>>16984663
I only fuck hookers, so it isn't cheating, is it?

>>16984701
It is if you are in relationship with a person who doesnt know about it

Because he's in the navy, while I'm here alone, and 6 months is too long for me without some kind of intimate human contact.

>>16984750
I'm >>16984701 and you're worse than me, bitch. You should break up.

>>16984734
How is it cheating if I don't live the hookers, don't text them, don't give gifts?

>>16984757
Oh fuck off. Banging hookers on the side is definitely worse.

>>16984771
How is it worse?

>>16984750
You're not only ruining a man's life but the psychological damage you will cause will cost the country hundreds of thousands of dollars.

>>16984757
>>16984771
You are both equally terrible people. You should both equally die completely alone. Equality, people.

>>16984778
>psychological damage
>military

He was already brain damaged for getting into a relationship while enlisted.

>>16984818
Is military the most cucked profession? Seems like almost all of them get cheated on.

>>16984829
It's up there. Military, trucking, contract jobs. Anything where one person has to be gone for extended periods of time spells doom for most relationships. The military is especially bad, though, because you're talking about people between 18-25. Immature kids by all standards. They're not going to handle distance/complicated relationship issues as well as older/more adjusted people.

Cheated on two girls, out of town.

Before I never thought I'd do it, but it goes so easily. Like when it's happening, you feel single. Your brain isn't telling you DUDE RELATIONSHIP LMAO, it's just some distant truth in the back of your head. Even when you're actually fucking the girl.

>>16984844
Did they find out? Did it affect the relationship or you in any way?

I cheat because although we have a great relationship, the sex is missing and he faps to porn a lot. His dick is kind of soft all the time and I want regular sex. My fuck buddy gives me what I need physically.

>>16984875
>I cheat because I'm a terrible human being

Fixed

>>16984771
Fucking hookers is bad but you're being intimate with someone else. Worse.

>>16984868
didn't find out. Honestly I think both girls would have stayed with me if they found out. The first girl I didn't care much about either way, but the second I cared deeply about. I was drunk when I cheated on her. I had to leave her due to distance issues from work...

Anybody remember that show Cheaters on G4?

Fuck....does anybody remember G4?

Almost went home with a woman from the bar last night.

>>16984750
So you're using the man for his status money and emotional sponging but you can't even show a little faithfulness. A real catch you are, I bet the little girl inside you is thrilled you turned into a whore.

>>16984896
Way to lash out at someone giving an honest answer

>>16984875
This by no means excuses your shitty behavior but at least you aren't trying to justify it irrationally

>inb4 beta cuck faggot I already know i am get rekt

I cheated when I was in an online LDR with someone who'd always talk about suicide. At that point I'd realized there was no saving the relationship, but didn't know how to handle suicide threats. Not an excuse, but maybe somewhat understandable based on /adv/ views on LDRs and suicidal bf/gfs.

>>16985106
>I cheated when I was in an online LDR

It has to be a real relationship for it to be considered cheating.

>>16985119
Oh good then I did absolutely nothing wrong :^)

Those who cheat intentionally (ie not while drunk or spur of the moment): do you feel guilt/remorse for your actions?

>>16985124
Yeah, that's what I'm telling you. It's one thing to cheat on an actual partner (that's shitty and low) and it's another to "cheat" on someone you only know from the internet.

>>16985131
Not a cheater but I really doubt it.

I cheat because having sex with other women is a hobby. This is the simplest way I can explain it. I like the chase. I like succeeding. I like the power. I enjoy hookers, I enjoy one night stands, and I enjoy prolonged sexual relationships.

That said, I have never emotionally cheated. I never connect. If I get close, I end it.

I love my wife tremendously. She is my life partner. But she has a different view of sex and sexual relations than I do. If I wasn't cheating, the relationship would have ended long ago. I love my wife too much to let that happen.

>>16985152
>the bliss of never knowing when you're deluded

>>16985154

Not deluded. I've been married four years. Things are great between us.

Different things work for different couples.

I tried to cheat him, but I can't. I love him, everyone else is just a pile of shit for me. I want him to desire me. I want his love... 8 fucking years of relationship and it's been a year that he's behind a cunt younger than me. He gives her all the fucking attention even in the most stupid details but oh he can't even remember that I go to college. He NEVER went to a concert with me, and what? She tells him to go with her to hear a stupid band she likes and HE WENT.
The most stupid part is that she's not interested in him, she's just a whore.
We did threesome. Twice. And I stopped the show because I was about to cry. I cutted myself a lot all the year, I stopped now because I left an ugly scar on my arm.
He's not interested in me anymore, I don't know if he loves me or he unconsciously is with me because he doesn't want to be alone....
I would love to be a cold fucking bitch and leave him, cheat him so he can value me, but I can't....... And everyone else are complete assholes for me....

>>16985197
Let this post guide you, guys. This is how one should treat a woman if you want her to stay faithful.

>>16985205
Stick your dick in crazy and let the pieces fall where they may?

>>16985187
Just because your relationship is without bumps because you're lying to her does not imply you have a good relationship. You can justify it all you want but your life doesn't love you. She loves the image she has of you based on the image of the person you've shown her. She doesn't know the real you. The real you is a cheater and a liar. You can tell anon you're fine and it's no big deal but after the years fade by the realization will set in that the woman who you spend your time with has not ever nor will ever know you. You will never allow yourself to be known, and you will be alone all your life.

>>16984663
When I was 14, I cheated on my boyfriend. I mean, we hadn't even had sex. I was a virgin, so was he. But he was possessive. Kept angstly telling me he was an hero if I broke up with him. He would yell at me if I made other female friends.

So I kissed another guy at a party to make him break up with me.

This is the only time I have cheated. And it was like 12 years ago, and I was practically a child.

But I felt trapped and afraid and knew that the only way this psycho was going to leave me alone was if I made him break up with me.

However, in return, he told everyone we had sex and that I was whore and yadda yadda yadda. It was like split half/half on our high school class of who believed him and who didn't. I literally did not care. I just wanted him to leave me alone.

When he started doing the same thing to other girls after me (attempting suicide, being obsessive) people started to realize he was full of shit though.

>>16985205
I'm >>16985197 I ALWAYS been faithful for him, he tried to suicide a couple of times and I always been there for him for all the troubles he had. He almost lose his house because of his fucking crazy father and debts problems. My faimly help him.
I always gave him all my love and company in every single moment of this 8 years. And I'm very open with the sex, I love it, but he's the only one in my world. You think I deserve this shit? That this treat is ok? Thank you anon. Thank you

>>16985119
I think LDR's are pretty fucking stupid desu.
But if both parties agree to date, then it is a relationship. Maybe doomed to failure, but what relationship isn't, statistically. It's definitely cheating if you agree to date. You say "Let's be in a monogamous relationship" and that isn't just invalid because you said it over Skype. Both partners are real people. I would get if you said those jap pillow relationships arent real, and it's okay to cheat, but a LDR consists of two living people.