Went on two "dates" with a girl (hung out and drank tea, and baked cookies and watched tv together). I realize now I'm not interested in her, she's a nice girl but I'm too busy to date her. How do I let her know? Can I tell her over text, since it's not serious yet?
the normal thing to do would be to 'ghost' on her
a polite way might be over text
unnecessarily polite would be call
don't be surprised if there's blowback if you try anything more than ghosting though, it's one date
meant to say 'two' >>17005163
Those sound like pretty cute dates, that's too bad OP!
>>17005171
Yeah, they were sweet dates for sure. She'll make someone very happy.
>>17005163
>>17005168
I'd feel awful ghosting on her. She gave me really good career advice, and is a nice person, but really resentful towards guys and expects a lot of commitment right away. I want to reject her while staying on good (or, not bad) terms.
Why don't you give her another chance before calling it quits?
>>17005366
Just say youre not ready. Can still hang out.
