Hello. Is there a way i can ''purify'' my mind? Everything is so porn-fied. You know the state you get after you fap? The inner-peace, the dettachment from porn. Is there a way i can be like that all the time? To stop being
>that's so fucking hot holy shit i ogtta fap to this now
>damn this image is so hot i need to see it more
Everything ends up in masturbation, and while i see no problem in just fapping to my imagination, i wish i could see at mildly pornographic things without going into a masturbatory rampage, or being blinded by hornyness. All this overly sexualness makes me doubt myself way too much, regarding sexuality, fetishes, and such.
Get laid OP
>>16991370
I do once in a while.
>>16991365
The more you're drawn to porn/sex/etc, the shittier/uneventful your life is.
The thing about masturbation is that it easily becomes something to pass the time with.
You just end up jerking it, because there's not much better to do and it feels good.
It's also easier to get really horn at stuff when there's nothing to occupy your mind. I can tell by personal experience that not having something to work towards is one of the shittiest things in life.
As for the whole clarity after jerking it, you'll never replicate it 24/7. You'll eventually get horny. What you can change is how well you can distract yourself from it.
>>16991365
Do shit outside. That always sobers me up from that mood.
Go hiking or camping or something. Make sure you have no access to porn during.
Yeah you might fap during, but it's really cleansing and refreshing.
>>16991649
>>16991636
Thanks for the advice. But now; is there any way i can reset the things that get me horny? When i'm horny, rarely something won't ''do it ''for me. Is there a way i can de-sexualize my thoughts? As in, looking for example at something barely sexual, and not immediatly getting personal with it?
Reduce your exposure to advertising. Almost everyone who sells anything these days (including those who aren't selling for money) is trying to do it by hooking into your libido. This constant state of low-level arousal takes its toll on a person eventually.
>>16991684
So what you're saying is you get horny too easily?
Honestly the only way to stop that from happening is the opposite of what you want, and that is jerking it really often. Desensitizing yourself to porn and all that is done by masturbating to porn a whole lot.
Either that or just learn to control your urges, as hard as that may be.
>>16992776
It's more of ''sexualizing everything'' thing. I believe it may also worsen due to my OCD. Regarding controlling urges, does it naturally help me grow resistent to meaningless horniness?
>>16992823
Yeah, you can control yourself to a limit. Having OCD could be a big part of the reason why you react the way you do. Also depends on your age, when you're younger you tend to sexualize things pretty damn quickly.
Still, the best thing I can do is repeat my previous advice. Keep yourself occupied, especially your mind. Try and get into exercising as well if you aren't already. Tiring yourself out and having goals in fitness is a really easy way to add structure to your life.
Also, do a little introspection. Think about why you sexualize everything, examine the process your brain goes through when doing it. Maybe you'll find something specific that clouds your mind with urges.
If you want self control you need to learn how to detach yourself from the object of your desire. When you see a fappable image on your screen, don't look at it as something you can fap to. Instead, look at it like it's just some light on a screen. Look at it from an objective point of view instead of a subjective one.
>>16992847
That is a good advice, thank you. The part that annoys me the most is how anything disgusting gets me a ''groin reaction''(pseudo-boner;horniness) just out of intrusive-thoughtness from my OCD. Such as, seeing any black person images (doesn't happen IRL, weirdly and thankfully), seeing any multilation, scat, or anything disgusting, even not sex or fetish related. Then the OCD makes it worse, all the doubting and all. Also, anything sexual or even remotely sexual, as stated, gets immediatly personnal and over-sexualized.
>>16992857
I was actually attempting to do that. Thanks for the advice, anon. I'll keep practicing it.
