I hardly seem to be able to cum while with a girl. I used to enjoy my sex life, hooking with different girls at bars or Craigslist and now on Tinder. I can't wait to get them undressed but I'm just not into it once we start.
Yeah honestly I think I'm at that exact same point. So you're not alone there. I would say it's mostly related to the fact that I have a hard time making emotional connections anymore and maybe I'm looking for that genuine emotional connection with someone before I can honestly enjoy my sex life again. The same may go for you
>>16939084
I had a sweet nerdy girlfriend who was really into and I ended up putting up a wall, one argument and just like that we split up. I ignored her attempts to contact me. I didn't want joyless sex with her so I go fucking around and still it's very rare I enjoy it enough to finish.
>>16939037
Sounds to me like you're no longer looking for casual sex I think you're ready to find real love