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2016-03-24 08:23:50 Post No. 16952125
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2016-03-24 08:23:50
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Alright guys, real talk. I'm worried that my friend is going down the path of a school shooter. He's always had my back but lately he's been ignoring everything that I or anyone else has said about letting go of this girl who just didn't want to be with him. Now he's snapped, and the way he talks about this failed conquest or whatever the shit he thinks it is, it's clear and obvious that these were grooming behaviors. The whole "I did shit for you, you were my perfect angel, why won't you marry me, now my perfect girl has been corrupted," drivel. Every time he wants to approach a girl he basically writes a manefesto. I call it that because every time it's a meticulous plan complete with mission statements, his driving philosophy, lines to rehearse and timed interactions, all revolving around him "earning" a relationship. Not even a relationship, it's him "earning" a person to call his own. He's gone out of his way to make entire videos parsing out the details of his excursions and to be frank, at first I thought these were just autismo behaviors. He's a charismatic, sometimes likable guy, but he's never been good at reading people. Also the kinda dude that'd make a pilgrimage to Waco if he were 15 years older(we're college students). But now, those obsessive behaviors and complete lack of self-awareness is scaring his friends, scaring my friends. And while I'm not unintimidated by the situation, I've always been his voice of reason, and with the limited powers vested in me I've tried to help steer him on a less destructive path. But right now he's like granite. He doesn't care about how what's happened might be his doing, and he isn't interested in learning. He's centralizing blame on everyone else for something that he's not only set into motion but that he's gone out of his way to provoke. It's a bad mix guys. It's given him the moral license to act out, and I had to step in to make sure his ass wasn't beat. Need help.