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Hello /adv/, I need your help - your opinions on a problem.

I'm a 4th year IT student doing my internship at a company, and they've offered me to stay and work for them after I'm done with it.
But here's the problem..

I have a gf who I see only for summer and winter holidays (basically 4 months a year) because we study in different towns. And if I take this job that means I won't see her for who knows how many months more(on top of 6 months currently). A good job is very hard to come by in my country and this is a great opportunity.

On the other hand, I have parents that are in a dire financial situation and monetary help I could provide (it's a well paid job for our standards and I have accomodation that costs me nothing) would be a great help for them.

What do I do? I love this girl and treasure every moment we spend together because we see each other so rarely, and I dont think she would understand if I tried to explain to her that taking this job would mean we could start a life together sooner.

Why does life always have these shitty choices?
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>>16919426 i wish my life was as shitty as yours. The choice is obv. Take The job and tell The bitch youre working to provide her massice shills
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>>16919426
Take the job, as this opportunity may not come to you in the future. If she cares about you and your family's well-being, she'll understand. How much longer will it be until she's done with school? Because if it's less than 5 years, you taking this job will be a great start for your future. It seems like a long time but it'll pass quickly when you're busy.
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>>16919483

She's got 2 years left. We've been together for ~2 years
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One last bump.
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