doesn't really affect their lives all that much, they can stop, start, double or halve the amount, etc without seeing much of a difference
>>17011393
I've gone no fap for a month and it was shitty.
Fuck cold showers, I enjoy warm showers.
>>17011395
Good point, my massive recovery was mainly because I was a porn addict. But there are many other people out there who will tell you exactly what I'm telling you about NoFap
Meh some people just won't budge. Having someone tell you what to do isn't that convincing.
But if you do research into what I'm saying, you'll see what NoFap, workouts and cold showers do for you. It takes time and willpower, but there's light at the end of the road.
But if you want to continue life as you are now, it's fine. Unless you're depressed or hate life.
So I can't remove my desire for companionship ? Great :/
>>17011293
What's not to get?
He just doesn't like sex. Other than that he's no different to other human beings
and most humans have romantic desires.
>>17011457
Dude, fap every morning, as soon as you get out of bed like I said. It helps a lot. You'll care less about girls in general
>>17011457
Well taking cold showers might help. But yeah, it's hard to remove what's hard-wired into humans.
Maybe ask a doctor? You never know.
Don't try suicide though, there are so many good things that can happen in your life. If you want to commit suicide, you need to try something like NoFap to get yourself back into a healthy state. :D
>>17011457
You can't remove it in a way that will make you feel better.
Would you amputate an arm or leg if it was hurting?
Find a better way to fix your pain.
>>17011457
People gave you advice, you twat, you just are ignoring it.
>>17011070
Sauce on pic?
>>17011457
Tried it.
Don't recommend it.
Maybe it's just me, but trying to get over such a basic human need, just had the effect that all my other interests and motivations faded away first.
>>17011477
Like how ?
>>17011148
Initials?
>>17011562
Like obtaining the companionship you need, and if necessary suppressing your desire for sex via willpower.
>>17011571
>Like obtaining the companionship you need, and if necessary suppressing your desire for sex via willpower.
I can't obtain ANY companionship.
>>17011070
Probably crack or heroin
>>17011704
do you play? in shops or online or ?
>>17011722
Playing in a shop has the added benefit of being trapped in a room with the most foul smelling social rejects in the world.
The online games allow you avoid the off chance of seeing a female by never leaving your house.
>>17011070
OP pls I need sauce on this. Image searching has failed me, you're my only hope.
>>17011727
You don't play?
>>17011070
>>17011758
seconding this, its mildly hot.
>>17011070
Dude, I have the same problem, I swear to God.
Fucking wish it was possible to stop craving intimacy.
>>17011070
Lots and lots of escapism. Go to /co/ or some shit.
>>17011070
embrace it OP. embrace it by sending me sauce
>>17012597
>>17012034
>>17011758
http://www.pixiv.net/member_illust.php?mode=medium&illust_id=51468129
