I love my husband to be with all my heart but.... He is kind of sexually numb. He used to masturbate up to 10 times a day when he lived alone and since meeting, it has deceased dramatically but our sex life is so boring.
He is rarely horny and having sex is a thing we do mostly for me.
It has really been bothering me lately. That sexual passion is just not there... which is a shame because that's what turns me on the most; seeing him really horny.
What should I do? I am scared that this will bother me more after we get married.
As a guy who use to fuck a female like 3-4 times a day and going steady with a girl for 3 years , fucking about 1-3 times a week. I can say it gets boring as fuck being with the same woman especially when there not bringing anything to the table , just laying there. Experiment or find out what turns him on
>>16966347
We have been together for 5 years, I have tried experimenting but he is not interested, you name it and I have tried it (not just once either). It was always like this, even at the start.
It's like his horny feelings are dead..
brak up
Talk about it with him, maybe it's just your idea, or maybe he tells you what's wrong. if it bothers you too much dump him. Can't blame him for getting bored of fucking the same girl over and over. If you think getting married is gonna solve everything you are headed for divorce, talking your differences comes first. Good luck
>>16966340
>10 times a day
Now that's impressive
>>16966360
he needs testosterone and viagra.
do you make out sometimes?
>>16966340
I will fuck you instead.
>>16966423
Yes we make-out daily but If i am honest, I don't like making out with him too much because while I get horny, he doesn't and so I am left feeling frustrated.
>>16966396
We have spoken about it numerous times over the years and it's something I, for the most part, accepted. But it bothers me a lot every now and then.
>>16966821
Well you could try couple's therapy. If there's that big of a disconnect between the two of you you should try to speak to a professional if you can. If you think this is a major issue then it's going to be a drain on your relationship. Just try to keep open and honest with him about your feelings.
Get a lover to satisfy you sexually, there's nothing wrong with that, after all, your husband is not satisfying your sexual needs, it's his fault, not yours.
You don't even have to divorce him or anything and nowadays there are a ton of websites that help you find a guy nearby interested in having an affair
>>16967056
seconding this if you're really serious about marrying this guy
>>16967080
don't do this, good fucking god what grade are we in again
Does he still masturbate (possibly when you're not looking)? Chances are he's porn-addicted and desensitized. I watch porn and masturbate maybe three times a day and I feel like I'm not as excited as I should be when I have sex with my fuckbuddy. If he changes those habits and has sex with you as his only source of pleasure, he'll become horny soon enough. If he doesn't, he's probably depressed or otherwise in need of a doctor's visit.
>>16966340
Have seriously considered maybe trying another partner? Not for a relationship, mind you, but to enjoy for a few hours
