Girl I've been dating for last 5months has always been weird about kissing/touching her neck. Said she was choked when she was younger and it kind of triggers her if someone touches her throat. Last night while in a sexy session, she put my hand on her throat several time and I choked lightly. Do you think she was secually abused or that she trusts me?
>>16992981
>triggers
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>>16992996
I couldn't think up a good word, agitates? Becomes taken aback?
>>16992981
it sounds like she was abused, definitely do not choke her even if its lightly and even if she wants it, or it upsets her if you dont. she's doing it to hurt herself.
>>16992996
Don't be a dick, OP used it in a normal context.
>>16992981
I feel like most women kind of have this sort of fetish, they don't necessarily have to have been abused, but just like being absolutely dominated, I don't choke a girl, but I'll firmly hold them by their neck and they fucking love that shit. Makes are supposed to be the dominant sex physically, just seems like it's an evolutionary kind of thing