>be me
>29
>always am attracted to girls that have been through shit
>get turned on by friendzone
>I just want a girl that will take control of my life and give me direction
>I worship females and feel so submissive in their presence, to the point thats it downright embarrassing
>most girls I encounter can immediately sense this
I just want a girl that I can talk to, and listen to. I want a friend that I can fall asleep with. It doesn't have to be sexual, but I'd love to wake up next to her and cook her breakfast and give her massages and love her for who she is; her strengths and faults. Of course it would be great if I could have sex with her or maybe at least help her orgasm to relieve whatever tension she is dealing with, but I don't even feel it's necessary for me, and I would hope she has a lot of sexual gratification even if she finds it from other guys. As long as she'd come back to me and let me treat her with love and respect...
ladies ...am I fucking weird?
What do I do? I feel like it's impossible to find a girl like this...
This is not mommy issues. This is a lack of socialization with females.
Would you let her peg you?
>>16911223
Depends, whats in it for me?
>>16911212
>I would hope she has a lot of sexually gratification even if she finds it from other guys
Do you have a fetish for getting cucked?
Also yes, I think you're weird, but I'm also an 18 year old guy.
>>16911231
A pain in your butt and the submissive satisfaction that you let her enjoy you.
>>16911231
>Depends, whats in it for me?
> help her orgasm to relieve whatever tension she is dealing with, but I don't even feel it's necessary for me
why yo lyin?
>>16911239
no, it's more or less that I feel that cute girls shouldn't be ashamed of having a lot of sex with multiple partners. I think thats naturally the way its supposed to be and for me to expect her to just deny her own nature would be cruel and unreasonable, so I'd rather embrace it as something beautiful that is to be treasured.
>>16911246
I highly doubt women achieve orgasm from wearing a strap on and fucking a guy in the ass with it
if it weren't for sissy femdom porn and lesbians, I highly doubt women would do it at all
>>16911257
yeah, i would use one of those strap-ons that have a vibrator mounted for my own pleasure too. and i would get off to you squirming and screaming in pain while leaking precum like an idiot just fine.
>>16911259
problem is, you're a fag that is trying to troll, not a femanon
>>16911251
So you encourage girls to be sluts? I'm not sure how I feel about that. If you didn't already imply that you didn't care about your sexually pleasure, I'd be convinced that you were just looking for an open relationship/FWB but now I think you're just really odd.
>>16911275
I don't encourage them to be anything other than what they want to be. I'm just stating that I don't shame them for having the natural desire to fulfil themselves sexually. I think when a girl has sex, it is a very beautiful thing and it's very humbling to know that she is willing to give that part of herself to those who seek it, yet still love you for who you are at the end of the day.
>>16911266
if only you knew
>>16911301
Well you're certainly free to tell me, not sure what you're trying to do here.
>>16911296
Your altruism is what concerns me about you, lol. That explanation isn't helping.
>>16911307
*altruistic idealism
>>16911305
ok,now let's be serious for a moment.
yes, you DO have issues. might be mommy issues, but you don't even need to label them. you put girls on a pedestal and it will get you hurt. you will get cucked and what not. might sounds neat in fantasy or porn, but irl it's mostly a shit idea. you should stay away from dating for a while, go to therapy and work on getting atleast a tiny bit of dignity and self-worth. godspeed op
>>16911296 I'm a nice type of girl and I tell you now: You're gonna ha e a hard time I you keep up with this.
A good girl won't ever want to be with another guy and will want to do all those things with only you. What you do for her she has to be willing to do for you. Maybe less, but anyhow... Cheating won't do. That's cheating in my book and you need therapy.
Bai bb boi
>>16911307
How is it altruism if I get enjoyment out of it? How is it selfless if I get the companionship I seek?
Nothing is free, and in my mind, its an equal exchange. My love and support for her love and support. Sure 'love' and 'support' mean different things to different people, but if it satisfies the definition for both parties, is it not eqaul?
>>16911315
I have dignity and self worth. I've spent countless hours, days, months, etc. traveling the country and analyzing who I am, what I believe, and why.
I know where I stand, and love my life and everyone in it.
>>16911317
You're focusing on the fact that I'm okay with her having sex with other guys as if its a requirement. It's not, I'm just saying I want someone to love no matter what. What she does is her prerogative, and I'd support her as best as I can because that's what I enjoy doing.
>>16911333
the denial...
This thread is a perfect example of how few people understand the kind of person I am, much less the kind of person I'm looking for.
It's so difficult to explain anything reasonable to people that can't see past the status quo.
>>16911357
No, those are trips of truth friendo.
I know myself, trust me.
>>16911363
You're an idealist. How many girlfriends did you have?
>>16911212
>downright embarrassing
doesn't sound healthy
however, you need a sugar momma. find an older girl. my mom and her bf are like that. he's basically her kid that gets to also fuck her. she's 17y his senior.
>>16911212
I know how you feel, still I'm not so deep in it yet.
I just wish for a strong motherly partner who'd like to be the one wearing the pants while I act as that one 50's movie "happy" wife who's best moment of the day is when the "husband" comes back from home.
I never had issues with my mom and I keep having a normal parents-son relationship with my parents so I don't quite understand why I am like this.
>>16911390
Been there. Was living with a girl that was 39 when I was 26.
From her I learned the differences between 'experience' and 'maturity'.
She was very experienced, yet had the maturity of a 15 year old. Too emotionally unstable and unsure of herself.
>>16911408
>She was very experienced, yet had the maturity of a 15 year old. Too emotionally unstable and unsure of herself.
you won't find a sugar mom that's not like that to some extend
...
i'm older than my bf myself. (he's 22, i'm 27). and i had to get over myslef in the beginning because i second guessed why i wanted to be in a realtionship with a younger guy. in the end, i decided to not give a shit. i'm naturally assertive and prone to be the one "with the pants on" in a realtionship. i'm ok with that and so is my bf, wo why should anyone care. i have some idea why i'm the way i am and i also have and idea of why my bf is the way he is. but in the end, it's all just theory and assumtions, so it's not of great value. why not just go with the trial and error approach untill you find a girl that fits you?
>>16911429
time is a huge constraint for me. I travel for 5-6 weeks at a time with very little home time (5 days max)
Talking to random girls who have no idea what I want is hard enough on a REGULAR schedule, especially when every girl I try to have a substantial conversation with just thinks I'm trying to get in her pants... try opening the conversation only to have to tell her that you don't know if you'll ever be back here, and if you do come back, when it will be, and that you live "everywhere".
I log into tinder, plentyoffish etc. and every time it brings up an entirely different list based upon what city I'm in that night. Exploratory dating is an impossibility.
