you can do better
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there's a girl I'm crazy about, I care about her a lot more than anybody I've ever cared about before
but she is just not that pretty, I am attracted to her for other reasons and I've had a few people ask me why I am "dating down" with her rather bluntly
almost all of the time I feel like I don't care and that it doesn't matter since she makes me so happy, but last night when we were kissing quite passionately for some reason I opened my eyes and looking at her the most horrible thought flashed through my head "you can do better, she's not good enough" and my stomach just sunk
we kept kissing and after a while it started fading but now I cant stop thinking about the fact that the thought came to my head
what the fuck do I do about this
It doesn't matter what they say, because it's hypocritical.
If you've been here for more than a day you'll know the first thing everyone says to either sex is "lower your standards". And I can tell you from experience that an ugly girl you love is worth a thousand hot girls you have no connection with other than "so hot"
She makes you happy. There is no problem. Other people's shit is their own problem.
Remember op you don't know what you've got till it's gone. Imagine how stupid you'll feel if you dump her and then can't get a hot girl
>>16952184
Hell, imagine how stupid he'll feel if he can get hot girls but can't fall in love again.
>>16952164
You just say that, unlike them, you are not so shallow that looks are everything, and you are in love with the person inside the wrapping and therefore find the wrapping beautiful.
>>16952184
>you don't know what you've got till it's gone
honestly this feels like all I needed to hear. just now thinking about losing her broke my heart and made worrying about looks seem ridiculous. on our first date I was already thinking about how I would be happy to marry her. theres probably no need for any more posts.
>>16952207
yeah I have no trouble with women and getting a girl much hotter than her would be easy, but I don't know if I'll ever meet a girl that I like as much as I like her again, and if I do there's no way she'd be single.
>>16952214
she looks more and more beautiful to me every time I see her I think there might be some kind of love thing that changes how she looks to me, I have a few pictures of her that I keep opening up on my computer and phone just to stare at now even though the first time I saw her before I knew her I practically looked right through her
