Tinder help
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>Be 21 also male
>never had a gf
>make a tinder along with my friend
>swipe right on every girl who seems nice, trying not to judge on looks
>get two matches after a week and they don't speak to me whilst my friend has 12+
>feel rejected
>delete account
So I'm planning to give tinder another shot, not now but in a few weeks. My friend made an account and matched with a lot more girls, he got like 12 matches in a few days. Pretty jealous but also confused seen as when we go out, which is rare, girls never approach him whilst I've been approached quite a few times.
I don't think it's the way I look, not super thin or fat just average but I started going to the gym about 2 months ago and have stated putting on muscle)
So I've thought that it could be:
a) Pictures aren't very good, no group shots (I have few friends), none in interesting places. I have a picture of my dog?
b) My bio was pretty cringey when I read it back after a week of not being on it before deleting my account
c) I didn't have that many interests becasue I never like things on facebook
d) Have mid-length hair in some pictures and short hair in others.
What would potentially stop a girl swiping right?
yeah pictures are everything. No pictures in your house. avoid selfies. avoid huge group shots. avoid too many pictures with the same theme
1 hobbie photo
1 photo with a friend
1 photo of you just naturally
keep it clean with the bio. don't do anything premature (eg. just here for dates or i want a gf or something). and keep it short and congruent to your personality.
>>16954904
I have no outside hobbies, except for the recent addition of the gym. I read, listen to music and fiddle with my keyboard (not a euphemism). I don't leave the house except for gigs and work.
>>16954933
well keep working on yourself. become dateable
Tinder is totally impersonal. Learn how to take good selfies ( I know it hurts ). Keep swiping right. Respond immediately. Keep it quippy and flagrantly flirty.
