Let me just start by saying this isnt a troll thread.
I genuinely believe that monogamy and this hookup culture we have are incompatible and studies validate that people with a lower sexual partner are less likely to cheat.
I know you guys like to believe that a girl is going to be faithful no matter what but I dont want some flimsy promise that she is going to up hold. Sex means something more to me.
How do I find a gf we beliefs closer to mine. Ive had sex with one girl and it was with a girl I was engaged with but she fell deathly ill unfortunately it wasnt meant to be. Now Im not particularly looking for a virgin. That would just be ideal. Id be willing to go as high as 3 or 4. MAYBE 5. This of course assumes none of the instances were casual sex because despite what you think, I disagree and thats not a good disagreement to have in a relationship.
What Ive usually been doing is just going around dating girls, then they wonder why I wont have sex with them since Im always so horny and I have to explain how I feel about sex. Then they say what theyve done and I try to pretend its not a problem but it is a we break up eventually. What hurts more is when they lie.
Id just like to avoid this. Whats a good way for get a feel for a girls sexual history early in the relationship before ending things comes with hard feelings.
>>16910976
Let me add that this isnt for religious reasons if that wasnt clear enough. Ive always believed it so much so that I cute out porn after high school.
nothing you can do besides stop being a sorry faggot. Millions of people have found partners who are sexually promiscuous and not been cheated on- because they're not faggots and women enjoy being around them.
You can keep on going down this path and get nowhere, that's up to you.
>>16911007
>Millions of people have found partners who are sexually promiscuous and not been cheated on
Maybe I didnt make this clear. I dont want to be one of those people.
Dont imply that there arent women who arent sexually promiscuous because thats ridiculous.
Over 90% of women in the first world have already lost their virginity, and within those good luck finding the ones who were passed up on for being assholes.
You can either make this easier for yourself and drop your unnecessary rule or keep being a faggot.
Same situation here OP, but it looks like the only route you can go to find a woman like that is those who are highly religious.
I'm a lapsed Catholic myself, but I've been seriously considering going back to the church to find a woman I can marry. Who knows maybe it's all god's plan to get me to believe again.
Not just virginity too, but had multiple sexual partners.
>>16911035
>Over 90% of women in the first world have already lost their virginity
Its actually only 20% of women over the age of 25.
And that is further made more possible because you can profile by region. Dont touch a woman from Europe. America is hit or miss. Asia is pretty safe if she has enough money not to be a whore.
>>16911047
>Dont touch a woman from Europe
why ? civilised european countries don't have sluts like the usa, and the woman here don't fuck niggers or sandniggers
>>16911072
But have 50 sexual partners minimum. I dont call that civilized behavior.
>>16911047
correction, meant 20% still have their virginity at that age.
>>16911078
where the fuck do you pull that numbers from ?
there aren't many girls who have fucked that many guys, and they are already branded as sluts and no one would seriously date them
>>16910976
Set your age to 17 in dating apps. There's really no other way to have a reasonable chance of finding a virgin other than to date teenagers.
>>16911093
Part of your civilized hedonistic society that promotes sex
>>16911078
Troll thread confirmed.
>>16911123
butthurt european
>>16911078
why the fuck would you want to date hooker ?
>>16911126
He's right. Feminist entitlement is much worse in the US, and that's what produces sluts.
>>16911047
>20%
That sounds like complete horseshit. You got this statistic from where exactly?
>>16911164
Nah europe is literally casual sex central
>>16911183
Depends a LOT on the country.
I'm 23, two of my friends are still virgins, and only two of them had casual sex. And just one of them had more than 5 partners.
Here casual sex is still non an acceptable behaviour.
>>16911183
Does Ukraine fall into that?
>>16910976
Most girls aren't virgins, this is a fact of life. And just because she's a virgin doesn't mean she's a girl with good values. That doesn't mean to take a slut, although you shouldn't call women sluts. If the girl you find has had sex only in relationships, you should be fine.
>>16911242
Like I said. Id accept 3 or 4 partners in committed relationships. And there are still a good number of girls who are virgins.
virginity isnt everything
>>16910976
you come to the right place op this place is full of cucks and why not get an answer from the experts.
>>16911260
But its pretty important and shows you have a similar view with me when it comes to sex.
>>16911270
its just a preference but ideally symmetry is nice no double standards
>>16911286
>finding someone who shares your ideas is just a preference.
Are you being serious.
>>16910976
There is no way to know it for sure at the beginning.
I've had one partner (ex boyfriend, been together 6 years and half) and I share your beliefs but if someone asks me if I'm virgin or with how many people I've had sex out of the blue with it turns me off completely.
The guy I am seeing and I mentioned how many people we've had sex with because we were talking about our view of relationships and sex. It was after 2 or 3 weeks we met.
>>16911007
Fuck dude, the guy is actually asking something reasonable, unlike someone asking for a complete virgin. Someone who had one night stands or sex outside of relationships definitely has (or at least had at one point) a very different view of sex than OP.
Believe me, virgin girls do believe what OP does do exist. Not everyone's a normie who's been brainwashed by today's (depressing) hookup and non-commitment culture.
>>16911290
i've learned to forgive and forget; thats the point i was getting at also empathy
OP, sounds like you should look for Christian/Muslim women, since they would probably stick to abstinence until marriage, or some kind of similar religious group. I suspect that women in other countries might hold what you're looking for...? Because the US is almost anti-virgin in nature
>>16911303
Forgive and forget doesnt change the fact that we have incompatible ideas.
>>16910976
Step 1: find said girl. It helps if you're in a college or university. It's probably been said that shy girls are going to be the ones that haven't done the deed before, but this isn't always true. Just talk to girls.
Step 2: find some way to get to know said girl. Strike up some conversation with her without being awkward. Google how to do that. If she interests you, then cool! Proceed. If not, then do what you want. Just be friends. Idgaf, just don't be a dick.
Step 3: after hanging out for a bit (but not too long cause she'll probably be disinterested and not see you as a romantic object) ask her what she thinks about relationships. Things will naturally progress from there.
>>16911314
such as?
>>16911308
Women from other countries usually share the ideas that Im talking about. But I dont watch to limit my search to foreigners. Sounds like I have yellow fever or something.
It would have to be a devout christian because most of the US and that doesnt stop them. A devout Christians ideas ask them to find another Christian. Ive dated 2 muslim women and from my experience, its fine unless the parents are heavily involved. One of the girls parents were and wanted to kick her out of college for dating me. The other was pretty chill and things worked well.
>>16911325
vastly different views when it comes to having sex, the meaning and importance of sex, and the purpose of monogamy.
I'm not being sarcastic or rude here, OP, but...
You're going to have to lower your physical standards. A lot. Any girl worth her salt physically or personality wise has had so many dicks fly at her that some have been bound to stick one way or another. The girls who don't get it that often, jump on every cock they find. The girls who do, are usually pretty sexually liberated.
You're going to have to find a girl with a major malfunction - not crazy, they put out easily, too. She has to be ugly, hairy, cross eyed, some shit. Unfuckable by today's standards for _some_ reason.
Or you can just get over it.
>>16911331
i would just make it clear prerequisite but ask yourself why
>>16911359
I dont really understand what you are saying here. Make what clear. Ask myself why?
>>16911358
>You're going to have to lower your physical standards
No. Ive already done it once. Ive dated girls who fit what Im looking for. But Im trying to get rid of the bad experiences.
>>16911358
Shit, not everyone is that horny. What circles do you hang out in?
>>16911358
>girls who arent promiscuous are ugly, hairy, cross eyed, some shit. Unfuckable by today's standards
SJW on damage control. Calm that shit done.
>>16911374
yes then put yourself in her shoes to see if your compatible
>>16911405
>yes then put yourself in her shoes to see if your compatible
Then answer is no.
>>16911409
Just to be more clear, shed find me compatible with her ideas, but her ideas are not compatible with mine.
>>16911358
>Any girl worth her salt physically or personality wise has had so many dicks fly at her that some have been bound to stick one way or another.
You're insane. It is not that hard to close your legs.
I am fairly good looking and I have a decent personality, I get asked out often, but I am not interested in having casual sex so I don't.
I feel attracted to some guys, of course, but I have sex only with people I'd consider raising my kids with. I'm not an animal, I can control myself.
>>16911440
Not being promiscuous is some ridiculous concept people like to think. Its just a way of pressuring everyone into sex.
>>16911118
Not trying to go to jail.
There's nothing wrong with wanting that op if you yourself are a virgin.
Virgin women are everywhere. Want to hear something creepy? I have a folder of hundreds of pictures of virgin girls from years lurking /soc/
If you aren't religious it's unlikely that you'll just happen to find the rare not religious virgin.
YYou can start tatalking to SEA women, filipinas and Vietnamese still value virginity. Some mail order bride services carry girls with virginity certificates since gynos in a lot of countries still issue them or you could always just ask her for one.
>>16911617
>You can start tatalking to SEA women, filipinas and Vietnamese still value virginity. Some mail order bride services carry girls with virginity certificates since gynos in a lot of countries still issue them or you could always just ask her for one.
You sound real fucked up.
You can kind of tell by looking they'll have softer facial features and perkier boobs, lower voices. Either way you won't know until you ask and even then they'll lie. You're going to have to go on 50 billion dates and weed out the sluts.
