Am I a Cuck
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So a friend on mine was is a hard core amateur porn connoisseur as he puts it. Last night he sent me a link to a video of what appears to be my gf having sex with 2 other guys. Ive probably watched like 30 seconds of it total because I get filled with rage the moment I turned it on. The hairstyle in the video is similar to what she wore back in college so it was at least 3 or 4 years back.
This morning I asked my gf about the link and at first she tried to say it wasnt her, but then I called her on the hair style and she broke down and says she doesnt want to talk about it.
I sent her a text while I was at work basically saying I understand how she isnt happy with her past coming out like that for the world to see, but I cant really be there to comfort her and I dont know if 'we' are going to make it through this and said we'll need to talk about our future when I get back.
Now Im off work but Im avoiding going home because I dont really want to talk about this. "Whore" keeps playing in my mind as background noise and I know that when we do its going to turn into an ugly argument just from the mass text shes sending that Im ignoring.
Right now Im heavily learning towards GTFO my apartment.
tldr; GF is a slut in a porn vid and Im pissed. Should I end things now?
It happened a few years ago and obviously she isn't happy about it or proud of it.
If you're that upset over it, end it I suppose, there's no point in staying with someone you are now disgusted by.
>>16915626
>slut shaming
Grow up. Everyone has sex.
>>16915635
while on cam for the world to see? Fuck off, this is a solid concern.
>>16915638
Do you know if she was even aware the camera was there in the first place?
>>16915635
Slut shaming...
Whatever, it was a long time ago, and if she doesn't want to talk about it... She has a right to that.
No, you're not being cucked, you idiot.
>>16915630
Yeah even if it happened a few years back doesnt really change that it happened. Im fucking livid.
>>16915635
No one wants a slut. Accept that.
>>16915642
Internet slut defense force right on time. I can already see your post before you even right it:
>OP, you need to settle for someone who has different values than you otherwise you aren't a real man
>>16915648
She can have the right to not want to talk about it, just like I have the right not to stay with her. No one wants a slut. Its not a secret fact.
>>16915642
Theres no way she could have missed it.
>>16915648
But staying with her is for cucks
>>16915657
Fuck noobs then
>>16915655
*write it
Op im in a similar situation. To be honest it's 4 years since i found out and it still bothers me sometimes. The degenerate cuck fetish now rolls though my head sometimes and i hate it.
It's hard getting over your gf used to be a silly loose slut.
Im so assblasted. The text shes sending me is only infuriating me more. This is part of why I said we'll talk about it later and not now. Now Im only going to start the conversation mad as hell.
>>16915661
I've explained this a million times. A cuckold is a marries man who is sleeping with someone who is sleeping with other men AND AND he knows about it. So the cucked routine can die in a fucking fire, do you understand me?
>>16915667
So its not something you get over... I didnt think it was. Definitely not something Id get over in any reasonable amount of time not to dissolve the relationship.
>>16915649
If it really bothers you that much then drop the hoe.
>>16915673
So staying with her is for cucks?
>>16915675
Maybe take a day or two to think about it and tell her how you feel. Like i said i never really got over it but don't think about it most of the time.
>>16915672
don't get angry, simply dump her. No one will hold that against you
>>16915676
Its not that easy to just drop a hoe when shes lived with you near a year maybe. I have no idea how Im supposed to just drop her.
>>16915690
Then get over it.
>>16915690
Do you love her? Do you think she would flip if she found avid of you pounding two college sluts? At least she is your slut now. Even if you leave her get some nice hard anal in before you leave her.
>>16915694
>just get over it
Yeah, thats gonna happen
>>16915695
All I feel is rage right now. You could say that Im only this mad because I love her. Her response doesnt really matter.
>>16915702
Then you need a day or two to think about it and you should tell her that and that you are hurt. I felt rage for about 48hrs before i could think straight.
>>16915695
This sadly.
>>16915702
It seems this relationship isn't long for this world
do you really want other people to have watched, or be able to watch, your girlfriend getting fucked by two guys
can you imagine yourself marrying a women who fucked two guys on cam
Op try to keep in mind this might be her biggest regret and must be embarrassing as fuck. Have some empathy.
Tough call OP. I would personally leave her, but that's just me. I wouldn't hudge you either way.
This many posts in and no one??
Post the video OP
>>16915725
yeahhh right, you'd have a point if she wasn't on camera enjoying it
>>16915708
Ill keep in mind that I might be able to make a better decision in a day or two.
>>16915725
I do, but then >>16915721
Link?
>>16915626
Understand Op I am not by any means condoning her behavior because she should have mentioned this to you prior to getting seriously involved.
However, the human side of me could understand if she were desperate for the cash ie. no help from mom and dad to fund her tuition, financial aid got screwed up, book costs, health and car insurance, car payment, car repairs, apartment, light bill, food, etc. Did she have a low wage or part time job because if so that would not cover the cost of schooling, basic necessities, and living expenses. Does she have any student loans now or any credit card debt to pay off?
I am just saying when people become desperate they tend to do things that are out of character no matter the later repercussions of said actions.
>>16915744
Post the link
But the real answer is its commuted in the past so it's up to you to forgive her or nah. Would she do it again?
>>16915626
Get over it, it's in the past. She probably loves you, accept her for who she is. We all make mistakes... and I'm not even saying this was one of them.
Staying with her is not cuck behavior, its being a man and having the maturity to accept the things that cannot be changed and move on. If you like her and she likes you, and you let this get in the way of that, you are weak and insecure.
>>16915757
There's your answer op
>>16915757
lol, see
>>16915655
the guy is a prophet
>>16915667
>>16915683
>>16915702
OP, I can seriously relate to you right now.
My GF lied about who she had slept with and later revealed she had a few ONS and a FWB, all with random Tinder guys, and also sent nudes to some random "famous" Instagram guys. This all happened before we met, but finding this information out has made me think incredibly different about my girlfriend. I can't help but be judgmental towards her, and although I am very much in love with her I can not help but think that the relationship won't last because I really do not see these feelings going away.
Nobody wants to date a slut, nobody wants to put in the effort to make someone happy who has proven by past experiences that they are not worth the effort, that they are easily obtainable, easy, and crave male validation (even if it was in the past). I'm feeling the same way over something much, MUCH less than what your girlfriend did. I could not imagine ever staying with someone who had a threesome, let alone a threesome on camera, and definitely not after watching the video of it.
>>16915757
>being a man is accepting your gf is porn vids
Fuck that mindset. I have every right to not want a gf who engaged is such degenerate behavior. When I have a daughter you think Id want my gf around. This is what goes through my mind and why Im so mad. There are some mistakes you just shouldnt make.
>>16915749
She wasnt in any desperate situation to that extent.
>>16915744
>>16915740
Fuck you guys
>>16915778
Post the link bro... It's not like we know her and it's already out there anyway
>>16915778
I just don't get why you are angry. You could calmly dump her and realize you dodged a bullet here.
>>16915768
no he is an idiot. people have different values, period. get over it.
you will never find someone who aligns perfectly with everything you believe... and in this case she is obviously not proud of what she did so she has clearly come around to some degree.
telling you... let her have this one.
>>16915778
Oh like you haven't done anything wrong I the past?
Bring up all your mistakes and list it and give it to your gf.
>>16915778
if you have ever jacked off to porn, you're more of a degenerate than her... at least she did it with real people and got paid for it.
>>16915778
Girls experiment in college. Most girls do way worse than this there just isn't a video. You will never get a perfect virgin mornon gf that you fantasize about. The girls you will get lived in the real world with real desires.
Most girls do way worse than this op
>>16915778
So getting dick makes her a bad mother? I don't see the correlation. I understand you're upset, honestly if it bothers you that much break it the fuck off. If you can't see yourself getting past it and you're not going to listen to anything she has to say then do yourself and her a favor. You already seem pretty set on what you're going to do.
>>16915792
Lol, nah. It's called having standards. Unless of course, you don't have dealbreakers in a relationship.
>>16915799
No they don't, this is top-tier bad.
>>16915800
Being a whore who gets fucked by multiple men at the same time definitely does not correlate with being a good mother.
>>16915794
Nothing serious. Didnt study for a test, was late for an interview, broke a vase. Nothing she would be ashamed of or effect our relationship. Im sure theres something there but the fact that its not coming to me leads me to believe its not serious enough to even hide since I dont remember.
>>16915805
Yeah but most of the posters here are sluts and I frankly doubt you'll be able to explain that to them.
>>16915805
Then most women are whores, enjoy being alone forever.
>>16915796
>watching porn is more degenerate that doing porn
Lets look at some analogies
>watching videos of people doing crimes is more degenerate than doing crimes
No. You are just retarded.
>>16915813
Most women get fucked by multiple guys at the same time?
>>16915800
Being a slut makes her a bad mother. Having sex doesnt make you a slut but it is a prerequisite.
>>16915791
How can I be calm. Ive been with this girl for a while now. Too invested to be calm at this point.
>>16915807
Oh boo fucking hoo, you're not perfect.
She's not perfect.
You both made mistakes j. The past.
In the present she seems to not have done anything wrong. You dig into people's past you will find something objectionable, what matters is now.
If you can't get over that fact, a lot off girls will surprise you if they even bother telling you the things they've done. Or you can delude yourself and think that she's clean as a whistle .... Finding that is rare, people make mistakes.
Anyway, the pussy way out is too leave her i can understand that u can't accept the fact that people make mistakes. I just feel sorry for her that she's probably good now but something from the past jut got brought up.
>>16915792
>people have different values
And not all of them are acceptable differences. Like being a slut.
>>16915820
Yeah, but you know it's coming to an end. That's what you are angry about. Maybe if you understand your anger you'll be able to calm down.
I hope you understand that I'm trying to get you to calm down because otherwise your judgement is clouded.
>>16915799
If most girls are worse than its really time to start looking for hymens. At least that way I know Im in the clear.
>>16915805
People do crazy things when they're young. Do you think if you have a kid her past ways would magically rub off on your daughter? Probably not, your non existent daughter would probably suck dick on her own accord. Let's ask a simple question then. Are you so disgusted with her now that you could not see yourself getting past this?
>>16915827
So you don't have dealbreakers in a relationship? Neat.
OP is the type to associate a persons current self with their past self. Smh....
You stole once? You're a theif forever in his eyes.
You make trip up once? You're retarded forever in his eyes.
Leave him be with his delusions. I can sympathize if the video was done when you were together. The girl didn't even know you then lmfao.
Meditate more senpai
>>16915820
OP it will depend on how much you care about her and whether or not you will be able to move past the person that she was, and love the person that she is now. I completely understand that you have standards and expectations, as did >>16915771 , and your perception of her is now different. Do you see yourself getting over this? Most people probably can't. It's unfortunate that people make bad decisions, you will have either accept them and move on or break it off. Not being sure is not fair to her, and it sure as hell is not fair to you to dwell on something that can't be changed. If this was bad enough that it has changed your entire perception of her, than get rid of her. You will be better off.
>>16915841
I don't care, do what you want.
You seem dead set on it, just know you're acting under a delusion that people's past makes them who they are now, that is delusional.
Good day.
>>16915827
>You both made mistakes j. The past.
Not even comparable mistakes. I had enough common sense not to do this shit.
>people make mistakes.
Not everyone is a slut. Its not that hard to understand
>the past jut got brought up.
Part of the problem is that Im just finding out. If I knew going in Id only have myself to blame. Maybe I could have accepted it then. Probably not though.
>>16915849
Good post here. If only ops gf could search the degenerate furry porn op faps to would this be fair.
>>16915860
You didn't have the opportunity, not morals. I'm site you would of taken a two girl bj a few years ago.please.
>>16915833
No I havent decided to end it. I want to though because fuck her.
Im livid because the person I care about and have been with is a fucking slut. Its like Ive been living a lie this entire time.
>>16915849
One more thing OP, I hate to even say this because it will reinforce your belief and anger, but if you are just finding out about this, than there is probably a whole lot of other things that you don't know about.
>>16915626
Literally every women is a whore who has sucked off two dudes at once. It's to be expected.
>>16915851
>people's past makes them who they are now, that is delusional
Then what makes someone the person that they are now, if not their past? You explain that to me. You have me intrigued.
>>16915864
Ive never even had casual sex because Ive considered it degenerate behavior. Not everyone is a slut.
>>16915865
Wow you sound really naive and immature here, how old are you op?
>>16915792
>people have different values, period. get over it.
Yeah, and he doesn't value a girl who fucked two guys at once.
>>16915871
>there is probably a whole lot of other things that you don't know about.
This. For fuck's sake, this.
>>16915879
You didn't have the chance because you are on 4chan and therefore a nerd who doesn't being in pussy like mad.you couldn't fuck two girls at once it's out of your leage but not hers and that hurts you boo hoo.
>>16915839
>Are you so disgusted with her now that you could not see yourself getting past this?
I do not see myself being calm about this in like the next 3-4 months guaranteed.
And no I dont want a slut to be around my child.
>mommy was a slut and I want to grow up like her
>>16915865
Holy shit. Holy shit.
>Im livid because the person I care about and have been with is a fucking slut. Its like Ive been living a lie this entire time.
I've never laughed so hard in my life. OP honestly just break up with her. She can take her superior cock pleasing skills somewhere else.
And you are a cuck.
>>16915878
Simple, people change.
It's hard to grasp but people can change from their past. Associating their current self with their past self is delusional.
That's like me calling you a retard forever for having failed grade 1 math once.
ITT: Sluts saying that you need to be okay with finding out that your gf did porn
>>16915843
How long after molesting a child are you no longer a sex offender?
There are some mistakes you just shouldnt fucking make.
>>16915887
And now we have hit the point of petty insults.
Jobs, schools, and anything else really care about pasts, what makes a relationship different? Why is it that relationships are the only thing people say the past doesn't matter when it clearly does?
>>16915871
Worst part is you are probably right.
>>16915877
not everyone is a slut
>>16915897
I don't know, but check your laws.
People can change, some people don't.
Has she been doing threesomes ever since? Has she gotten over that phase?
Evaluate their current self, not their past self.
>>16915626
lol
sorry about your luck op
and obviously she has to go
>>16915897
That's the whole point of a mistake.
Something you do that you shouldn't have.
What's done is done. Serve out the punishment if you want. But just know that people change.
>>16915880
Petty insults because I dont accept degenerate behavior aye?
>>16915887
there are plenty of chances if you just go to college. Shave off your neckbeard anon.
>everyone who isnt a degenerate is just mad they arent a degenerate
You people are too much with your slut apologies
>>16915903
We are all determined by our actions. We aren't omniscient beings who can check a persons stats and thoughts by just looking at the. We used the past to see what they have done to determine what they are currently cause we aren't fucking magic.
>>16915898
Because idiots don't like to be called idiots and sluts don't like being called sluts. That's what you have in this thread and rest assured they're a vocal minority. Most girls are disgusted when they learn that their boyfriend has slept with a hooker and despite what two or three people in this thread are telling you, you're perfectly right, not everyone is a slut
>>16915907
>That's the whole point of a mistake.
Yeah because its just a mistake that i molested some kids. No big deal. We all make mistakes right.
>>16915903
How long would it take for you to bring a child rapist around your child. people change right. 3-4 years is good right.
>>16915909
Our actions have consequences. It's delusional to associate an inherent self to past actions. When you're looking at someone's past, you are looking at their past self. what you do now is matters.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Vppcn0tl2Ow
>>16915928
Welp never mind op, i get that you're mad but equating rape/ molestation to having sex with two partners at the same time is absolutely insane. You don't deserve her, leave her, and be alone the rest of your life. She deserves better than you. No one will live up to your standards, and if you think they do they are just lieing about their past.
Op is a beta loser who can't handle her normal gf.
>>16915928
People can change.
I would evaluate their current self. If I let him near my children I will be watchful but I wouldn't strike him down like some animal.
>>16915928
Leave your feelings out of it for a moment.
Yes people make mistakes.
Yes people have the capacity to change.
Do what you want, I just want you know these two things.
80+ posts and no link to the alleged porn? I call bs, mostly because the "I found my gf in an amateur porn video" has been fucking tried on here dozens of times.
>>16915975
Equating rape and molestation to some slutty behavior is actually a much more despising than some slutty behavior. Grats op in one thread you managed to degenerate yourself more than her fucking two guys using just your words.
>>16915962
>I can decide what mistakes are acceptable and what arent for other peoples relationships
Yeah you are definitely insane.
Op stay strong this must be hard. All the people telling you to forget about move on etc are sluts themselves or have never had anything like this happen to them. Your gf fucked 2 guys at once anon and filmed it, that is a step up from slut. Shes a borderline superslut. If you love this girl, talk to her try and understand why it happened etc. Just be careful anon, she the superslut inside her, you never know when it will be released again.
>>16915982
You arent about to see my gf. Deal with it.
>>16915988
Im sure slut apologist find anyone who disagrees the utmost degenerate
>>16915962
>normal gf
do all girls get banged by two guys and film it? i dont think so
>>16916002
The poster you're replying to clearly has, and thus she thinks it is normal.
>>16915843
it shows the persons character though you spastic.
>>16916002
Plenty do, i guess we should shoot them all? Way to ignore comparing violent illegal assaults to concenting adult acts.
>>16916000
Not your gf for much longer i think. You will resent her too much and take it out on her even though she has likely already gone through the pain of this mistake before. Op is a horrible person.
>>16916018
Wow, awesome way to twist the truth.
>>16916008
Yes because thats exactly what i said anon! I am almost certain you're a women judging your horrible logic lol. I bet you've taken two dicks and OPs thread is hitting a little too close to home, am i right?
>>16916008
Way to miss the point of the child molester analogy; it was clear that he used it to demonstrate that certain behaviours don't change.
>>16915626
OP, don't listen to all these idiots. Right or wrong doesn't matter here. All that matters is what you want to do. Be true to who you are. Obviously it doesn't sit well with you that she was in a threesome that was video recorded. Therefore you should probably drop her and move on. Give it some more thought of course and make the decision that makes you feel like you did the right thing. All this talk about slut shaming and a woman's past not defining her are totally irrelevant. Nothing more than people feeling the need to posture their own sense of morality.
>>16916026
You are not giving us all the truth or the video in question. Lots of variables here but most point to you being immature and having unrealistic expectations.
>>16916018
He is not doing anything wrong. You are entitled to end a relationship for any reason you wish or no reason at all. She has to deal with the consequences of her actions, just as OP must deal with the consequences of his own actions.
>>16916038
>expecting a girl to not have porn of her on the internet is unrealistic
Okay then, send me the link of your videos.
>>16916007
>misses the point
>proves the point
>>16916055
What? Provide an argument or fuck off.
Even though you ate disagreeing with me let me through something else in here. You did not find the vid but your friend did, how much can you trust him to keep his mouth shut and not send the vid out to everyone making both you and your gf a laughing stock. Something to consider.
>>16915626
sluts don't deserve respect or happy life.
Dump her sorry ass. That would teach all women that being a whore never pays off at the end.
>>16916055
Look if you're spastic enough to think your past actions don't define who you are now, i truly feel sorry for you
>this much in and not a single link
op confirmed samefagging talking to himself for attention
>>16916088
>I cannot accept that people change
>>16916101
>OP GIVE ME A LINK TO YOUR GF HAVING SEX
>I NEED IT FOR SLICKING I MEAN SCIENCE
No one cares what you do.
Post the video.
>>16915626
All these posts and not a single one pointing out the biggest red flag: Her trying to initially lie about it and say it wasn't her.
Drop this bitch.
>>16916102
>I dontwant to have to deal with the consequences of my actions
>>16915626
Imma need dat link boy.
>>16916114
>>16916107
>>16916105
samefagging this hard
>>16916110
Dealing with the consequence and changing are not mutually exclusive
>>16916122
So you agree that sluts should deal with never being loved
Bronaise it was in da past my advice is to forget about it unless she was dating you when it happened. So basically forgive and forget and send me the vid link bro.
>>16916108
Well its not like I would expect anyone to be proud of being that much of a degenerate
>>16916102
lol. Must be fun hiding behind the guise of "change"
>hey guys look i have changed, i am no longer who i was before! yes you heard me right, my past actions don't influence my character at all!
>>16915626
Were you together at that time ?
If not, then you, and all the other beta on this thread are cancer.
>>16916142
>I failed this math test at the first grade. But look I studied hard and I managed to get a 100!
>>16916150
>not liking sluts makes you cancerous
>>16916128
If she's loyal to me now and she's over that phase, and provided she's not sick with STDS, I will love her, yes.
>>16916150
Can I see your gf's vids please? Alpha male here is a real man who dates real pornstars.
>>16916164
>i overcamed the challenge of not being good at math
>i overcame the challenge of being a cocksleeve
You will always be that little boy who was bad at math but worked hard and got good. Hell thats something to be proud of.
Theres nothing to be proud of about being a cocksleeve.
>>16916171
>im a cuck
>>16916176
>I used to suck a lot of cocks. But I grew up and I'm now a faithful lover, loyal to my man and family.
C H A N G E
>>16916186
>I used to suck a lot of cocks
No need to read further. Fucking sluts.
>>16916164
This post was so spastic i started laughing pretty hard on the train. Thanks.
>>16916176
this guy summed it up lol. Comparing a little kid getting better at maths to a slut not taking as many dicks is a pretty hilarious.
>>16916193
>My jimmies are too rustled to see the full picture of a situation
I G N O R A N C E
>>16916186
>I no longer guzzle cocks
>Be proud of me
No
>>16916173
Being once in an amateur video of a threesome doesn't make you a porn star, little kid.
>>16916217
>slut in the picture
no thanks
Thank god I'm 32 and an unlovable monster! thanks Op made my day!
>>16916193
>I'd rather go with my feelings rather than think!
You'll never become a State Department Judge with that type of thinking bro
>>16916228
I have all the info I need to make a decision.
>>16916230
Clearly you let your feelings get in the way of evaluating a situation.
You're better off being a soap writer.
>>16916234
>Your feelings are making her out to be a slut
Sure thing slut
>>16916234
Of course no one bothered to read my reasonable post. You people would rather argue with each other and be assblasted over who has the moral high-ground. Fucking pathetic.
>>16916236
>My jimmes are too rustled to evaluate the rest of the evidence
Yeah, you're an excellent scientist too.
>>16916238
Where is your reasonable post?
>>16916238
Who are you?
I already told op do whatever wants I don't care lmfao.
>>16916243
>evidence
No its just irrelevant data I threw out because it didnt change the fact that shes a slut.
>>16916250
>I am discarding this data because of my feelings
>there goes my chances of becoming an evidence clerk and a detective
Shiet, you're losing out on all the jobs today.
Stick with writing soaps kid, you're not completely useless.
Haha, link please OP?
Op will be sucking dicks in his current gfs panties and dress in less than one year I guarantee it.
>>16916263
>>16916275
>Now that I've been put in my place, I will admit that I wasn't being serious all along
>We're just h-having fun right? I'm not really as feebled minded as you've pointed me out to be right?
Haha later kid, let the big boys talk
>>16916263
>If you don't like sluts you can't get a job
Pathetic
>>16916290
Read this book, you'll enjoy it
>>16916300
Can't. Might turn me into a slut.
>>16916307
So are you married?
If you aren't and you've had sex, you are a degenerate slut too.
>>16916317
Well if that's how you define slut, I can't complain.
>>16916317
That will fly right over ops 12 year old idea of adult sex.
>>16916321
> adults are degenerates
No
>>16916324
Go call your gf degenerate plz and send apic of the txt, hey its how you really feel. Our give me your gfs number, doesn't bother me she used to be a slut, just that she was with you.
ITT: OP is a huge prude, people tell him he's a prude, he gets mad.
He'd honestly be doing his girlfriend a favor by breaking up with him because he sounds like an insufferable boring douche with an incredibly bland personality. The worst you've done is broken a vase and messed up on some tests?! Wow OP! You're living life to the extreme!!
>>16916356
Agree 100% this kid can't live life.
>>16915626
She is a whore and a degenerate. One thing is have sex with a boyfriend and other thing and other thing is make porn with two guys at the same time. Whore. And if you are going to stay with her you are a cuck, also other degenerate.
>>16915635
But it's so, so, so much easier for women to get sex. So it makes a woman with high partners undisciplined and cheap, also it hurts her ability to form a strong bond.
For men is harder so it's a challenge that has been overcome. So it's respectable.
Double standards exist for a reason.
Sluts are not good for anything serious. That's why men instinctively know not to stay with one.
>>16916369
Its not porn.
You fap to furries and shemales, you ate degenerate.
>>16916377
It takes two people to fuck
It's not easier, you're just shit at it
>>16916377
I didn't know Elliott Rogers was still alive and posting! How's that manifesto going?
Itt a bunch of virgins with unrealistic expectations of women and hypocritical views of themselves.
>>16916382
what?
While I personally wouldn't be bothered by it, you clearly are.
So you should end the relationship. You obviously want to.
>>16916391
It's not hypocritical at all. My statement is completely reasonable. No mentally healthy man would want a slut for anything more than sex. It messes women up to sleep with a lot of men.
>>16916407
How do you know this? Is it the sex that makes them broken or the different face?
>>16916384
Poor logic. Women have more sexual options giving them more power in the dating game. A woman could go outside and ask men if they'd Fuck her and she's get laid fast. Men would get accused of sexual harassment if he did the same.
You're nuts to think differently.
>>16916419
And men would be fucking two chicks at once more if they could. ...but can't so get mad at women who can, easily.
>>16916417
Because. Look at society. For example the most unhappy demographic in western society are middle aged career women.
They slut around when they are youthful (most attractive). Then as their youth begins to fade, they get less and less male attention and go into panic mode.
I just have noticed in life women who are sluts tend to be less emotionally stable.
Because it's harder for men to get sex, it's an accomplishment for him to get laid a, lot.
For women it takes no effort to get some one to stick his penis in her, it's no effort therefore no accomplishment.
>>16916419
Why would you want to fuck a bitch you've never even spoke to
It'd probably be shitty sex
>>16916384
Oh and you're probably a woman, so your opinion in that post has been discarded. You have no idea what it's like to be a man so don't give an opinion on something you will never comprehend.
>>16916447
I have a beard tho
>>16916428
I'm not even mad. My point is that it's ok and smart to judge sluts. Their is a big difference between a man who is capable of banging lots of sluts and being a slut.
>>16916450
Would you be in a serious relationship or marry a slut?
>>16916442
Proof of this? and keep in mind even if it is true, therw are not many of these women around. I know of one and she is happy and gets dick whenever she wants still but is old.
I'm guessing never touched 20 something virgins are more depressed though.
>>16916456
I'd rather have a girl that's fun to do shit with
I would only get married if it's the best option financially
>>16916286
I wasn't the guy you were talking to even. You morons are being completely ridiculous over such inane bullshit.
>>16916469
You didn't answer my question.
>>16916477
"Serious" relationships are a joke senpai
>>16916479
Maybe you're the joke
>>16916479
>>16916220
Anyway, where's your gf's vid?
>>16916480
I'm having a grand time either way
>>16916479
>"Serious" relationships are a joke senpai
>senpai
Opinion discarded
>>16916485
This. Show us this slut in action
>>16916487
So are the rest of us.
If you really want equality let's establish legislation that give men equal access to women's bodies that they have to men's.
>>16916377
>Double standards exist for a reason
Yeah, that reason is that guys have paper thin egos and can hold illogical, contradictory thoughts for the sake of their irrational emotions.
Please stop making men look like retards. You are literally what is promoting the need for feminism.
>>16916519
I agree with this anon. Equality has nothing to do with fairness or morals. For example look at affirmative action.
>>16916476
>replying to inane comments with inane comments
>>16916525
If women didn't have paper thin egos they wouldn't care if people judged them for being a slut.
Also they wouldn't need to feel the need to (pathetically with the handicap of special laws that ensure they get hired because they've a vagina and not because they're qualified) do men's work just because.
Like females in the military who want to be infantry. The first woman to make the cut deserted.
Women don't want to work. They just want the option.
Don't judge her for being a fish that swims.
See women will be women and all this is justified to her already.
> it was a troubled time and i feel ashamed blah blah sucked on 6 dicks all at the same time blah blah
Blame yourself for falling in deep love with a whore when your clearly not looking for a whore.
OP you made the mistake of getting caught up in that pussy.
> no signs how could this have happened.
There cant be any telling if your not willing to look.
Dump her tell her she's got porn on the web bail and look for a better girl.
Find some one better is the only way and you can only go up cause your fucking an ex porn actress.
Op your gf isn't special just dirtier go find some one less dirty it can't be that hard and learn to not get caught up in them so much.
There are probably times your bitch as is
> dam my gf sucks cock like a pro or she works that pussy hmmm.
>>16916544
This so much this guy knows
Then you tell them the option is your dick and later reveal that they still got to work.
>>16916555
I meant judge in the sense that they're dirty and not worth anything serious. You literally just told him to judge her for her past, exactly like I did.
Hey dumbass at least use this to your advantage and bang her and other girl at the same time while taking video.
>Then post it on the internet
>>16916574
He's already in to deep emotionally. He needs to dump her and start dating other women so he doesn't continue to be stuck on her. This will take any influence over him emotionally away.
>>16916571
Yup
Op if your cool fucking with a hoe that's fine. Some are cool with that
> I am don't care as long as she std free and gets to work on this dick. But chicks like this usually get booted out cause of their issues that come along. It keeps balance that I have pretty decent standards to get in a relationship.
Some people aren't and with good reason.
Don't listen to all does fucks telling you how to feel just look at logically
If she's throwing it out there it's of low value and you my friend seek top tier pussy.
This is fine and the worst part is that there is a lot of pussy to test out. Better get to work op cause these ladies ain't going to dick themselves down.
>>16916563
Topkek.
Problem is that soon that could be considered rape in some places. Women want all the sexual power. They want to be able to.withdraw consent after the fact.
Fucking diseases minded sickos.
I'm starting to wonder if consent is really a social construct. I mean what if rape isn't even a real thing?
What if he taught women from a young age that it wasn't wrong? Just automatically consent. It only hurts them because they're taught it's bad.
This might also stop women from using their sexuality as a barging chip or a weapon. That's something men can't do.
How is it fair they get to vote and use sexuality to manipulate, influence and get money?
That's a huge privilege an edge.
>>16916605
And the more women you experience the better judge you'll be.
Break ups can be harder on men because it's not as easy as you to rebound as it it's for her, making you more desperate because of lack of easy options. But for her, well she gets hit on every day, guys ask for her number every day. So if she loses you what does she care? She certainly isn't used to.rejection so she will want to be the one to do the rejecting.
>>16915626
Fuck you op, your bait made me mad cus I know some people are really this retarded. You would easily have a threesome if it was offered but it wasn't you cuck faghot
>>16915626
You're the dumbass for not being clear about what is acceptable from the beginning.
And the fact that you love her because you didn't know her past shows that it doesn't really matter.
>>16915962
>if you dont let your girl get pounded by 3 guys at once youre insecure!
Hows the weather in cuckistan?
>>16916102
>yea sure i sucked 5 cocks yesterday but im different now!
>so what if i stole last week im a new person
>stop bringing up the past
Im curious , whats it like being the mental age of a 5 year old? You seem to think "the past" are magic words that removes any penalties to past actions
>>16915721
>can you imagine yourself marrying a women who fucked two guys on cam
some people can
>>16916677
Because people can't realize after that what they did was not what they wanted and then change themselves because of it. Yup, nobody changes over time at all.
How does it feel having the mentality of a seven year old?
>>16915626
Past actions imply future patterns. OP is completely right to be worried. It's completely illogical to dismiss it.
It's like finding out someone used to be an alcoholic. They may not be one now but it totally changes how you look at the person, what sort of things you look out for.
>>16915792
Then marry a Nazi. People have different values. Get over it.
Man up and marry a Nazi.
>>16915626
There's a saying: Can't turn a hoe into a housewife. Plain and simple. One is one, the other is the other.
>>16915626
What a fucking whore you have for a girlfriend. Do you really want to live with a piece of human shit like that? I bet not.
>>16915626
>This morning I asked my gf about the link and at first she tried to say it wasnt her
This is the deal breaker. Who knows what else she'll lie about?
/pol/ here by the way
I mean this is really up to you. I slutted around in college and when I started dating my now husband, I told him point blank. He got over it. I've never even so much as flirted with another dude and honest to god love my husband so much and want to spend all my time with him. People change but it's up to you if you'll be able to move on from it.
>>16916736
Yea man people change all the time! Thats why repeat offenders and addicts dont exist, its as easy as snapping your fingers and everyone will learn from.past behaviors and change for the better!
1) She can't force you to stay with her, as much as she might like to. In the end, the call's in your court about what to do about the situation and you want to leave. That's fine.
2) The video was her decision too. I'm presuming this was back before she started going out with you. If it was outside the time of your relationship, she wasn't cheating. Also otherwise her sex life is her sex life, just as your decision to leave is your decision.
What I'm saying is you don't have the moral high ground to dump her, but it's still your decision so do with it what you want.
>>16915626
Dump that bitch
>>16915805
>No they don't, this is top-tier bad.
You really think the "cool kids" aren't grinding their genitals away nonstop in college? FFS what do you think happens at pajama parties?
>>16915871
This 100% if there is a video of just this then God knows what else is lurking in the closet.
Goddamn you are going to dump this girl pretty soon anyways so post the video. Muthaless?
>>16915626
once a whore always a whore, get away (maybe you should guilt trip her into something satisfiyng before)
>>16915626
she lied to you family, she has 0 credibility. honesty is key.
It would be different if she came clean to it; and in that instance you should of laid the ground work for what you want from the sexual aspect of the relationship.
you gotta understand man, its not that she fucked 2 dudes during college thats got you feeling that way.
its the notion that she Lied about it; that gut feeling telling you. "hey family shes great, but she lied to us about some serious shit, she'll probably do it again if shit goes south between us."
>>16916787
>Let's just discount all the people that do change so that it can fit my worldview! Yeah!
Please chug some bleach.
>>16915962
>fucking dudes on video.
>normal gf
Pick one retard.
>>16915630
Fucking leave her. You want everyone to know you as the guy with the girl who does fetish porn? Fuck that. Your kids, if you have them, will undoubtedly have it thrust upon them also. Fucking leave her mate
>>16916777
>>16915695
The se two are the only ones who have thought this through
no healthy, sane woman would allow herself to be filmed taking two dicks and being used as a walking fleshlight. promiscuity is strongly linked with emotional issues and terrible life choices all-around.
disgust is the proper response in this situation. you should leave her before you get suckered into supporting an unfaithful, resentful, broken human being. do it before she leaves your sorry ass for someone else. or worse (like taking care of a child that isn't yours). you don't have to be a dick about it, just go.
in short, gtfo. and start visiting /pol/.
>>16916866
>>16916848
buht buht I did too ;'(
>>16916809
>you don't have the high ground when you find out your gf did something extremely taboo and then lies about it
What is this bizarro world I've stumbled onto?
>>16916876
Sorry, friend. I Shoulda refreshed the page before I posted.
>>16916877
women found 4chan and with their new found anonymity they think their opinions are just as valid as the rest of ours.
>>16915626
If you break up over her for this you are going to feel good for awhile
I guarantee you after a month you'll be feeling bad about it, probably dreaming about her or hitting yourself in the shower because you've gotten over the fact she had sex with other people before you.
It's a fucking normal thing to have sex you retarded aspie. IF you are going to treat your girlfriend like this break up with her then.
>>16915626
it human nature op. us men just cant handle this sort of thing. youll only torture yourself by trying to make things work. break up with her but dont be mean about it.
this is what things are like now. women want sexual liberatiom and perhaps rightly so but very few men can know that their gf has been batteried by two guys at the same time and be ok with it. at least you found out before you had kids
Be a man OP and get over it. If you can't handle this you don't deserve to have relations.
Fucking children I swear grow the fuck up.
>>16916356
>not wanting a gf that has done porn
>prude
The real big deal here is that he had to find out about it through his friend. Who knows what other shit she isn't telling him.
>>16916893
>it's a fucking normal thing to have sex
This is true.
>it's a fucking normal thing to have sex with multiple people at once while documenting the occasion via video for later viewing
This is not true.
People can change, but some choices are permanent. I have a friend that did heroin before it forever changed my impression of him. Is he a nice guy now? Sure, but I'll never get past the fact that he was a heroin addict and so I'll likely never trust him in the same way I would otherwise be able to.
The people trying to convince OP in this thread that what she was "the norm" are beyond ridiculous. OP isn't mad because his GF has sex a few years back, it WOULD be ridiculous for him to be mad over that. He is mad because his GF engaged in quote "hard core amateur porn ... with 2 other guys".
I don't think the "average" or "normal" girl in college is off finding two dudes to spitroast her and then film it.
>>16916893
>it's totally normal to be filmed taking two dicks at once
>he'll feel good at first and then really bad later!
every thing you say is a lie. you sure like to lie a lot, don't you liar?
>>16916908
Yeah if you had fucked a whore when you were young or had sex with two drunk sluts at a party or fucked three different girls in one day I'm sure you'd be bursting at the seams to tell your girlfriend about all that!!
>>16916905
>says someone whose only human interaction is tumblr and reddit
>>16916905
>if you can't handle your girlfriend engaging in hardcore pornography while subsequently lying to your face about it you don't deserve to have relations
Do people really and genuinely not understand why OP might be a little annoyed about this situation?
Holy shit, you are acting like he found out his girlfriend had kissed someone once in her life before him and he went ape shit or something.
She went from 0 to 60 on the degenerate scale, just because she is attempting to ramp it down now that she realizes her mistakes doesn't mean she hasn't clearly shown that she possesses the capacity to ramp on up again.
The lying is the worst and most telling part of OP's story. You are truly a fucked up person for insulting his masculinity just because you personally happen to be okay if guys run train on your girlfriend then she lies about it to you.
>>16915626
I wouldn't have a problem with it because it can be used to my advantage in almost all ways. The only thing you have to do is get over the HUURR DUUUUR my girl has taken someone fucking cock before OH NO!
I got over that in high school. Was she single? Yes? Then get the fuck over it (or not, it's your life).
So. After finding this video I would have brought it up to my girl in a neutral light to test her lying ability. Then I would have gently called her on it. Then, if she had tried to lie to me, I would have guilted her FOR THAT. Taking dick when single? We're good. Lying to me about it? Fuck no, not OK.
Then, after showing her I was just fine with it, I would have started encouraging us to explore sexually. You want two guys baby? Let's go get another one and double team you. Then, after that, we would have moved into shit more focused on me - threesomes with women, fucking other men with me, etc.
I'm a sexual freak. I would love to have a girl slutty enough to do porn. I love sluts.
Would I marry her and raise her kids. Naaaah. But she doesn't need to know that. Why not use this to your advantage in the meantime?
>>16915626
DON'T LISTEN TO THESE FUCKING KEKS OP. This is not 'slut shaming,' you are dating a literal whore. Sluts should be shamed as well, telegony is real. Women retain the DNA of past lovers cucks.
http://time.com/3461485/how-previous-sexual-partners-affect-offspring/
>all these being a man is accepting someone's past behavior no matter how disgusting it is
I have no words for this cuckoldry. OP is literally with a girl who took two dicks at once, on camera, and anyone with Internet access can see it. OP if you have a single shred of self-respect leave her at once.
It would be one thing if you were an open relationship, non-jealous guy. But that's not you. What you're feeling is perfectly natural, and if you try to fight these feelings and stay with her you will be bitter, full of resentment, and you will probably develop some self-esteem issues, trust issues, or some sort of sexual dysfunction. Leave her. It's the right thing for you, and for her. Because you deserve someone who doesn't disgust you, and she deserves someone who is cool with that kind of behavior.
>>16916929
Lying out of fear of being misunderstood is one thing.
Lying for manipulative gains is another (which I would use your aggressive viewpoint for)
Fucking loser grow up and come back when you actually have had a single productive relationship.
