I finally came out to my girlfriend of 5+years as polyamorus. She sensed that was the case and gave me the OK to test the waters as it were. Problem is, I have no experience outside of monogamous dating, I'm back in junior college because my place of employment closed down, and my car recently broke down so I'm a busfag for the foreseeable future (USfag.)
I'm broke, carless, ambition less, and starting my late 20's. How do I get into poly dating so I can stop feeling dead inside and hopefully find the motivation to focus more on getting my worthless degree?
>>16902212
You aren't polyamorus, you're just an idiot
Yeah, you're not polyamorous, you're bored. You don't wanna break up with your girlfriend, but you wanna fuck other women.
>>16902239
Fair assessment, I wish I could definitively tell you if that were true or not.
Anything of worth I've done with my life was primarily motivated by meeting women. (I have issues.) When my gf gave me the green light it was like opening up a gilded cage to find an empty wasteland.
The affirmation that comes from intimate conversation an validation that another human could be interested in me are the only things keeping me going. I can't distract myself with booze fames and 4chan forever. What do Anon?
anon I'm in a similar boat, except I broke up with my girlfriend but it didn't quite take and she agreed to an open relationship (which is still poorly defined), but I haven't really had the motivation to go out and date (despite some opportunities with women).
Also I got fired and my car got stolen and so am also a busfag now which is a weird coincidence. Fuck this job market.
>>16902624
Are you me? I console myself with the fact that I'm at least going to school. But it's of small consequence when I don't really believe it'll change much.
>>16902212
Want to fuck more then one girl is natural. It's also fucking dumb and not how the world works. Get a job, a passion and grow up.
>>16902666
Teach me senpai
>>16902212
>gf said its okay
Shes taking other dicks 100% guaranteed. You cant complain about it now.
>>16902761
> Implying that would bother me at this point.
> Implying I wouldn't want to tag team her.
Inb4 cuckfag
>>16902212
Dude you are an asshole.
Twice.
your gf get your declaration as a green card.
Also you can't afford "poly" at best you can get a "mistress"
No not even, you can have some quikie or a desperate side girl.
Anyway good luck
>>16902771
Oh yeah but you miss the point.
You can even bring her in a gang bang and convince yoursel to be the Master, but you are now degraded to a men among others.
You came out as poly in only 5 years? That must've been hard, for a retard that thinks they're poly
Maybe you shouldn't leave your gf and you're not bored your just mistaking attraction to other people as something to define yourself by cause it makes you special. Getting a girlfriend shouldn't and usually doesn't blind you.
Being sexually attracted to attractive people is normal.
>>16902239
Don't we all.
>>16902212
>I have no experience being Poly but I totes am
Jesus christ you kids are stupid.
>>16902212
More fucking aint the solution dumb cunt.
