Has anyone here gone to a prostitute/escort ?
Was it a fun/okay experience ?
I've been thinking about this for a while.
Just want to get this virginity thing over with.
>>16956122
I gone with quite a few but never went as a virgin.
What you get all depends on what you're willing to pay.
>>16956122
OP, If you go to an escort just to lose your virginity then you might be in it for the wrong reasons.
Losing your virginity as a man is a rite of passage and you have to overcome certain hurdles in your character to get it done. It's not so much about "penis in vagina" as it is "becoming a man".
You'll be able to say that you're not a virgin, sure, but deep down you might feel different about it. Just saying though, everyone's different.
>>16956157
Don't listen to this roastie anon. If you do it just go in with realistic expectations.
>>16956157
What a bunch of crock.
>Lose your virginity to a cheap whore
>Lose your virginity drunk at a party
>Lose your virginity to a girl you date for a year or two and well never see again.
All of them are experiences and experiences are what make you a man
Why do you think your life will be any different once you've stuck your benis in a bagina
>>16956183
Just like swiping your credit card. That's an experience to be had for sure.
>>16956205
Spoken like a person from privilege
>>16956205
>Thinking the hardest part about buying something illegal is the parting with money.
>>16956189
It basically feels like you're missing out if you're not having sex.
I think other guys are glad/happy to say:
Hey, I'm not a virgin anymore, I finally know what it feels like.
>>16956224
Memes aside, if you didn't get laid by the time you finished high school it's not the end of the world but it's definitely looked down upon if you're a guy. And if you didn't get laid by the time you're done with undergrad/turning 23 you definitely missed out on a lot.
if you really want sex and can afford it then just buy it, it quicker than all that relationship crap.
However if what you are really lacking is a the relationship crap then a prostitute won't fill that void.
But feeling like you have to lose your virginity because everyone else has, then you really need to rethink why you are so desperate.
>>16956243
How is this considered decent advice ?
>>16956256
It means if being a virgin sperglord bothers you this much then just get it over with before you do more harm to your mental health.
>>16956158
>>16956210
Yay, another uselss tripfag who thinks 4chin has a like button!
>>16956264
>complains about trip bro
>says the problem is with giving attention to trip bros
anon logic everybody
>>16956122
If you're just horny (which is fine!), I say go for it.
If you're also interested in romance, it might make you feel bad afterward. Do it with someone you care about, and all that.
>>16956264
Just use a trip filter, lad.
>>16956243
>And if you didn't get laid by the time you're done with undergrad/turning 23 you definitely missed out on a lot.
Oh shit someone please tell me he is bullshitting.
>>16956281
>sex isn't a major part of your early 20s
Hello /r9k/bot
>>16956283
Dude I am nowhere near the level of those autists.
I'm perfectly normal apart from being insecure as fuck.
>>16956122
yes definitely if the escort looks like pic
god I'd pay her for a week and tell my gf I have to attend to a seminar overseas.
>>16956281
Sadly no.
From say 17 to 25 you can more or less uninterrupted sex, added benefit of everyone being horny as sin, parents that work in the day and long summer holidays.
As soon as you enter to adult world the time for sex becomes a luxury thanks to things like, full employment, flat mates home when you are, hormones balancing out, tiredness from long commutes.
Its not the end its just an entirely different sexual experience... more controlled and organised.
>>16956122
OP I lost my virginity to an escort and it calmed my nerves when having sex for reals later on. Do it. And feel free to ask me anything.
>>16956281
yes if you live in some parts of Asia where it is a norm to have sex after marriage and the vast majority of people have never had more than one relationship and having sex outside of marriage is considered very naughty.
virginity is cancer
go get it treated
and live a long healthy life
no more butthurt
no more tears
>>16956323
This guy gets it. Get it over with and be happy.
I felt like a late bloomer getting laid at 17. But, truthfully it's the right age, and if you have sex younger, it's really desperate, trashy, and slutty on all involved parties.
If you can afford it then buy it. If not, go find yourself a chubby uggo to bang. Sex is only as big if deal as you make it. At some point you will find yourself in a meaningfull relationship and have the best ever because you're doing it all the time/close to that person.
Then you'll be single and random hook ups and getting laid is just a step above masturbation.
Life is an adventure. Go get laid.
>>16956307
Logically doesn't make sense. Say I'm working full time, I have a GF, wouldn't we still be able to like like teenagers during time off work?
>>16956122
Seems like a biohazard to me.
>>16956369
*live like
>>16956361
>>16956361
>>16956361
Ah OP this is true.
It's all about the emotional arousment attached to the person. Being intimate with someone who is or more willing than you is incredible.
Whores are fine but don't expect them to be as involved, most will just be pretty mechanical and go through he motions. Of course, the higher priced ones that enjoy their job are great though.
Good luck OP.
It's not a big deal. Get it over with if you want to.
>>16956369
It's painfully obvious you're under 26. The hotness of spontaneity goes out the window past 25. When you're young dumb and full of cum it's a different story.
>>16956223
>thinking breaking the law is difficult or a legitimate rite of passage at all
>>16956417
>that cunty argument
>>16956417
Its not illegal in certain parts of America. There are legal brothels so your legality argument is invalid. Please vacate immediately.
I've had sex twice a day for 8 years. Do the math. 5844 times
That's what you've missed out on by being a virgin.
Saving that special moment bullshit. You're Vcucked dude. Cockblocked by your own fears.
Once you lose your v the chains are off.
a free man, smashing stuff with your crowbar.
>>16956464
no one cares about how much you plugged your dick into blubber
>if you can afford it
wtf?
who doesn't have $10?
use it or lose it. wait too long and you'll need a pill for that. virgin in your 20s, you already have erectile dysfunction
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2626PEzKkJE
I like to think of prostitution as getting to have sex with a woman who is so far out of your league that you'd never get that chance under normal circumstances.
it's prostitution one way or another
there's no such thing as free sex
unless you're chad, then girls buy you drinks
and take you out to dinner
and pay your rent
Do NOT do this for your first experience. You may not realize this but your first experience is going to sort of "wire" your brain for that going forward. There will be no emotion from an escort and this will train your brain. This is why so many sexual survivors are so fucked up. Their first experiences were ones of coercion or deviousness, it happens when their brain is still developing, and sex is a powerful experience and now they have a wired predilection for that.
If you envision yourself wanting a long term relationship I would hold out until you get a girlfriend dude. I'm not saying escorts are bad but just not when you are young and definitely not for your first time. Free will dictates so its up to you. Remember what Chris Rock said - Life isn't short...its loooooong. Good luck.
>>16956576
>vigilantes irl
lmao
>>16956600
really?
I'm looking at backpage pics and jesus christ
i'd rather stay a virgin
>>16956739
>>16956739
There are some really ratchet girls on BP but there are also some banging hot ones that I'd never get a chance with otherwise. It's even more skewed towards banging hot when you go to upscale legal brothels.
>>16956122
My Advice OP is put yourself on Craigslist or similar looking for a regular girl to help you out, or who could use some extra cash.
Then be honest with them
The experience will be way better, and less nerve wracking. This is pretty much my sex life, and I find it very gratifying. Escorts on the other hand are filthy, dishonest creatures, and you will likely regret the experience.
