asexuality
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I never thought it was weird that I hardly ever masturbate, and don't enjoy it when I do. It just doesn't occur to me. But apparently that is anomalous behaviour.
I do get attracted to people, but I'm hardly ever horny. Only on my period do I get horny or experience real sexual attraction.
I really wish I was as interested in sex as most people. It makes me feel pretty inadequate when I'm in a relationship.
Is there a way to change this? Or will I have to just make the most of it?
Why would you want to change this? I'm asexual myself, and I think that's pretty great. Not having to worry about getting laid gives you a load of benefits.
If for some weird reasons you actually want to be more sexual, try taking the pill, some women get more horny from it, some less. (Mostly less)
Alternatively, try to reward yourself whenever you do get slightly aroused. Simply thinking to yourself "Wow, I'm horny, that's great" does the job.
>>16952763
It just seems like a hindrance relationship-wise. Most people aren't okay with not having much sex.
>>16952888
I guess as a girl that is indeed a problem. Then again, people are more acceptive of all forms of sexual deviance if you're female, so maybe you should be more open about your asexuality so if someone's interested in you they know what they're getting into.
