You ran from issues instead of facing them
All you can do now is tell him what you discovered and hope he wasn't looking to end it

>>16993620
>>16993563
>I broke up with him because we were hurting each other, and suggested we try something new about a week ago. He didn't want to, suggested we try again in a year or two.

i cant stop crying

>>16993563

>I suggested we try something new
You do know that that's code for "I want to fuck someone else/look for someone new and if it fails I'll come back to you" right? You're a fucking retard if you think you can ever take those words back.

>>16994504

You have his number? Give him a call or visit him and ask if you two can meet up to have a long talk.

Stop blubbering and face the problem head on.

>>16994507
I think you may have spent too much time on this board.

When I said 'try something new' I was referring to a new method of settling conflict and expressing our feelings to each other (mostly on my end) by following a few rules like, listen and validate, verbalize your empathy, have something positive to say even in a difficult conversation, etc.

>>16994508
We agreed not to talk for a while (not sure how long). All advice online is telling me to not hit him up for at least 30 days.

>>16994545

and did you explain that to him using those same words or did you say "I think we need to try something new" because there is a huge difference between the two

>>16994545
>don't hit him up for 30 days

Yeah just let him walk right out the door

Just call him and tell him how you really feel.

>>16994504
Stop crying bitch. You kick me out, I'm not coming back. Got me a new pussy, better then yours. You fuck shit up, I move on. You should too.