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Ok so
>>Be me
>17
>Mom died from titty cancer
>Sent to live with abusive ass dad
>Start talking to a girl
>She makes everything feel better
>Lose my virginity to her
>We end up breaking up because at one point my dad became so abusive I just kinda shut down and stopped talking to her
>She feels I'm using her for sex
>Dad puts me in the hospital a few months later
>Put in foster home
>Don't think about her for a while
>Eventually remember her
>Begin regretting letting her think that, begin missing her
>Message her on kik
"Why are you messaging me?
>I cry but apologize
>End of the night, she forgives me but says she has a boyfriend
>Leave it at that, all I really wanted was to apologize
>Months go by again
>Every relationship is failing
>Can't stop thinking about her
>Try every way to contact her
>Finally get a response through instagram
>Catch up
>I miss you lol
>Find out she dumped the boyfriend
>Happyascanbe.jpg
>Then find out she got back with the dude she was with before me
I really love this girl and would do anything for a second chance with her, please anyone help.
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>>16929947
your idolizing her because she represents, in your mind, the way you felt before this particularly upsetting incident with your father.

if you do get with her, it will be disappointing.

you should try and find a way to get over what has happened to you.
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>>16929947
I don't know why you're apologizing when you're the one that had to go through all this shit. Oh, so she talked to you and made you feel better. Not when you were at your worst, she didn't. She gave up on you, and that means that she is not good enough for you.
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We talked and came up with the conclusion that we were terrible people back then.
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>>16929951
This
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>>16929947
FLCL is an amazing show.
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>>16929951
THIS SO HARD!

Seriously. You are in love with the woman you think she is, not the woman she actually is. You must come to terms with what happened to you when you were with your abuser before you can move past it.
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