Why do people say "yeah man, I'm 100% in" on plans

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2016-03-20 21:04:24 Post No. 16939316
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Anonymous 2016-03-20 21:04:24 Post No. 16939316 [Report]

Why do people say "yeah man, I'm 100% in" on plans and then not really mean it? Especially when it comes to things that are major events and not just weekend plans or whatever?

How do I get people to be clear that they think it's a good idea, but they still need to make a decision? It's driving me crazy. I've been working on all of these plans and now people are saying "well I wasn't really sure I was gonna go anyways." It's like, 4 different things, with different groups of people.

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Anonymous 2016-03-20 21:08:25 Post No.16939324
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Anonymous 2016-03-20 21:08:25 Post No.16939324 [Report]

maybe if they liked you they wouldn't hesitate

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Anonymous 2016-03-20 21:31:56 Post No.16939412
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Anonymous 2016-03-20 21:31:56 Post No.16939412 [Report]

because people are dicks.

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Anonymous 2016-03-20 21:34:30 Post No.16939422
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Anonymous 2016-03-20 21:34:30 Post No.16939422 [Report]

>>16939316
>make many friends
>invite all of them
>at least one will show up
>?????
>profit

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Anonymous 2016-03-20 21:38:47 Post No.16939435
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Anonymous 2016-03-20 21:38:47 Post No.16939435 [Report]

>>16939422

I have a ton of friends - these aren't plans based around me. They're a bachelor party, a trip to visit our friend in California, a beach trip to our friend's condo, and another trip for a wedding.

Getting just one to show up defeats the purpose - all of these trips are contingent on us traveling together.