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>So this female friend is been vague when asked about guys
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>So this female friend is been vague when asked about guys
>She'll say it's just a friend or will deliberately make me think they'll not close
>Will compliment me sometimes
>Has asked if I'm seeing someone
>Sometimes likes looking at me

What's going on here?
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>>16926510
ask her out and she says yes or she doesnt you got a hint now make a move you cant tell if shes teasing or serious any other way
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>>16926510
If she asked if you're seeing someone, definitely make moves, son.
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Why is she vague about guys?
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>>16926517
She was asking if 'girl x' was my girlfriend
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MAKE MOVES
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>>16926523
it literally doesnt matter, dont bother trying to unravel the puzzle you will never get anywhere ask her out if you like her or dont its on you to be rejected thats the price of being a man
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She's just being friendly
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>>16926510
>likes looking at me
lmao dude you sound delusional.
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>>16926564
Caught her noticing me then
Then she'll fix her hair
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Hahaha
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>>16926510
Why
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Should op go for it or nah?
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>>16926918
how many times do I fucking have to tell you, you are never going to get a clear 100% signal you got a hint now if you're interested you have to make a move theres no other way to ever know
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>>16926922
Not even a strong signal lol
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>>16926975
with many women you will not get a strong signal until you show interest and take the pressure off her being the one to escalate things

be a fucking man
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>>16926975
how do you measure her signal ?
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Not OP, but, what exactly is "to make a move"?
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>>16927018
start showing obvious signs of interest like holding her gaze, flirting, and eventually asking her out
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>>16926979
Op is a retard
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C'mon op, you know what to do
Holy shit
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OPs a waffling faggot, holy shit just ask her out you fucking sperg
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>>16927172
Why'd you say that?
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>>16927175
Because you keep thinking about it over and over (sperg) which means you're on the fence (waffling), I used to be like you, so I know what I'm talking about, MAN THE FUCK UP AND ASK HER OUT
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>>16927181
Nah, not op, in kinda a similar situation
What makes you say she'll say yes?
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>>16927196
Dude, it doesn't matter, you're going to drive yourself insane if you don't try, if she says then great, if she doesn't then oh fucking well and move on, but at least you'll know instead of always wondering what could have been
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>So this female friend is been vague when asked about guys
>She'll say it's just a friend or will deliberately make me think they'll not close

Wtf?
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Nah you suck
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>>16926510
>What's going on here?
you like that girl so your wishfully thinkin she likes you back.

ask her out
if say yes then great
if say no then never again talk to her or risk ridicule
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>>16926510

If pic is related go ahead doesn't care if she says no, if pic isn't, go ahead doesn't care if she says no. Don't be a pussy.
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>>16928702
>>16929200
She'll say no lol
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>>16929412
Well fuck off
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>>16929412
I don't think so, He should make a move ,go OP go!. My grandpa before his dead gave me a great advice: if you think a girl likes you , doesn't matter the reasons why do you believe it, kiss her, don't be a pussy. The other advice is make them cum first, stick your meat with rage and force and pull them hair hard when you are banging in doggy style. They will love you.
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>>16930623
Why would you give him false hope?
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>>16930756
Cause he needs be brave. He will never know if she is getting interest on him doing nothing. If he is rejected it doesn't matter, he get some experience in the romance shit!

Why are u so negative!.
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Bunk
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>>16926510

she wants you bro go for it

god damn pic is diamonds fuck
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Id bet she is using you bet
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She thinks you are gay because you ask her about other guys.

She has a gay friend in mind for you.

You probably are.
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>>16932261
>>16930857
Nah, she's playing him
There's been no hints of interest
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>>16932311
Underrated kek
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Dude, why the pussification
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Bro, wtf are you doing?
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>>16927020

a chick I work constantly holds my gaze and flirts and she has a bf too.
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>>16933362
Does she hide the fact she's seeing a guy?
Or does she make it obvious
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>>16933406
No, her hands occasionally brush my crotch when I walk pass her. Also there's this time she dropped her pen and bent over for a really long time. I think she does it on purpose.
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>>16933721
>hands occasionally brush my crotch
wtf
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>>16933721
Did she purposely do that?
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>>16933721
Sounds lewd
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>>16933721
Fuck, hate it when girls try to crop a feel.
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>>16934220
I know right, there's something very emasculating about that. I felt violated somehow. But of course better not breathe a word about it to anybody in the office or you'd be forever a joke.
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>>16934220
>>16934238
Are you two being serious?
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>>16934323
Yes
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Dude, don't be a retard
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>>16933406

bit of both, she barely mentions him. her first bf. met in high school. they only see each other on weekends.
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>>16936602
Does she mention this is her bf or just a friend?
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>>16936662

bf
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>>16936665
That's freaking weird, she must like the attention then? What if you ignore her
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>>16936691


Well she is a coworker...so I dunno can't totally ignore, but she asked more number but I never text her.

The way she looks at me is like is not how the other girls at work do. The first time it happened I was like "what's going on here?"

I dunno I figure she wants to break up with her bf but is afraid.

She asked me how many girls I've slept with and was like "well that's 9 more than me..."

I just don't know how to escalate the situation.
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>>16936713
Do you think she might be flirting for fun or does she genuinely like you

Just escalate by touching her more, looking into her eyes for longer periods
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>>16936937

I think she genuinely likes me...what kind of touching?
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>>16937106
You know touch her some more or let your hand linger longer, not in a creepy way though
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I think she's probably sexually frustrated and is using you as her "toy", if this is so you are left with two choices.
1. fuck her (ultimantly you'd end up being the "side dish", if she doesn't break things off with her boyfriend and ends up with you)
2. Be the "good guy/gentleman" talk to her about those hints, and let her know if she has a boyfriend. she can't be with you.
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>>16929412
Who gives a shit? It really doesn't even matter.
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>>16937443
What makes you say that?
Who are you referring to, op or other?
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Same thing happened to me OP, friend-girl was acting hella friendly, I started to think the wrong thing, told her how I feel and
>lesbian.jpeg
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>>16926627
Hahaha
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>>16937495
You should've gotten in on that action
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Not very bright are you mate
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Go for it!
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Dude, don't bother
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Come on bro!
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Why do peeps keep saying she wants him?
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>>16937871
>>16938970
>>16939739
>>16940427
>>16940904
Stop bumping your shit thread
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>>16941495
Why did you respond you fool!
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