I want to text my ex SO badly. We broke up a little over 2 months ago. He went no-contact on me, never responded to any of my messages (left quite a few over the course of a month. Ugh.). A week ago he saw me out with a guy at a bar, and according to our mutual friend he was "bothered by it but knew it was to be expected." But then again he could have lied.
It would be too long to post the scenario
Has it been long enough? Should I wait another month? Any of you have stories of things working out after a break up? PLS
You should forget him and move on
In short, he broke up with out of anger. Wasn't the first time we did this, but since the previous times he would get back to me, I figured it would happen again... but I got a little desperado there with how many messages I sent.
>>16940370
I've been trying. I really have. Been hitting up old friends, current friends, trying to meet new friends. I've gone on a date, and then met another guy recently but they were both just looking for a fling/fuck or whatever because I found out one had a gf and the other was a traveler. The friends I have are all in a bad place in their life, or use me, or boring, or don't like the things I do and everything seems so bland and sad and pointless.
>>16940393
You should do what I did and get really super drunk and high and hang out with people that actually want you around.
That made my feels about my ex die really quick
>>16940360
This guy right here >>16940370 is right.
Moving on from a bad relationship is like quitting a bad habit, like drinking or smoking. Sure, you'll miss it. But you know that you'll be much better off and happier for yourself once you distance yourself, physically and emotionally from it.
