Is it weird that I don't want to move in with my girlfriend

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2016-04-06 14:22:42 Post No. 17003464
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 14:22:42 Post No. 17003464 [Report]

Is it weird that I don't want to move in with my girlfriend until she loses weight and gets in shape?

She used to be bigger, then worked her ass off, literally, in college and lost a lot of weight, now she's put like 70-80lbs back on. I know fat cells are more easily re-triggered, but she's been so adamant lately about moving in together (we've been together two years) and I'm just worried that we'll keep taking the next steps and she'll never actually do anything about it then I'll be stuck with a fat wife forever.

Does it mean I don't love her if this is an issue? I feel like I love her, but it's eating away at me every time I see a hot girl, or a guy with a fit girl, that I'm settling. I'm not even saying that I'm the greatest looking guy either, but I am lifting and exercising trying to gain mass (hungry skeleton).

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Anonymous 2016-04-06 14:24:31 Post No.17003469
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 14:24:31 Post No.17003469 [Report]

>>17003464
>I know fat cells are more easily re-triggered
BULL FUCKING SHIT

>>>/fit/

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Anonymous 2016-04-06 14:29:09 Post No.17003481
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 14:29:09 Post No.17003481 [Report]

>>17003469
It's true though. Once fat cells are formed, they never go away, so once fat it's much easier to become fat again. Literally the same with muscle.

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Anonymous 2016-04-06 14:34:41 Post No.17003494
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 14:34:41 Post No.17003494 [Report]

>>17003464
I feel your pain but remember that even if she gets fit now it'll only buy you some time, once you settle they tend to not give a fuck anymore and get fat.

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Anonymous 2016-04-06 14:37:09 Post No.17003503
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 14:37:09 Post No.17003503 [Report]

>>17003494
So once fat, always fat? Is this a legitimate reason for breaking up? I just feel weird not being a fitness model and telling someone I can't be with them if they're out of shape.

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Anonymous 2016-04-06 14:42:39 Post No.17003521
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Anonymous 2016-04-06 14:42:39 Post No.17003521 [Report]

>>17003503
It is legitimate for me but you'll be an asshole to everyone else for breaking up because of that. Truth is, I can't be with someone that disregards what she eats more than I do, it's not healthy and will make her fat.

The other thing I've seen is that we idealize them due to what we see around "I could totally be with that qt", there are a lot of qt's out there, we can always do better but so can she.