>>17008757
is that Dr Dick?

>>17008757
I'm somewhat in the same situation with someone in my courses. I also waited a while to talk to her in private one on one. The girl and I have confessed feelings. But now it seems like were really out of sync

I'm contemplating the i dont give a fuck attitude now and sending her a text.

I get so nervous with these things I don't know whats the right choice or not

>>17008797
That is indeed Doctor Dick

>>17008832
That is literally the best music when you're stressed and you know you've fucked up on something.

I am the only one in this thread with you. Again I'm somewhat in the same situation and clueless. I think I might text her tonight to see if she wants to go out. Yes = excellent, we go out and have fun

No= not going to think about her anymore

Finals are hear and its really stressful so I feel like I should wait but I'm going to see her at a year end student dinner sunday so idk if asking her for saturday or friday is a good idea.

>>17008844
I wish you luck in what you're trying to do. I still find my own situation more difficult because I have no idea what she thinks of me or if she even knows anything else than my name and how I look. As I said, I have no way of contacting her anymore really other than that, I just fear I'll make someone uncomfortable. I won't have to deal with her for possibly the rest of my life or at least 4 months in case I do embarass myself, but I still feel fear.

The thing is, I fear her not accepting my friend request or rejecting me if I somehow make her uncomfortable, since I barely know her and she barely knows me, but I'd like to get to know her. I just feel like I'd have some sort of weird panic if I tried something as bold as this.

>>17008867
Hmm I agree.

What you're thinking of typing is somewhat cliche, but reasonable. Good foundation but this is a shot in the dark. Did you have good convos in class?

I'd arrange just to meet on campus and walk around a bit. Maybe mention grabbing a coffee somewhere there. Make it seem like you have to be there anyway (say you need a form or a report back or something)

Keep it familiar the first time by staying on campus. I can't explain exactly why but It'll seem more appropriate in that senerio. Then next date definitely somewhere off campus.

Also instead of cute maybe say you want to get to know her better? Cute seems bland, and a prerequisite. You wouldn't ask her if you didn't like her physically. You establish that just by asking her. Next step is to engage on a more personal level.

>>17008890
Haven't been able to talk to her in class, we don't really do much discussions or group work there and it's mostly just the teacher talking about different things. I've literally only had one group thing with her and talked to her once outside of class because of homework.

Yeah, what I'm thinking of saying is what I actually think. I wanna make it 100% clear that I like her as more than just someone interesting, but as someone I'd like to date.

Both me and her don't have school anymore since the school I have only has a few terms in our system, it's pretty much summer vacation for me now, 4 months of it and also for her, so it would seem really odd to have to meet up at my school in my opinion. There is no school campus, as it is a fairly small school in the middle of the biggest city in the area.

Does it really seem like a good idea or normal to just randomly add her on facebook and ask if she would like to hang out? Keep in mind I've not communicated with her much during those courses I've had with her.

Does it really seem like a good idea or normal to just randomly add her on facebook and ask if she would like to hang out? Keep in mind I've not communicated with her much during those courses I've had with her.

Not really. What have you got to lose?
Just be relaxed and upfront. I would still advocate at least meeting close by to campus, you said it's i the city so there should be someplace cute to go