What makes you happy?
Doing what I enjoy and cutting out things I don't enjoy.
It's a constantly shifting thing.
Cycling in the sunshine.
Giving obscene amounts of money to charity.
Hanging out with friends and family.
Getting chances to prove how smart I am.
>>17003435
Meeting a girl who I deem dateable and getting on with her like a house on fire.
Playing videogames that provides a newish experience. (Hopefully No Mans Sky will).
Going to the gym and realising i can do exercises I couldn't do a year ago.
Ur mum
rapping
>>17003435
Impregnating my wife.
>>17003435
I guess playing acoustic guitar (still a noob) and walking.
You guys should try acoustic.
my bf
>>17003435
Vidyas that are challenging.
Outdoors.
Travelling.
Thinking.
Everything that increases my ego (compliments or chances to prove my skills).
Debates.
Playing guitar.
Talking with sis.
Sparring.
Thrilling and taboo-playing series/movies.
Can't think of anything else.
>>17003435
Nothing but getting bareback pussy will make me happy
Alcohol and sleep.
-when my crush smiles at me
-when people compliment on something i did or made
>>17003905
>-when my crush smiles at me
Fkn heaven, srsly.
>>17003435
have no fuckin idea
i am never happy
OP Here,
Maybe your question to me is what makes me happy?
idk yet, i am really trying things out like trying new sports, playing acoustic guitar (i love that shit also a noob tho).
for the end of the month i am planning to buy a keyboard, i goddamn love music and i want to something with it.
I am not really looking for love right now but if i find someone who i share interests with i would be so happy i think, idk how it feels to be loved by someone else. But do i really need love?
My baby, spending good time with my wife, travel, hookers and escorts, a successfully finished project, watching sports, drinking with my best friends, buying art, surprising my wife.
Life is good.
>>17004393
I think we all do. BTW, I don't know how it feels to be loved either. I should look into it before I graduate from high school.
Coffee in the morning. Napping next to someone else. Seeing progress with my exercise. Learning something new. Being on a boat.
>>17004408
OP here again, i am in college right now and i still dont know, maybe it has something to do anxiety. I fucking hate it
>>17003435
Binge eating
But it also makes me sad
>>17003435
mostly working on new projects, and finishing old ones. i like when something tangible get sdone.
in between, hanging out with friends.
>>17004470
I reckon that my deal is with my lack of confidence. I could try to give you some tips about anxiety but I suffer from it too.
>>17004519
Maybe we can help eachother somehow someway, i can always use tips and some advice
>>17004566
I can't see how. I don't talk about my problems. My lack of confidence is camouflaged with a strong attitude and an egocentristic personality, so I hate to look like I need help. Makes me feel weak. BTW I suffer from bruxing due to my anxiety.
How about you, anon?
>>17004617
Im suffering of a depression, i cant focus on things, i had 2 funerals the past 2 months, everytime i am bored i get lost in my mind with negative thoughts, its like i can trust no one, it feels like i cant even trust myself
Beautiful little girls!
>>17003435
Being helpful to others, overcoming a fear, resisting a temptation, being patient with an annoyance, and staying calm during difficult times that would make others lament.
Those are my happiest moments, happier than any fleeting amount of pleasure from fun, excitement, validation, novelty, or ambitious gain.
>>17004678
That's fucking terrible. I don't even know what to say. I wish I would be a good advisor. I am too more of a listener.
But... what if you dial a random phone number and ask them if they want to listen to your shit.. and start talking if they do? Maybe it's cool.
>>17004883
I dont want to lose friends, Maybe they will listen but do i really want to give my problems to someone else, Maybe they keep thinking about it day in day out, i dont want that to happen. My head is a god awful place
>>17003435
Nothing really, not anymore.
Only thing that still gives me a flicker of light, like a distant echo of what it could be to be happy, is helping people. Doesn't matter who, doesn't matter with what. That's why i'm here, after all.
A while back, i managed to convince myself that i don't need to be happy, that my life essentially belongs to the community. That I must keep going as long as i'm able to provide some useful service to others.
If i chose to believe any decent or modern philosophical ideas, where my life is my own and my happiness/fulfillment matters, i'd have killed myself long ago. This way, i'm somehow still going.
>>17004967
If they are your friends, they'll understand. Think about it, you'll help them if they were in your place. You have to be realist, tho. They won't live for you, or get your shit together, that's your job.
>>17005019
That's awful. You're but a robot: made to serve. You never think about yourself? You and your problems are as much important as they and their problems.
Nothing anymore
