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>Have GF of 3 years
>Hang out with other girl a lot for a few months
>Get pretty sure she's attracted to you, try to gain vanity from it, even though you wouldn't act on it because you love your GF
>Still want to know for sure she's attracted to you mainly for the thrill of it but it starts to develop a "what if" kind of thinking, get guilt from it
>Today hang out with her, she's unhappy in her own relationship, ask advice, keeps mentioning someone else she's attracted to
>Pretty sure it's me
>I ask deliberately if it's me because I feel there's some chemistry between us
>She says it isn't, it's actually a friend of mine she barely interacts with ! She says he's just a way of getting away from her relatonship which have many issues (long distance for 5 years)
>Since I'm not single don't care much from it but still my ego is hurt
>We both don't care and still consider ourselves friends, obviously she doesn't judge me since she's in the same situation.

Now I wouldn't have acted on it but I was mad. 1h after I didn't care and realized my relationship was much, MUCH important.

I confessed this to my GF. She told me it was harmless, just normal pride.

But I DID left out the part when I confronted the girl about being attracted to me. Just told her it made me mad, that I wanted her to be attracted to me. My GF told me there was a difference between temptation and acting on it and she was pretty sure I would never do it (she's right about it).

Was it still an honest confession ? I did tell her about the thrill, the being flattered part. But the fact is that when I confronted this girl I really expected a good outcome and the fact that it wasn't what I thought was just like I was a single guy being turned down (I mentioned that as well, again I only left out the part when I told the girl "well I think maybe I'm the one you're talking about because there's some chemistry between us ?)