hello /adv/
please help me, im scared shitless of flying. i hate it. and i booked a flight to tomorrow morning.
I've felt like skipping it a thousand times but i dont know if i can do it...
I know its very safe bla bla bla. but something about flying the damn thing leaves me very unsettled.
I feel like im walking right into my own grave.
anyone here a regular flyer you can calm me down ;_;
Think about it like this, a flight from new York to London takes 6 hours. Your only other option to get there is to take a ship which takes 7 fucking days, and surprise those things go down sometimes too, same with trains busses and cars.
>select all boats
Flying is a boring, smelly, cramped (in steerage anyway), loud affair. It isn't fun and it isn't scary. The fun part is getting out on the other side.
I focus on breathing and being in my body--I tell myself this same flight has happened thousands of times and it's all good. I then distract with books, music, hobbies.
I take anti-anxiety tablets on ships as I'm even more certain those are going down. I've always believed I will die by drowning--which is just me fucking with myself.
If you need medication for flying, then you do. I always take anti-nausea medicine for flights.
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I could've gone with a train. it would be a 24h trip instead of a 3h but fuck it atleas i would feel like shit
Have everything super prepared so there are no issues. Get there early.
Try to sleep a little less the night before then take a beta blocker before you get the airport and something like a nytol an hour before you get on the plane.
Sleep the entire journey and forget about it.
Medication might not be a long term solution, but it sure as fuck solves mini-issues like this.