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Do girls even like guys?
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>>16920499

some do, some don't.
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>>16920499
Yes retard they do, that's how you were born.
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>>16920499
They like the status a man can bring them and the physical things he can buy. They also absolutely love the idea of "taming" a wild man. Moreso the idea of a man plus the physical things that further her own social image
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Yeah, i like some of them, and i love some.
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>>16920499
Duh.
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all girls like guys, it just has to be the right guy.
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>>16920510
Pregnancy doesn't require attraction.
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I love guys. :) I like the way they look and feel and smell and even their stupid minds that can't even process colors with any kind of accurracy. (most men are green/brown color blind)
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>>16920499
nah they're all gay
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Yes.
I have a crush on a guy friend of mine and I'm 20
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>>16920533
>smell

fucking this. i especially have a thing for how my guy smells after he's gotten sweaty at some point in the day. i'm all about secretly catching a whiff of him
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I think girls like guys a bit too much.
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Girls don't like boys, girls like cars and money.
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>>16920512
I never wanted to believe this, but with time I realized that this is the definitive answer.

We're all egocentric beings.
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>>16920533
>most men are green/brown color blind

wut?
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Basically this like I don't understand why women would like men

Women are generally curvier, nice smelling, and nicer

Men are goal oriented and built for utility
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>>16920512
>complains that women like material things and status
>but then guys also complain about women going after losers, betas, men with nothing, get surprised at girls with ugly frumpy men who are average in every sense

KEK

don't act like men don't like the status a woman can bring, and don't want a 10/10 model to have around their arms so their buddies say "damn bro i'm jelly how tf did you do it"
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>>16920716
More men are more shallow than women when it comes to status/looks/everything.

A woman will stay with an average/middle class guy for life and love him even if he gets a bit chubby but a lot of men detest their wives as they grow fatter/older and stray easily.
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>>16920796
>goal orientated
lol
lol
looool
when women aren't encouraged to have and achieve goals compared to men, it may seem this way. It's a dumb generalization.
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>>16920804
ummm, as an adult male in his 30s, who speaks to many other adult males in their 30s, no, no we don't.

In fact, once you get past being an immature 20 year old, bragging about how hot your girlfriend/wife is is looked at as kind of fucking lame and most people don't even engage those conversations.

Whereas with girls my age, they seem to lead with "he's got this great job, or he's got this great car, or he's got this great house, etc. etc."
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>>16920499

Of course, that's how they are built. They desire masculinity.
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>mfw men are so autistic and brainwashed that they think girls don't have feelings for guys
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>>16920809
This is also blatantly untrue once you become an adult.
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i dont fucking get where the whole "women like cars and money" shit comes from, just deal with the fact you are probably a giant douchebag and fix your personality goddamit.
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>>16920817

Yup. Women stray all the time, guys stay with chubby women.

Basically, if you say something like "all men do x" or "all women do y", you're probably a moron.
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>>16920816
The only time I feel is that girls don't get as hung up on guys and they move on easier.

Like girls don't have oneitis because they can have anyone so they can fill the place. Why do you think feels threads are never girls feeling because of what guys have done
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>>16920835

That's because women are more social and can talk about their ex with their friends until they get over it.

Whereas you just pour yourself into your Xbox, constantly thinking about her because you haven't talked it out.

Also, women do get hung up on men; it just usually devolves into rage at the rejection.

"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned".
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>>16920811
Anon, man. I really want to believe you. I really, really do. Trust me, all this back and fourth about guys vs girls is draining right?
But as much as I'd like to believe you speak for the majority, it seems like it's not.
There's a reason sugar babies are so common, and why so many men in power/money have barely legal gf's. Yeah, they toss them to the side for a new one relatively soon, but I've heard COUNTLESS instances where women whose husbands achieved status/power (or were average/poor even) became obsessed with or interested in or fucked around with someone else.
There was a thread in le-reddi-to the other day of a woman who helped her husband achieve his master's with her finances and as soon as he got into an "elite" profession with other "elites', he was pressured and convinced by his peers to cheat on his wife.
Sites like Ashley Madison, porn sites with ads plastered "your gf/wife will HATE this site!" and ageism prominent in most industries (especially acting) makes it evident.

I don't believe it's primarily innate, though. I've studied how professions dominated by men turn out to be, well, sexist. It's no different for the sciences, and history, so we have men writing about contradictory "biological urges" and leaving out important women/instances in history based on their country's preference (Churchill was a bigger piece of shit than Hitler, but you wouldn't know that)

Hell, even a lot of movies revolve around a husband cheating on his wife with the secretary ("Love, Actually")

Anyone who thinks, "hey this guy is successful" isn't always a bad person. Typically, although not always, a good job and house is indication of a person willing to work. Likewise, attraction doesn't make you evil either... but it's the disparity in views and hypocrisy that makes everything shit.

Women feel the pressure to be successful and have nice things, too. In high school, girls wanted a nice car and fancy clothes to be accepted just as much as men did.
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>>16920845
Man I talk to girls, but I sure do love my Xbox

I've never had success with any girl, and there has been many, so that doesn't help

>tfw no girl will ever be hung up on you and love you beyond comprehension and would do anything to be with you
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>>16920855

There is a girl for you m8. You just have to look for a long time until you find the right one.

Then you guys will both think how lucky you are, and how bland life was without each other.

Choose wisely.
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>>16920817
>>16920811
I hope you guys are right... but maybe it's just you guys, you know?
I want to believe, I've became disgustingly and utterly cynical and hopeless. I've heard of the way men speak about women. I've read countless stories. Just open your eyes and look around and see everything.
>pls kill me
>i can't handle this
>pls
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>>16920835
>girls don't have oneitis
I literally made a thread a few minutes ago about my onities with a guy and how the other guys I've met don't fill the void
My friend yesterday said she's been depressed about her ex for the last 2 years and hasn't found anyone else is, and she's really pretty and outgoing.
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>>16920860

That's because only the really lonely/dysfunctional people are posting this shit on the Internet.

You think happy couples post a warm hug, a laugh they shared, good sex they had? No. They are actually enjoying life as opposed to endlessly ranting on how shitty their life is.

This is why if you go by the Internet, everything is horrible.

But it's not.
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>>16920855
why would anyone date a dirty console gaming peasant
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>>16920879
Can't help it, love me some xbox

>>16920875
But compared to guys how often does it happen I mean really

>>16920859
But I don't know how to find her

I was thinking online dating but I don't think I'm attractive enough
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>>16920879

Yeah because women give a shit.
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Not generally, no.

Girls are incapable of deep thoughts or emotions. They lack the capacity for love or even the components of love like loyalty and empathy.

For centuries male poets have written passionately about women; they've admired every inch of the female form, they revel in the emotions consume them, they write stories of overcoming the fires of hell itself for a glimpse of love. Women don't do this. They just don't care enough.

Women surrender themselves as trophies to a man in return for attention and status as their looks begin to fade to avoid having to be self sufficient, and that's what they think love means.
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>>16920892
>But compared to guys how often does it happen I mean really

Men and women are both unhappy. You think women have it easy? They do not.

The point is that you are responsible for your own happiness; but you need to actually FIND people that make you happy, they won't fall into your life by magic.

Right?
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>>16920875
It's not even the internet, though. I've met a lot of people and seen through them how shitty people are, and how the men gaze at and cheat and etc etc other women. Over 50% of marriages fail. "love" fades shortly and then you see the person for who they are and it's a matter of if you can handle their behavior or not, everyone says staying together is definitely hard work, and what are the chances of 2 people coming together with seemingly reasonable morals and sense who are alike, won't stray, won't end up being abusive, or just becoming completely disgusted.

Damn, I really need to get out of the house.

I'm going crazy.

If you want to keep giving me examples of your point of view and how you are with your love/wife/gf and how your friends are and where to find guys like your friends, let me know.

>p-pls
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>>16920894
the glorious pc gaming master race has more reach than you can imagine
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>>16920860
Don't get me wrong. Men think of women sexually. That's inescapable. But men, for the most part and especially when it comes to fantasy, are able to separate their urges from things like commitment and love. That's why when men cheat (if the woman doesn't find out) it's less likely to destroy the relationship. Whereas when women cheat (if the man doesn't find out) it's more likely to destroy the relationship. Men cheat to get laid, women cheat to get loved.

But what does the "way men speak of women" have to do with anything in reality? I absolutely adore my girlfriend, would do anything for her, am planning on marrying her, but I still think about her at times as a fucking hot piece of fuckmeat that I just want to destroy with my cock. That's not counterintuitive to me. She's my girl. She's all the things I need her to be to me at different times. Companion, friend, amazing woman, hopefully mother someday, passionate romantic partner, and fuck object.

There's nothing wrong with this.
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>>16920909

Most relationships are not very good, the people are not good matches for each other. They have an initial attraction, and then it fades after a few months. It's biology. What's left is your real connection, which is really based on friendship.

I am in a great relationship, we are well matched. That after being with someone in a long-term relationship where we were a bad match.

Love does exist, it's just people get in a relationship and then plant the "we're in love" flag, but they weren't. Then everyone thinks there is no such thing as love because they see that.
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>>16920896
>doesn't understand biology
How's that there depressing hatred seething in your body, m8?
>loyalty
yes that's why there's countless instances of men cheating, straying, tons of men in hollywood who fucked their nannies, "side-chick" jokes, ashelymadison.com, porn ads "your gf will hate this site! click here!", men who have told me it's naive to think men wont cheat in given the chance, men who i've met who have cheated, etc

>male poets
pssst. Maybe it's because women in any field have been oppressed. Millions of women scientists, discoveries, artists, poets, comedians, etc whose gender was made evident were told "lol nope" until more recently

>women surrender themselves as trophies
and those men only want trophies, nothing else.
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>>16920911

Men and women cheat because their relationship is unsatisfying in some way.
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>>16920909
If you think 50% of marriages fail because men have somehow changed, you're completely missing the real message behind that stat.

That number is purely due to economics and feminism. And INB4 "fuck you, mr. mra". I'm not. Modern economics and feminism have destroyed the traditional family, for better or worse, and that's why you see ridiculous divorce stats.

>men gaze
this is natural and not wrong in any way
>men cheat
see my previous post. They don't at any noticeably higher rate than they ever have, and I could make a pretty good argument that it's much more benign if it does occur than a woman cheating. But again, I know a couple guys that have cheated but they are wayyyy in the minority and are usually drunks or assholes. This "guys cheat" think is media confirmation bias, if anything.
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>>16920911
that's still really shitty, mate.
A man wants his cake and to eat it, too... if a woman doesn't have love she'll usually break it off.
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>>16920936
This, while it may be true in some cases, complete ignores that there's usually an entirely different dynamic between male and female infidelity.
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>>16920937

50% of marriages fail because divorce exists, and women can get divorced w/o dying of starvation.

People are just as unhappy as they used to be.
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>>16920904
I've just had so much rejection anon, it's hard to keep my chin up
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>>16920911
Also the reason it's less likely to destroy things isn't based on what you think. It's utterly heart-wrenching and fucks a relationship up if a man cheats, but women do put up with more shit (how many women abused stay?) also many of those women feel threatened to leave. Also ego plays into it, a man's ego is destroyed easily so if he's cheated on he might take it in a different light and break it off. Also a lot of women feel hard for their lover, and can't let go. i know one woman who has openly cheated on her husband (putrid) and he still stays kek

I mean I used to THINK of my ex as a hot sexy thing that I wanted to tie up and have gang banged while he yells but I wouldn't do it, i don't think you're wrong for your desire toward her...
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>>16920933
>women in any field have been oppressed

So now you're trolling right? You're blaming the millenia of male artistic pining over women on muh patriarchy?

Such shallow scholarship.
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Oh look another post that started out misogynist and devolved into more misogyny

And you cunts wonder why you're so bitter
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>>16920964
>trolling
this... is a part of actual history, and stats you fucking retard.
But I guess the movement to allow women to work and vote was just.. a rude?
lol holy hell
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>>16920933
i'm not saying you're like that but a lot of women fantasize about being chad's second bitch (and then for some insane reason complain that chad didn't make them his first bitch)...i've seen it happen time after time again

a lot of these things you hear come from these dumb women, you need to filter better because there's just as many happy couples as unhappy ones
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>>16920953

You're probably going after the wrong women for you, so your chances of rejection are always going to be near 100%. Why do that to yourself?

Pick someone that you can RELATE TO, don't think so much about her tits or if she's fat.

I know.

Push past your own dumbfuck primal desires. You will want to fuck her if you relate to her, trust me.

People pick mates for the dumbest reasons, then wonder why their relationship didn't work out.

She had big tits, but we never got along. Why did we not work out?
He had a decent job, and my friends liked him, but I never really felt a connection with him. Why did we not work out?

Well it's fucking obvious; you guys couldn't relate to each other.
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>>16920975
Is online dating a good idea anon
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>>16920970
female "oppression" is indeed a part of history. Blaming the idea that men point artistic pursuits towards women on women not being allowed to be artistic is fucking bullshit and you know it.
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>>16920933
>yes that's why there's countless instances of men cheating, straying, tons of men in hollywood who fucked their nannies, "side-chick" jokes, ashelymadison.com, porn ads "your gf will hate this site! click here!", men who have told me it's naive to think men wont cheat in given the chance, men who i've met who have cheated, etc
The only reason you don't see that stuff for women is because even a disgusting 3/10 landwhale can spread open their legs and get laid without any effort. Women cheat way more often than men, but they just don't ever admit it because that would take a conscious and integrity.


>pssst. Maybe it's because women in any field have been oppressed. Millions of women scientists, discoveries, artists, poets, comedians, etc whose gender was made evident were told "lol nope" until more recently
it doesn't take anything to write out what your heart tells you and women didn't even do this in private letters salvaged throughout history.

>and those men only want trophies, nothing else.
All men want love, but most will become bitter by never having it reciprocated so, yes, they settle.
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>>16920933

>being this assblasted
>w-w-women don't have any inventions because muh OPRESSION
>muh anecdotes
>muh porn ads

If that's true then why don't modern women go into STEM degrees? Instead their is a shocking shortage despite enormous scholarships and efforts to bring them in. Most opting to go into some weak social science and then whining that they only get 20-40k annually after several years of working.

By the way are you seriously saying because a porn ad targets sleazy shit people all men are sleazy and shitty?
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>>16920982

Yeah it is. You can go through a shit load of people, and really find ones that you can relate to.

Personality, body type, sense of humor...the more people you date, the more you can see what person is right for YOU.
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>>16920959
You're completely wrong. It very much so is that. Men cheat or have a "side girl" and are able to go home, show just as much love or dedication to their wife, kids, etc. Women cheat for emotional attachment/reinforcement, so when they cheat they are going home and thinking of their lover, daydreaming about running off and being in love, etc. These are generalizations of course, but while I would never do it, because I made an agreement not to and that is important to me, if I bent a girl over in the copy room at work, it would not affect my feelings for my girlfriend in any way. Other than me feeling like shit for breaking her trust.
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>>16920975
>personality meme again

if i want personality i'll get a platonic friend

what you're spouting is meaningless and stupid
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>>16920982

No. It's awful. Online dating is a women's marketplace, it's god-awful. This is coming from a guy who went on lots of dates from OKC and tinder. I wasn't looking for a casual fuck and wanted a real relationship and I can tell you how hilariously broken the women I went out with were. Daddy issues, Drug abuse, Strippers, shady behavior from the get go(Hey lets go out on a date but pick me up from a park, oh by the way I have 2 more cell phones I'm going to text you from last minute).

These were pretty cute girls, who of course, mentioned none of this in their profiles. Then there's the girls who flat-out ignore you and allow the fact that hundreds of guys message them daily to get into their heads.
"I'm a single mom of 2 kids who is a starbucks barista! If you cant accept me for who I am Don't message me and if you aren't 6 ft don't speak to me!!"

Online dating is awful unless two things are true
1. You're only looking for a casual fuck
2. You're willing to settle.
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>>16921017

What do you think a relationship is then?

You're going to spend 10, 20, 30 years with someone...and it will be with someone you don't really like / get along with?

Think how fucking stupid that is. How fucking incredibly stupid.

If you're going to be on a space station with someone for 30 years, you think you will be able to tolerate that for 30 years if all you like is her great tits?

You're in for a world of hurt, gentle reader.
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>>16921002
lol no they're not, they begin to show resentment to their wives
I also love how you're pulling shit of your ass AND excusing men cheated (psst because people excuse men for their shitty behavior more than women of the same behavior) and for the record women like sex too kek

but thanks for proving men are shit.

Hell, even if you still LOVE your wife, have the decency to not cheat you cunt. lmao
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>>16921022

OKC and Tinder are the absolute worst sites for a relationship,
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ITT
>girls don't feel
>wait they clearly do wtf
>no no they don't i know because some bitter misogynists convinced me
>dont be hopeless about men!
>btw men cheat
>but women cheat too
>but when men cheat it's ok
>actually lets just shit on women and excuse or praise men and act like this thread isn't proof that men are putrid and our society is geared toward the dick

kek
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>>16920859
>there's someone for everyone meme

Nice try
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>>16921027
>show resentment to their wives

And this is based on what, the thousands of years of examples of men having "mistresses" and continuing to have perfectly normal happy marriages? Oh, that's because women were held down and beaten on the daily so they had no choice. Good thing your didn't miss the first day of womens studies 101. Really hope you get that degree.

>proving men are shit
By saying cheating is wrong but making an attempt to examine the different reasons for why men and women do it? Yup. You're a genius.

>decency not to cheat
Yeah I completely didn't give you any idea that I wouldn't have the decency not to cheat when I said that I would never do it due to the honorable commitment I have made to my girlfriend and my desire to stick to that.

Keep laffin, ms. Steinem.
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>>16921043

Yeah there is. There are fat, autistic NEET women for every fat, autistic NEET man.

It's just people are stupid and unrealistic and think they want to date Scar Jo.

People make dumb choices for mates, which is why most people are lonely and/or with someone they don't really like.
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>>16921026
a relationship is one of those lies we tell ourselves to convince us to have kids
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>>16921022
online dating is not a woman's world. Sure you might think "but she gets lots of messages!" but 98% of those guy are either looking to:
1. just hook up
2. lie to you about wanting a relationship then pump and dump
3. are 2/10 who do not care for themselves, doing nothing with themselves, obese, not attractive even slightly
4. "nice guy" syndrome. Think they are great or nice but are complete pieces of shit, entitled, etc.
5. A lot of those messages are comprised of "hey bb can i suk titty? :))"
6. guys looking to cheat on their gf/wife
7. get cold feet last minute

but yeah and in general the prettier the girl, the more you can argue it's harder because my friend who is a 11/10 has the worst luck with guys. They'll become enamored with her and show her off, act super interested, etc only to have all that fade away after a few months when they see she is a normal human being, or get jealous of the attention she gets, or end up cheating on her (because with a lot of people it's about quantity not quality) etc

and it's hard to tell who's an asshole because of lot of men can fake good manners and interest when it comes to women (since people won't take women too seriously, especially a 11/10 young one)
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>>16921038
>girls don't feel
Most people on here were saying they feel differently. There was only one bitter fuck that said otherwise.
>wait they do
yes they do
>bitter mysoginists
anything that doesn't support your worldview is misogyny.
>men cheat
they do
>women cheat
they do
>men cheat it's ok
No one EVER said that
>shit on women, praise men
No one has. Go laugh in your hugbox.
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>>16921060
>a relationship is one of those lies we tell ourselves to convince us to have kids

Yeah you're dumb.
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>>16921038
>guys don't feel
>wait they clearly do wtf
>no no they don't i know because some bitter misandrists convinced me
>dont be hopeless about women!
>btw women cheat
>but men cheat too
>but when women cheat it's ok
>actually lets just shit on men and excuse or praise women and act like this thread isn't proof that women are putrid and our society is geared toward the vagina
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>>16921064

This is true.
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>>16921064
this! Holy shit was using tinder and was interested in 2 men. I ended up asking them if they had a facebook, and they both gave me weird responses basically saying no.
"huh, pretty sure you have to have one to use tinder.. something's fishy!"
so I did some searching given their name and other information they told me and oh lookie! They both had gf's that they proudly presented on their page! How strange.
kek
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>>16921064

Would you like me to see if I can find any of the hilariously entitled women's profiles I've seen? Here's a few gems
>I live with my ex-lover, if you can't accept that then don't message me
>Don't just say "hi" or "hey" or ask me "whats up"
>If you message me and I don't find us compatible I WILL block you
>If you can't accept my kids come first then you're a boy, and I don't date boys

If you think some trolls saying "ey bb wan sum fuk" excuses the extreme entitlement and arrogance of women on these sites you're either delusional or a woman yourself.
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>>16921030
Any reccomendations senpai
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>>16921073
nice ad hominem, but i didn't expect anything rational either
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>>16920804
Women don't changes a mans status unless it's his HIV status senpai
>getreeeeeeeeeeeeal
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>>16921092
>nice ad hominem, but i didn't expect anything rational either

What can I say? You're likely beyond any rational argument at this point.
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>>16921056
Lots of women love their husbands and still cheat. The reason those men continue to cheat and NOT break up is because in a marriage a lot is at steak:
1. All property, money, and finances
2. Also children
3. Some care about the social stigma and how it'll look to their friends/family
4. Too much trouble, etc
Don't be so bitter, typical angry male. lmao
>hyuk anon you're so smart! :)) don't tell me i'm being shitty
When you break someone's trust and go fuck around you typically are, well, shit. Especially considering most people aren't cool with side-lays and most men don't use condoms, which can result in std's or another pregnant girl.
I feel bad for your gf, you seem positive that if you did have the opportunity to cheat with the guarantee that no one would know, you would simply because it's just the trust you don't want to break.
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>>16921064

>my friend who is an 11 out of 10 is a divine angel
>all these guys who suddenly back out are just jerks and meanies!
>my friend is a perfect, amazing princess and in no way could these problems be traced back to her

Another perfect example of a woman on OKC letting the attention get to her head and basically giving herself a free pass for everything and if the guy ever gets upset or worried about her behavior then he's just a "jealous insecure guy!"
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>>16921056
But you admitted you were generalizing, and you don't seem to understand that there are a lot of men who stray and become resentful to their wives because of the desire to fuck others.
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>>16921060
... sadly this :/
Came to realize this and it's pretty hard. I understand not everything is a fairytale, but looking into things more and how humans operate the way we do and why can really make someone cynical about "potential love" and shit.
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>>16921064
>>16921110

Seriously this
>what is naivete
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>>16921087
My favorite is, "must be fit, 6 feet or taller, have your own house, car, good job" Look at pic, fat sjw mom with two kids.
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>>16921110
I figured you would find a way to automatically assume that I think she's "perfect" while you assume she's crazy.
She's pretty nice, and yeah you're right I don't know how she is with the men she dates.
I know her and some of the people she's been with though and can safely say the guys were pretty shitty.
One of her ex's hated going out in public because of the all guys that would crowd her when he left. I met him this way, actually. She wanted me to meet him so they went out to get drinks and meet up his friends or something. He left and she was standing behind me, BAM group of 3 guys went up to her. She was friendly but not interested and didn't flirt or anything, he came back saw this and started getting angry. Understandable, if she was being all flirty, but when he came in she introduced him as her bf. What was sad is they all got sour faces and ended up leaving lol didn't even want to just be friends. He started feeling like he can't take her out without getting insecure or worried, but didn't want to go out without her, and he started to look in her phone too. He didn't find anything but the trust was broken and bam they were over.
Another guy she was in ended up cheated on her. She walked in on them.
You're blatantly being a sexist fuck by claiming "ohh lookie women thinkt hey can do n0 wrong!" but it's rare to find a guy that's "ready to settle" and is a relaxed, nice person that takes women seriously.
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>>16921108
how exactly would I cheat without breaking trust? explain to me how that would work?

Oh, you mean if she didn't know. Well, I have this thing I like to call personal responsibility and honor. I would know if I cheated. That's all that matters, and why I wouldn't do it.
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Hell the most beautiful women in the world have all been cheated on, left, etc. Looks don't mean anything outside of initial interest, but when it comes to women who look good, I'm saying life is not easier when it comes to dating. Looks fade, and there are men who cheat with women whether they're hot or not (such as arnold s. ..oh god her ugly nanny who got pregnant?)
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>>16921142

>I'm a go-getter, yes as I'm sure you've noticed I'm a mother. A proud mother of 2 angels :). I want a man, not a boy, and a man has his own place, his own car(no...your beat up grandpa's car isn't a car), and is willing to build his woman up even if it takes time. I am NOT looking for a casual fling, don't waste my time"
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>>16921108
Ain't bitter at all. Love women, just not wymyn.
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>>16921152
.... Yeah but it just seemed like an easy assumption with the way you excused and generalized a male's cheating patterns and the reasoning behind it.
It's still shitty to hear though, even coming from a guy who says he has loyalty/honor.
There's a lot of things that factor into all of this but there's generally a lot of generalizations of shit posting in this thread.
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>>16921143

>every time you take your girl out she gets mobbed by 3-4 dudes and loves the attention and talks to them
>being irritated by this is you being insecure!

Nah, I can see why nothing ends up working out for her long-term. I'm sure she would be thrilled if she went out to a bar on a date and went to the bathroom and when she came out her date was talking to 3 chicks at the bar and having a friendly drink with them.
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>>16921142
I don't actually ever see this lmao
most I see is "love my curves!" and that's not evil.
>mad at sjw's
God forbid people believe in the justice of society as a whole.
Your perception of everything is skewed.
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>>16921158
Doesn't make sense.
That's like saying you love workers, but hate workers who stand up for themselves and point out when bad things are happening to them.
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>>16921155
yup, that's the type. "accept me for who I am completely, but also be fucking amazing and willing and able to allow me to use your time/resources to make me and my kids' life better or fuck you"
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>>16921182
nope. it's like saying I love workers, but hate workers who get what they say they want but continue to hate the boss and manufacture bullshit problems so they can get more and more while they're sitting around not doing a fucking thing.
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>>16921104
but men and women have not evolved to be very compatible besides benis in bagina

why the fuck would i spend time with an oversensitive extroverted narcissistic lying irrational scared to death version of myself when i can chill with my bros and play video games?

because it's interesting and because i get sexually aroused by the female form...and both of these things happen because babies

i'm programmed to find your gaping yeast infected hole and flabby mamaliaries arousing so i can fill you with semen and get you pregnant and i'm programmed to find you at least to some extent interesting even though you're annoying so i can help while you're pregnant

that's all there is to it, concessions in order to reproduce is all there is...i think you have a serious case of hollywooditis
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>>16921155
That doesn't sound like the worst description. Go-getters are nice. I never see the "want a man with his own place/car" especially that g-ma's car description. Referring to a "man not boy" probably means maturity level, and "not looking for casual fling don't waste my time" is completely fine, she's stating exactly what she wants so a guy doesn't potentially waste her time with a fuck and dump. And why does everyone hate single mothers so much? While they praise single fathers? I mean I'm not particularly interested in single dads but you never know their situation and it's worth a shot, and with how likely divorce rates are, it's no wonder a lot of women are single moms. (most of the top vs models are i think)

Still sounds like a shitty description lol
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>>16921178
Well then you're not looking, cause i see it ALL THE TIME.

Women are a million times more likely to mention job, house, car in their ads than men.

>sjws believe in the justice of society as a whole

PLEASE explain to me how this statement has any relation to reality. SJWs believe in nothing but their pet project and being the loudest complainer on the block. I can't believe, even with the best of intentions, how you can make that blanket statement about SJWs with a straight face.
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>>16921176
HAHAHAH you're clearly trying to do mental gymnastics to convince yourself that men do no wrong, and a beautiful women has it easy and that she must be shitty or whatever. That or really insecure yourself.

1. It wasn't wrong to be annoyed at all the guys that came up to her. That's reasonable, but that was the incident that I met him and where things started to take a turn.
2. He would get mad and take his anger out on her.
3. She INTRODUCED HIM as her bf.
4 She wasn't being flirty, just talking to them. Women are scared of out right saying "um go away i have a bf thanks" because they were often met with anger and "hyuk you bitch you think i was hitting on you? lmao stuck up cunt!"
5. are you suggesting girls be stand-offish and ignore anyone that walks up to them completely when they are out with a guy? lol
6. He started demanding to look at her phone, despite nothing being on it.

He got nervous about all the guys sending her messages on facebook, text, just going up to her when she leaves the house to grab milk.

Damn, anon, thanks for proving how putrid and excuse'ing men are of each other.
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>>16921199
>see lol or kek at the end of every post
>realize I've been arguing gender politics and social theory with a 17 year old feminist.

Jesus fuck, go live some life and get back to us.
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>>16920845
>Also, women do get hung up on men; it just usually devolves into rage at the rejection.
So much this. Took me about a year to move on from a 7 month relationship where the guy had cheated on me (kept his second girlfriend a secret) and we were best friends. I cried my eyes out for a week, but after that, I was just so angry. That anger made it a whole lot easier to seem like I had moved on and wasn't phased by the ordeal, and that broke him more than any hateful thing I could've said.
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>>16921191
Nope, you are demonstrating your ignorance while doing the exact thing that is proving why you are wrong.
>i don't hate black i just hate niggers
>what do you mean
>the ones that act like they are perfect and want the world handed to them
>..... but you would admit being black sucks, and this whole thread is full of people excusing white behavior while claiming blacks are dumb useless annoying stupid etc
>UM but they are
> :) o-oh kay anon. Yeah... you have a nice day now lol
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>>16921194
men and women are compatible, but a man's ego, hormones, and entitlement gets in the way.
Sexism plays a huge part of all of this.
Ironically, men are more sensitive (ever looked at a guy in public and he screams WHAT YOU LOOKING AT and start a fight for no reason? or seen this whole thread? lol) extroverted (... god forbid someone like the company of others? do you know what that term even means?) narcissistic (studies have show men are more narcissistic then women (http://www.sciencealert.com/study-confirms-men-are-more-narcissistic-than-women-especially-when-it-comes-to-entitlement), and look at this whole site, or the instances of men who took a woman's work for his own, many scientific findings)


But arguing with a bitter, putrid, misogynist retard who has no compelling attributes to himself, proving to be the narcissistic, entitled child his parents failed to raise who is clearly mad and giving you exactly what you need to prove a point is pretty lulzy.

Knowing you sit seething with anger, hoping the world will give you what you want without the effort or sense to achieve it and placing the blame on others... sitting away at your computer rotting... increasing adrenaline and stress from brainwashed, ignorant-based hatred, wishing one day you can speak to a woman and be a lady's man but knowing you never will be...

That gives me all the satisfaction I need. I am better than you. Feelsgoodman.jpg you kids take care :))
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>>16921222
this is this guy's argument. He has nothing else to base his claims on lol
But the world's leaders and influential women who exemplify feminism are probably just wrong right?

Nice work. I'll stray from the petty attempt at insults because your responses are just enough.
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>>16921227
what do you mean it broke him? How did he see you had moved on?
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only our boners
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>>16921230
>not screaming that MEN SUCK is excusing all male behavior
>not hating women means you have to like all types of women, even the most insufferable ones

And therein lies the issue. The undercurrent to all the misguided rage, anger, apathy towards society and politics, protesting, demonizing the other side, etc. etc.

Black and white. No grey areas. Life is nuanced, people are nuanced. To take your rather extreme example, yes, it is perfectly ok to say you like "black people" and then say but you dislike "certain types of black people". I'm sorry I don't live in your "one or the other" world, and you're not going to be swayed until you spend some time being a human, and maybe not even then, but not everything is about blind acceptance and/or hatred or whichever group you decide to latch onto at any given time. Some types of men suck, some don't. Some types of women suck, some don't. Some types of whites suck, some don't. Some types of blacks suck, some don't.

Just like being a woman sucks in some areas, it doesn't in others. Being a man sucks in some areas, it doesn't in others. The difference being that women have been running around screaming about their shitty areas for decades and men just recently started quietly mentioning theirs. The reaction is key. Men said, for the most part, "ok, let's see what we can do about that". Women said, for the most part, "FUCKING PUSSIES".
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>>16920796
objectively mens are more attractive than womens, we are less neotenized, more tall, less fat and longer faces
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>>16921220
>people coming up to talk to you when you get milk is normal and 100% friendly
My sides are in orbit. Does your friend also think guys talking to her/liking all her pics/going out of their way to speak to her regularly/buy her drinks/presents are all 100% normal friendly things to do with no ulterior motive? No guy except a cuck of the highest magnitude would be ok with his girl being so 'friendly' with everyone.
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>>16921262
no we're not, not in the way hollywood has braiwashed you to think we are

i'm not even gonna comment much on the rest since it's full of confirmation bias and ad hominems, and you're simply not important enough in my life to waste time writing to, not with that attitude anyway
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>>16921262
>realizing you're a child with zero life experience means I'm seething with anger and have no argument
>going directly to insults doesn't mean you literally have no argument other than "you suck"

yup.
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>>16920499
Of course. Sucking my boyfriends dick is absolutely one of my favorite things to do, but only because I love him so much. Sometimes things are good. Sometimes that chance you take works out in the end.
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men are like waffles women are like speggy
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>>16921038
>our society is geared toward the dick

you believe that because you are a female and only the top 20% percent of men are visible to you. the rest of the 80% are getting shit on by this gynocentric society
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No. They're don't have the capabilities to love without wanting something in return.

It's why there are no female artists or inventors or much of anything worthwhile. At least not in great numbers.

inb4 muh soggy knees.
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>>16921516
hahahahaha that image is so true
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>>16920499
Men like men with vaginas, and women like chicks with dicks. Everyone wants a partner that is as easy to relate to as their own gender.
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>>16920809
Yeah TV tropes are fun.
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>>16920626
That's only because you've been together for less than 3 years and/or because he's on a much higher league than you.

Just a reminder.
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>>16921262
Definately not projecting anything there. You sure got them good.
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