So I've lost some weight and am out of a cocoon but feeling awkward with my new body. I pretty much kept it casual low key as a lardly lady. My weight made me feel subhuman much less like an attractive female. I was ocd with personal hygiene for fear of being a smelly fatty. That and my subservient nature makes me typically feminine, being a nanny. Cooking, cleaning, nurturing, mothering. I've got all that down. I just don't know how to be a feminine woman. Beauty wise. Hairstyles, make up, clothing really, feminine energy type outward things. I'm weirded out and new to it.
I like organic as possible when it comes to skin and hair. I healed my thyroid so don't want to unbalance it again.
Advice: any girly girls or boys or anyone who would consider themselves feminine, how do you actually go about it? Any good naturalist beauty type of pages/sites/blogs that you (and not gooogle) can recommend ? Pic related to how I feel walking into Sephora section at malls or into an Ulta beauty shop.
Fuck organic shit.
Get your hair straight.
Then you can deal
If you don't know what do from them, ask for a hime cut.
After that, just be yourself with a smooth bod.
The truth is that the most attractive woman is one who knows she is attractive.
Sure you can be the doubtful girl.
Lots of guys like that.
But nothing sends a guy over the edge like a girl who can wink and promise more
Unless you're ugly, then you're screwed
>>17010102
I have literally never seen a cat do that with its eyes, is it photoshopped or can they really so that?
If you're going into Sephora I recommed getting someone to help you, as you're trying to be natural I suggest only going with a foundation so you look fresh faced, if you want lipstick make it out of crayons.
>>17010118
Interesting I'll look into that. Yeah my clueless charisma has landed my current bf, who is happy me not being high maintenance or whatever but he doesn't get it. Just that I'm trying to finally embrace my femininity now that I don't hate myself. I'm not terribly ugly lol, judt actually healthy now.
>>17010120
I haven't either it's my favorite gif, just a weirded out cat. Cats are weird.
Eh, I'm anxious about that because I'm such a newb and don't want to get crap I don't need. Than again I guess I wouldn't know. I don't have many feminine friends irl guess I'll try to make some.
>>17010120
>if you want lipstick make it out of crayons.
haha what, is this actually a thing
Skirts, dresses, blouses, sleeveless tops. Leggings/hose. Long hair. At work, bun, out wear it down. One braid makes you look shy and works well with a longsleeve top.
>>17010102
I'll assume you're still - what is the euphemism? - full-figured but not fat. Until fairly recently clothes for big women were all grandma-style. But there are now a lot of very fashionable clothes for you. Go to a specialist store and put yourself in the hands of the salespeople. They'll help you find clothes that work for you.
>>17010102
Chances are that you got into the habit of opting out of the sexual world. Opt back in.
Every morning look at yourself in the mirror and say "I am a sexual being". Say it to yourself a few times during the day, as a reminder. You'll start carrying yourself with a little more pizzazz, and that will make you look more feminine.
