How do I stop being so secretive? Or should I even stop that? I rarely talk with people about what I did, what I feel and things like that. I mostly talk about things we both were part of, jokes or interests (with exception to music, don't like talking about it). I honestly think if my sense of humour was worse I would stop talking with people at all. I'm pretty sure that people I know aren't sure of my sexuality cause I never say who is attractive to me. Even know I'm browsing in incognitto mode. I know it's not most secure way to browse but it still gives me some comfort.
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>>16967895
>I rarely talk with people about what I did, what I feel and things like that.
Do that more
>>16968181
You see that's my problem because I can't actually do that, I feel really uncomfortable doing that
>>16968188
Why does feeling uncomfortable prevent you from doing it?
>>16968194
Because I feel like I'm exposing myself too much when people know things about me.
>>16968197
So then why do you want to reveal more about yourself? It seems contradictory
>>16968204
I'm also asking if I even should do that.
>>16968207
What would be different if you were less secretive / more revealing? What are the pros and cons?
I'm the same way. No one needs to know what I did in my life. I can't help it and people do yell at me for it. People think I'm too private or that I'm even lying to them. I say don't change, it's part of who you are.
>Them: How was your weekend?
>'Doesn't deserve to know I drank with friends so hard that I threw up in the backseat of their car. That I almost burned my eyebrows off fooling around the bonfire. That we relaxed and watched a movie afterwards"
>Me: Not bad, you?
TFW my friends are guitarists and they don't know I can play as well as them.
>>16967895
I'm the same way. What I did was just found a couple of friends who love talking (about themselves), so all I have to do is to listen and then found a SO who makes me so comfortable that I don't really mind sharing some things with him. There's nothing wrong with being a private person, you just have to build your social life accordingly.
>>16968211
You are real therapist mate.
Well I don't really know that's why I'm asking. I'm might be throwing people away.
>>16968221
That pic looks like you're trying to make fun of me, but I'm not sure
>>16968227
Thanks, that's sounds good, you're probably right
>>16968233
If you read the post, you would know.
