Thread replies: 4
Thread images: 1
Anonymous
2016-03-23 08:17:42 Post No. 16948065
[Report]
Image search:
[Google]
Anonymous
2016-03-23 08:17:42
Post No. 16948065
[Report]
So about a 5 months ago I made a new group of friends through a girl I work with. We got close and she started bringing me along on casual outings with them. They're all pretty nice and I enjoy the time we spend together. There's one guy, we'll call him T, who she considers her best friend. They've been close for years and years and years.
Recently I've gotten much closer with the girl. And it's suddenly created a lot of tension in the group. It's obvious to anyone looking in that T wants to be with this girl. And I can tell that he's started becoming miserable when I'm around (Which lately has been nearly every day). He's super nice and would never say anything to anyone, always wants everyone to be happy, but I feel awful about it. Whenever she gives me any sort of special attention I can see his face drop, and it makes me feel like I can't enjoy my time with her, or accept the attention she gives and it makes me come across as distant to her, which I don't want
Is there any way I can fix this? Putting myself in his shoes I can totally understand and relate to how he feels, and I'm not sure there's anything someone else could that would make me feel better about it. So I'm stumped
