QUESTION TO THE LADIES HERE:
If your Gf is waiting till marriage, is it then ok to use porn as a substitute till the time is right, or is that cheating?
>>16999409
Femanon here.
I think it's absolutely fine. Actually I think the use of porn throughout your life is fine - even when you get married and the notion of that being "cheating" has always been confusing to me.
But that being said, I never cared for saving my virginity for my true love. Yeah, it's a nice fairytale, but I would dread being stuck with a partner that I was not compatible with sexually.
So that makes me and (your gf?) very different. I would talk to her about it. If she thinks it's cheating, it's cheating. Same thing the other way around.
>>16999409
Get out now!
Why would you date a girl who wanted to wait until marriage? She's clearly crazy.
>>16999409
Well I wouldn't give a shit but I watch porn too. I do know girls who consider it a kind of "cheating"; not in the same realm as physical cheating but they still don't like it. You're gonna have to ask her, or just do it and hope she never finds out.
>>16999653
Or she has self respect and doesn't want to give her body away and form an emotional bond with someone she'll only be with temporary.
>>16999680
See you in a year when you're making a thread about how having a wife with no sex drive is driving you to cheat.
Don't marry someone if you have no idea if you're sexually compatible.