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2016-03-15 00:48:44
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>Start dating girl in high school (my junior year, her sophomore)
>It's great, really compatible, never had a serious argument about anything; lose virginity to her, move in together when we go to college
>My junior year of college I wake up to her trying to hide that she's crying
>She says she thinks she might be gay
>I tell her that if she's serious then she needs to decide whether or not she's going to explore that
>She says she thinks she should
>I'm dying inside as I tell her that while I love her, if she is going to be romantically or sexually involved with someone else then I cannot be with her
>We both agree that it's time to split up
>I already had little interest in college (I attended because my parents were insistent, my girlfriend didn't want me to go into the military, and I had a full scholarship) so I dropped out and enlisted
>Maintain contact with her for the next three years; we were eachothers' best friend for a long time and I didn't see a reason to kill our friendship even if our romantic relationship was dead
>Over the last year she has been talking to me about problems with her girlfriend; I always tell her that I'm not an unbiased person to get advice from in this regard but I'll try my best if she insists
>Help her keep a clearly failing relationship limping along for another ten months
>She calls me one night last December; she's clearly drunk
>She tells me she misses me and wishes we had never split up
>I tell her to call me back when she's sober
>Next morning she calls me; she means what she said
>I tell her that she should let her girlfriend know about the issues we'd been discussing (she had been trying to resolve problems subtly so that her partner wouldn't get stressed out - the girlfriend has a lot of issues) and that her partner deserved an honest opportunity to keep their relationship from imploding
>January passes while they try to salvage it