I am a straight woman in a long term relationship with a man. Is it normal to have gay thoughts? I keep imagining I am with a soft, cute woman
>inb4 100+ replies
all it means is that you're ready for threesomes and maybe even a live-in "second wife"
>>17005172
I am a straight man in a LDR with a woman, I have been getting a lot of gay thoughts. Mostly from just craving intimacy more than a normal person should. Probably fine.
>>17005177 do you want a cookie? stop it with the shit posts
>>17005172
First of all, we have two words for both genders. So next time use lesbian.
Secondly don't worry about what is normal and what is not. The only thing that matters is what you want and what you do. In our modern world the normality is twisted anyway...
IMHO you are within normal limits :-D
>>17005210
gay means homosexual, which is what thoughts of the same gender are called
>>17005195
I could never have a second wife, could never share my man
>>17005200
But why is it gay? That's what I can't understand
>>17005172
Studies show that all women find other women attractive to a certain degree.
this is why it's normal for girls to constantly say shit like "you have such great boobs" and other shit like that constantly.
Make your man happy by bringing home another woman, and having a 3-some. During said sexual act, start slapping him, while saying: You asshole, you cheated on me!!
>>17005285
I know, but this is a bit more than finding them attractive, I want to hug and smooch and cuddle with one which I've never had before
>>17005311
You're a slut
At least you admit it though
>>17005237
>I could never have a second wife, could never share my man
that not necessarily a requirement, though you're likely to find you'll change your mind since you'll see wife #2 in the same way as "your man"
>>17005172
This might actually sound gay, but my first girlfriend was bisexual. She would fuck around with this little Asian girl (she was about 6'). I felt the relationship was less serious than a focused, monogamous relationship, even though reason tells me that that is fucking hot. Instinctively, I guess if she can't impregnate you, it's all just playing around.
I guess it just depends on the person. Personally, I give and expect intense loyalty.
>>17005172
My gf tells me the same although we could never play with a third because we are jealous. You can always fantasize and have a cuddle budy third. Just not a full blown scissoring partner.
