Hello /adv/,
I suspect that my little brother is molesting my little sister (brother is in his teenage years, sister is much younger). The thing is, I'm not entirely sure and thus I don't have any evidence to prove this. How would I go about confronting my family about this issue and how could I get him charged? What should I do?
I live in the UK, if it's any help.
You need to gather evidence, dingus.
You could try confronting him and try the hard threat approach.
"Hey <broanon> how's it going! So I've been noticing something funny going on with <sisanon> and just thought I'd let you know :): if I find out you've been touching her I'm going to chop your balls off before turning you over to the police so they can throw your ass in jail where Jamal can have his way with you all night long. K? Have a good one :).
I wouldn't confront your family about it.
Parents can do insane mental gymnastics to block out what's really going on.
As soon as you get anything more concrete to take to the cops, go to the cops.
>>16953837
Do this.
>>16953839
This
Holyshit, because your the older child you aint getting through your parents thick heads.
>>16953837
My parents would think I'm insane and kick me out.
>>16953819
tell us how you came about these suspiscions
Evidence (baby monitor/cam for a while?)
I don´t like this idea much myself, but what other proof can you get?
>>16953910
I think I heard my brother through the wall saying "you can't tell anyone" in a quiet voice, to which my sister replied "why not?"
>>16953915
I'll try and obtain one. It can be used as evidence in the courtroom, right?
>>16953923
is that all of your suspicions? cause i mean as kids we told secrets and said the same thing you know? Im not saying that isnt a good suspicion though
>>16953932
Like I said, he's in his teenage years.
another bump
>>16953819
Once I showed my niece a flash game called yetisport when she was young
So she was always talking about the yeti
I showed her pics of yetis and told her the yeti would eat her if he was there
The pic showed a yeti with his mouse open and instead of a penis a large hair area.
Then she told her mother: I'm scared anon showed me the yeti pics. Yeti had a long chouchou(vagina in kids french) and wanted to eat everything he was hungry. Arhhhh arg !!!
Sister took it as:"He showed me porn where a guy with a big dick was hungry for cocks"
Sister freaks out and call my mother who come to ask me what did I showed to my niece.
I've never been that angry in my life. I never liked my sister whos into some pretty weird new age shit and believes everything paranormal and that was just too much.
Ppl tends to be extremely paranoid so be careful anon what you told us doesnt mean anything.
>>16954028
This.
Quietly investigate, say nothing to anyone irl. Especially your sister. Do NOT ask her. You're not a person specialized in deciphering abused-kid babble and the specialists suck too...If you get concrete proof, real concrete proof, go to the police.
Also watch The Hunt with Mads Mikkelsen. Mostly because it's good but also because it's accurate.
The first thing you think of is to involve the cop?
That's fucked up man. I know she's your sister, but he's your brother.
If he hurt her you'll ruin his life without fixing hers, and if he didn't or if it can't be proven you'll still ruin your family.
>>16954043
>you'll ruin his life
lol
>you'll still ruin your family
it's worth the risk. She could be getting molested and her safety is far more important than keeping this family together, or the life of some downs-looking ugly inbred little shit.
last bump
>>16954065
I don't see how you can say lol at the idea of ruining one's own brother's life, regardless of what he did.
>>16954172
My brother is felon. I've stuck by him on some things, and not on others. There's really big difference between crimes like theft and rape.
>>16954043
So because going to jail would be stressful for OP's brother he has to let his underage sister be a sexual martyr? You abusive son of a bitch. You evil subhuman shit. Found the fucking rapist/wife beater guys.
Oh, and inb4 "But I'm not".
You think like one, and given the chance, you would and you will.
People like you disgust me.
>>16954172
letting your brother go for stealing a car part and letting him go for raping a kid are very fucking different things dude
at least confront your brother about it and tell him you'll kick his ass if he ever does it again if nothing else
ITT: OP sounds like a cunt who has it out for her brother and possesses no definitive evidence but wants to ruin his life regardless.
>mfw reading OP's responses to people saying you should be reasonable about this and not jump to conclusions
Seriously, how fucking petty are you? What a cunt. I hope your family fucking disowns you.
>>16954492
Great. No one gives a shit.
Get off 4chan you sensitive faggot.
Reddit sounds right up your alley though.
>>16954750
I'm male you worthless sack of shit
you have no argument aside from "you're a cunt XD"
I stated (if you actually read the thread) why I suspect him
>>16953819
>tarnishing a Nightwish image with this b8
For shame, anon.
If you're being real, then set up hidden CCTV obviously.
>>16954043
This. What the hell are you thinking anon?!?
>cops take your brother in
>government will take your sister with foster parents because she's not safe with your senpai
>your parents will be left with the legal bill, strain the marriage, fight each other
>you will shoulder most of the blame
>little sister gets raped and abused by members of foster family
>your entire family destroyed because you went to the law like an autist
Either confront your brother directly, or inform your father once you think you've got enough info to convince him. Do not get the authorities involved. In America we call things of this nature "family matters", don't know how the UK handles their business.
Buy hidden cameras and place them around the house. (living room, her room, his room, etc)
>>16953832
this
>>16953837
idiot
>>16953839
this
>>16954039
this
>>16955003
I can see this happening. It would be wise to keep a spare copy of the video once you obtain it and hide it somewhere safe. Show your parents one copy and if they won't do anything (send your brother to boarding school or something) then go to the police as a last resort.
>>16954065
I know a family where the daughter has schizophrenia and falsely accused the dad of raping her.
Torn their family apart and fucked everything up, just saying get concrete proof brah
OP don't listen to these pedos telling you to set up cameras and get yourself arrested for making child pornography. tell your parents you have a boner, they'll protect your sister. they aren't going to believe your lies about your little brother. he's their favorite.
>>16954936
You are also a delusional asshole willing to ruin your brother's life with no definitive evidence whatsoever.
Who the fuck are you supposed to give the benefit of the doubt to, if not family?
>>16955590
you don't give benefit of the doubt when it comes to protecting children. If OP thinks his little sister is hurting his little brother, he has an obligation to act on his suspicions. Pull her little panties down and spank that filthy whore. Little boys should only be playing with other little boys at his age. She could damage him for life.
>>16953819
>tfw Tarja Turunen will never go back to Nightwish
;_;
>>16953837
Why the fuck would he just randomly accuse his own brother of this shit. Fucking misandry in our culture, I swear.
This entire thread is disgusting.
Everyone is so willing to see this guy destroy his own brother's life and tear apart his own family WITH NO FUCKING EVIDENCE.
>>16955680
>brother may be committing child abuse
>OP thinks he should stop it
>Misandry
>>16955693
>Absolutely no fucking evidence
>Suspecting his brother of a terrible crime just because he's a male and may be keeping a secret that his sister knows about
He has literally no fucking evidence that anything like molestation is even occurring. All he has is what he THOUGHT he heard through the walls. He suspects this terrible crime purely based on the fact that his brother is a male.
What if it had been two sisters? Would he suspect the same thing then? Didn't think so, asshole.
Misandry in its purest form.
The police know how all this shit goes down. it's always the guilty party that reports sexual abuse suspicions against someone else. trying to shift the blame, and acting like a hero.
OP probably did something to both of them. It will come out in the investigation.probably.
>>16955700
>Misandry in its purest form.
Which, like misogyny, racism, etc...is based on truth. Just like we shouldn't let people die in burning buildings for "equality," we shouldn't turn a blind eye to a potential crime for it either.
my other posts in this thread have all involved him gaining actual evidence because moral panic about child molestation is crazy, children can be coached by crazy adults, etc.
Abused kids tend to be more open about sex, if you want to see how far he's gone with her, try and seduce her yourself.
op tried to molest his little brother, and the little dude called him faggot. so to get revenge against his straight brother, he's bearing false witness. thinking the parents will move the boy into his bedroom to protect the little girl. then no one will believe the little boy when he cries wolf.
>>16953923
>I think I heard my brother through the wall saying "you can't tell anyone" in a quiet voice, to which my sister replied "why not?"
Is that fucking all your suspicions are based on? It could be fucking anything. I used to say that to my brother's every time they caught me doing something bad, does that mean I raped all of them? Get real, you paranoid schizo.
>>16954756
>I'm oversensitive for thinking little girls shouldn't be raped
>I'm a faggot because I think the law should be involved if a little girl was raped
How many pedophiles are there here? I know, I know, lots of people shitpost about it. But really?
Really?
You're anti reporting child rape?
You're actually ok with the idea of a little girl being held down and ripped open by an adult/teenagers penis?
You find that more ok than sending the criminal to jail?
Because it would hurt his feelings?
REALLY?!?
Kill yourself.
>>16955902
There is ZERO evidence that anything like that is even going on, you retard. Just because he's a boy doesn't mean he's fucking raping people.
>>16955902
Nice emotional argument with zero basis in fact, anon.
I too feel that we should ruin all men's reputations at the drop of hat should even one person harbor a thought that they may not be a saint of a human being despite lacking any evidence to back up such an assertion.
>>16955905
There's a suspicion.
>>16955913
See above. If he didn't rape her, he doesn't need to be worried about his brother looking into it.If more evidence is found, the police can and should be involved. Sorry I'm not a raging misogynist guys.
Christ.
>>16955921
People are advocating acquiring evidence before acting rashly.
You are advocating starting a witch hunt based off of presumption alone.
There is a difference. Don't sit here and pat yourself on the back with bullshit sarcasm like
>SORRY IM NOT A MISOGYNIST GUYS JEEZ
You insignificant little prick.
Fucking pedos all over in this bitch, trying to protect their own.
>>16955935
I hope pedos get beaten and raped in prison.
I hope innocent men don't.
I presume innocence until proven guilty, guess I must just be whacky pedo like that huh? ... believing in our due process and what-not.
