Is it possible for guy virgins over 30 to ever have a sex life without resorting to hookers? Or is that basically the point of no return?
>>16992052
There is always a chance. Don't give up.
change is possible at every age
>>16992052
yep.
just remember you have a better chance with over 30 girls. not 18 year olds.
>>16992373
ehhh.. girls like maturity, I'm 28 and I'm seeing a girl who's 22. Girls like guys who are older than them. and confidence.
>>16992052
Why would anyone go through the trouble of attaining wizardhood then throw it away like that?
>>16992052
This is such a dumb train of logic man. Is sex all you want? Is that all you see in a women? Just a vagina? There's so much more to life and people besides sex. Of course it feels great, of course it's bonding but that's not all there is between two people.
It's always possible. The bigger question is what are you doing for yourself to be able to get laid? Nothing. You're on a board on a sunday complaining.
You need to get out there man. Do something with your hobbies and go out and meet people? Agoraphobic or a recluse? There is online dating.
You have to be the change you want to see. You need to look at yourself critically and really take a moment to examine what you are doing wrong because it's 100% possible and it's never too late to change.
I find this slightly funny cause I know people freaking out about what to do with their lives in general but then on the other side, I know a lot of people worried about getting laid. It's what you make of it. Learn to be comfortable with yourself before you can even consider being with someone to tag along for the journey.
If this really is all about getting laid, then go for the hooker or try to change yourself to fuck the girl you want to fuck.
The upside is that the one you want to fuck wants to be with you and you're not out a bunch of money for 2 minutes worth of pleasure
Whilst this may not be what you're asking, Ill put it here. Sex really isn't that hard. Its hard-wired into your brain, You've seen porn, you understand the mechanics. Don't ever tell a woman you're a virgin, she doesn't need to know. Just don't. Lie. Don't declare yourself a stud, you can say you've only had a few partners, and that's it's been a long ass time. That will explain any percieved lack of performance. But declaring your wizardry upfront is all kinds of ughhh to deal with. Just try to stay calm.
>>16992373
>>16992386
and i am 31 married to a 25 year old.
Just meant you gotta keep it real.
>>16992406
Yeah but he will probably have to bang a few escorts before he realizes that sex is nothing more than stabbing a wet hole with your dick until you cum.
OP can get it out of his system and his desperation will hopefully lessen, as desperation and women are like two like magnets.
>>16992441
sex with someone you actually like is a lot more than that, anon
shit, even sex with someone you dont like is more than that
i think you might be retarded
>>16992052
can anybody answer OPs question without making assumptions about him?
>>16992052
why would it be? girls cant magically detect you are a virgin. at 30 no one would assume. its not like in your 20s when theres a mix of virgins and on virgins.
ergo, she wont know you are a virgin until she has already taken your virginity.
>>16992052
Somewhere beyond the horizon of 25 is the point of no return. Being a virgin at 30 is the tip of the iceberg of all the problems you have. Virginity is just the most visible one to you. Lack of sex is not the issue rather your situation causing your lack of sex is the problem.
>>16992386
>>16992430
What if you like older girls...?
>>16992705
All we can do is make assumptions cause that shit is pretty easy to solve. Plenty of sound advice in here.
>>16992767
dude, the term milf and cougar exist for a reason. It's always possible to snag an older woman just as much as it's possible for an older man to seek a younger woman. It works both ways
>>16992373
>just remember you have a better chance with over 30 girls
im ok with this I like older women.
joo
>>16992052
yes. i have a thing for virgins. lots of girls would be pleased about being your first and not having to worry about you comparing them to other women.
>>16992052
>Is it possible for guy virgins over 30 to ever have a sex life without resorting to hookers?
you dumb. its easy as fuck because the older women get, the more desperate they become. Until they hit the period past their baby viability date.
>>16992052
Yes, you just need to seriously lower your standards and date fat girls. You will get laid and boost your confidence. Do it.
>>16992052
Yes it is possible.
Fat.chicks.
>>16992052
There isnt some magical univesersal formula that decides the moment or day you lose all hope of getting laid with the exception of death or penis amputation.
No one can tell you itll never happen, and assuming so decreases your chances.
Having given you that bit of reality, in general, yes, you might be out of luck.
Keep on lifing champ.
