Hey /adv/
I'm trying to figure out if this dude likes me or not. The thing is I really like him and want him to fall heads over heels in love with me but he kind of sends me mixed signals. Being that he's paid for stuff when we hang out (coffee/drinks) and sometimes drives me home but he never contacts me or initiates to hang out first. What's the deal robots? pls help me
My guess, no. You're not on the radar.
I did this shit to a girl in college and she followed me around all the fucking time.
Was probably super into me but I didn't even notice at the time. I was just being polite.
Start calling hang outs DATES and see if he catches on.
Unless they're confident and actively hitting on you pretty hard, signals can seem mixed because you're more sensitive to the possibility of any signals being negative when you really like someone.
Try upping your flirting if you like him and think he likes you, make it easy for him to know if he should make a move.
>but he kind of sends me mixed signals.
Generally, when a guy sends mixed signals, it's a firm "no". The best you might get is a pity fuck, but even though he might stick his dick in you, you likely wouldn't get anywhere.
OTOH if the dude is SUPER shy maybe he's just afraid of you, in which case you should ask him out.
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>the guy sending mixed signals
that's a new one