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Hello, quick question. So my wife is a stripper, I always was able to give her the trust that it was just a job and paid the bills and not interfere with us. So money has been tight and so on. One night I found that she was not at the club and at rich man's house. I confronted her, she told me to stay out of her life and all that. Then she told me she did the same stuff at work just with a bigger cut. I said OK. I then looked at her search history one day and found spanking and daddy related BDSM role-playing stuff. Furious, I confronted her since porn was off limits for us both. Now she admits that she lied to me and over the course of a month, she was doing sadomasochism stuff with him , beating with a belt, spanking, humiliation, dog collars, calling her slave, her saying she liked to get hit..... I can't get it out of my mind and want to kill this guy. Should I forgive this because she claims it was for money or is this a deal breaker. She claims that she only got off on it afterwords and that's the porn thing and won't show me their messages.
Fuck no, get rid of her
She also had a big bruise on her breast that she lied how she got it.
>>17000768
She's obviosly trying to hide stuff and doing things behind your back, e.g. cheating. Either she can cut the shit or get tossed. She's lost any of her ability to be trusted, IMO. I couldn't put up with cheating or hiding, and no one should have to. You'd be better off with a better woman.
>>17000723
>>17000794
Guys OP is a cuck, and is making this entire story up so you will call him pathetic, which is what gets cucks hard.
Best strategy is to ignore him, or gently remind him that he has no wife, and never did, and he should soon move out of his parent's basement or at least clean that hamper full of jizz-encrusted socks.
>>17000794
She has offered to cut him off and get a new phone, just won't let me recover the deleted messages because she says she had to talk like that to keep him on the hook. I also found her looking up their birth signs and "love" which she claims it was how to understand him better. She says it was to help me out with college and that she does not love him and wants me to stay. Now that I am planning to leave she's asking him to watch her dog and claims she needs to do it for money if I leave.
>>17000716
Get rid of her.
That's what you get for letting her strip.
Not everything is about money and I would rather her get a real job than continue to do this.
>>17000812
A cuck does not leave when he finds this out or has dark thoughts about killing said parties. I'm just in a dark spot right now and need motivation for what needs to be done and respect myself.
I'm 25 BTW, I wanna go to college, get a degree and just have a wife who will never hurt me like this. I'm actually pretty handsome and tall. Just scared to get back in the dating game.
>>17000822
She can't be trusted man. It's hard, and it's easier said than done, but i think based on what you said, you'd be better off with someone else. There's too many women out there to put up with that.
>>17000874
Thanks, I appreciate it. I burned a lit of bridges being with my wife but I can't get the image of another man hitting her out of my head.
No problem man, I wish you luck. That stuff shouldn't be acceptable.
Why the flying fuck you're married a stripper? are one of those guys who are scared to die alone and then marry the first whore they met?!
>>17001019
We had a lot in common, same political views, humor, liked the same stuff, our ideal endgame was the same. She is also very beautiful and I did develop an emotional infatuation with her.
>>17001023
How soon after meetibg did you two marry?
>>17001023
yeah but her job says a lot about her, and you just ignored the clearest red flag you could ask for, you just have yourself to blame about that situation, lucky you that you're young, get out of there asap.
>>17001047
2 years
>>17001054
Her parents basically threw her out and that was the only job she could get. I don't think it's impossible to be in a good relationship with a stripper, just really really rare.
>>17001059
sigh... do you really think that 2 years is enough to decide the person who you want to spend your ENTIRE life with? i think you're pretty naive for a 25 yo man
>Her parents basically threw her out and that was the only job she could get.
the only? i will not even elaborate on this because this is just retarded to read.
>I don't think it's impossible to be in a good relationship with a stripper, just really really rare.
news for you, real life is not a hollywood movie.
