Eh, somehow, even though I am overweight, decently cute girls seem to find me attractive, but I am still to fucking nervous to approach them.
Like, This example
"So.... Some girl at the local sandwich shop was asking my parents where I was.... As she tends to flirt with me.... But stupid socially oblivious me really never noticed...
Her exact words to my parents "Where is your Son? He's kind of cute and I like to fuck with him"
Then there's this other girl in my Public Speaking and Sociology classes, that MAY be interested (Pic Related) Though, I am still too nervous to approach her.
So what to do... Work up and ask the girl I like, or see where it goes with the one at the Sandwhich shop (Have no real attraction to her)?
>>16901642
You can always get your illusion shattered. Do it, it will be good for you.
>>16901650
More so is from what friends notice, not really my own perception
Should have mentioned, I am more so asking about how I should go about asking her.... As I am stupidly awkward socially
>>16901642
made some improvements
Being overweight doesn't mean you're unattractive. Quadrupally for dudes.
Apparently you're a husky hunk or something.
>>16901818
Doubtful to that last part
>>16901642
thats a crazy chick my friend, you dont want crazies, not outside of some good head at least.
seriously though, just flirt right on back. i dont think you're oblivious, I dont buy that anyone can genuinely not notice flirting, I think you force a self image of the naive cute boy who never flirts onto yourself and it actually has affected your thinking. Introspect really hard and reply.
>>16901876
True, I figured she might be a bit crazy, atleast the Deli one.
Though, I think I did kind of force myself to not notice, as I have been burned before
>>16901894
>Though, I think I did kind of force myself to not notice, as I have been burned before
and there you go. you answered your own question. good luck!
>>16901898
Yea, I tend to other not notice, or overthink shit. Never simple one way or the other....
Like this one sat near me (A seat a way) at the count in the food court at school, while plenty of other seats were open. So, it could just be that she needed an outlet, though I think other seats on the counter were open as well...
>>16901907
>Like this one sat near me (A seat a way) at the count in the food court at school, while plenty of other seats were open. So, it could just be that she needed an outlet, though I think other seats on the counter were open as well...
>overthink shit.
>>16901966
Eh, I could have mentioned another one, but to damned lazey
>>16901982
and apparently I still can't spell... Fuck. I need to sleep
