Has anyone here successfully truly been happy by themselves? Like to the point where, even if you never had another relationship for the rest of your life you'd be okay just being alive and seeing nice sights and stuff?
Kinda struggling with that right now, I think about girls too much even tho I work out a lot, and work really hard and have a fulfilling job and hobbies.
Need some help guys
>>16926102
bump
for thousands of years women have been trading housework and sex for food and shelter.
men hunt and fish and bring food back to the village. smart women want to be with the best provider. that doesn't mean the guy with the most muscles, he just has to be smart enough to catch food and bring it home.
go catch some fish and return to the village
women will throw themselves at you
>>16926102
You are creating a false either-or choice.
It is possible to be happy in yourself AND also with others. It is possible to have a lover enhance and enrich your life without depending on that for all of your happiness.
>>16926102
I'm slowly realising that I won't let myself be with someone. I end up hurting (emotionally) the ones feel like I care most about.
So I must come to terms with not ever being in a solid relationship again, and that fucking around may be the only company that is good for me.
