A girl that I'm close to and was pretty sure we can get a relationship going pretty soon told me today that I am acting "Cold" or I am a "Cold person" way too often for her to have a relationship with me and that I need to change that.. Yes I know I am a bit "closed" person, but I don't really think I've been acting cold with her..
What the hell does that mean? Can someone explain who's experienced in this? What does a woman want and what do I need to do?
Really need to sort this out and change for the better if possible, all tips appreciated.
>>16984201
Stop being a buzzkill and focus on positive shit instead of looking at faults in; society/people/ideologies etc.
Show empathy towards others, be a nice person. This isn't hard anon.
Basically she's saying your a dick and you should get over yourself or else she won't put up with your shit. So get your act together
>>16984201
>relationship going pretty soon
>acting "Cold" or I am a "Cold person"
she desperately want's you to make the next move (body contact, kissing, asking her out on a date, whatever comes next). she feels like you aren't really interested at that point. hurry the fuck up anon
>>16984211
Fuck man I kiss with her on a daily basis, hugs and all shit maybe it's just not enough or it doesn't feel sincere for her..
I think it's the way I act towards other and all that more than her.
>>16984209
Are you serious? Do girls really don't like when I talk shit about others and all that? Cause I do that a lot and I think that might me my problem.. but I just can't ignore when someone does something retarded.. I guess I really need to change huh, will try to be a nice person from now on desu, maybe that will make me feel better too.. any tips?
any more tips ?
My bf is kinda cold towards me too.. but I know that he doesn't mean it. What I think feels cold about him is that I rarely catch him smiling all the while I can't stop being bubbly and smiley when he's around. Kissing and cuddling can feel cold when someone is only affectionate in these situations but not in others..
>>16984201
in my experience its really easy to take anything a girl says and spin it into a positive.
>anon you seem like a cold person
>Maybe... but when I'm with you, I feel so warm.
its cheesy but it works everytime I Do it.