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Everything I say comes out confrontational/uninterested? Hard to flirt with women?
2016-03-13 06:43:10 Post No. 16909991
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Everything I say comes out confrontational/uninterested? Hard to flirt with women?
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2016-03-13 06:43:10
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Once I got to college, I've had a decent amount of women flirt with me. Some have told me I'm cute, others have flat out told me they were into me.
I can't carry a conversation though.
>Not nervous
>Not shy
It's just that anything I say, the way I phrase it comes off extremely confrontational or uninterested. And I don't know how to fix it. I only really speak when spoken to or in a interesting conversation when it comes to strangers. Like I said, I'm not shy, but if I have nothing to say, I don't bother saying it.
>Concert a few nights ago
Random girl came up to me before the main show started, and asked me if I was a girl, what shirt I'd buy
>Well I don't know. I'm not a girl, I've never thought about it too much *laughs*
Oh
>I'd probably go for that one, the one with the blue and pink
(jokingly saying) Are you just saying the pink one because I'm a girl?
>No, I'm saying the pink and blue because I think it looks good.
We finally got on a good conversation, she offered me a few beers, we talked throughout the show and I had a good time. While I felt we had a pleasant interaction, I imagine she might have felt awkward about it, despite her outgoing mannerisms towards me (Brushing up against me, smiling, etc) Because the conversation would die at points but she kept trying to get me to talk.
I really wish I had more to say, but I just never think of it in the moment. I only think of stuff after the fact and then kick myself for not thinking of it at the time.