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Developing a stutter ?
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Recently I've begun to develop a stutter. As time progresses it gets worse and worse. I've always had a hard time socializing with my friends , or really or knowing what to say but now I stutter when I talk to them. On top of that , once I heard them talking and they are worried I might attempt to kill myself and are depressed. I wasn't but that in itself makes me feel shitty. As for the always being awful a socialaizing with people , I don't know what to say at all to continue a conversation. Throughout life I've had problems figuring out what is appropriate to do in social situations.
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See a speech therapist, perhaps?
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Because we've spent too much time alone in our lives and not enough socializing. Not comfortable enough with it.

I've developed a stutter because I got so used to needing to say things twice to get anyone to listen, and also my mind gets clouded and I repeat fragments trying to remember where I was going with my sentence

Just own it. People will obviously be aware that you stutter, but no asshole is gonna make fun of you for that alone.
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>>16901297
I had to do that all the time. No one would ever listen to me and Id have to say something twice to get anyone's attention. Ive also developed stupid /weird habits now.
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>>16901303
I found that it helped rather than hindered, because getting a word in is a bit easier now than it was a few years ago. Plus my friends are usually undsrstanding and patient about me repeating things like a sperg.

What habits, anon?
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>>16901392
The only porn I like now is loli, almost obsessed with it. I try to share loli with my friends caise its the one few things i want to share with them but theu just tell me its weird and are concerned for me. Also when I use my PC exactly every 30 seconds I will check to make sure the volume is at 100% , every min or so I would check to make sure that the polling rate switch on my keyboard hasn't been moved ( it's makes no sense for it to move lol ) and I do that stuff all the time.
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>>16901433
>loli
>i try to share it with my friends
What the fuck? You need to learn more social norms, because that is pretty weird bro.
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>>16901433
Its probably not a great socializing technique to talk about porn, esp if its loli. You gotta know social boundaries so you dont stand out as that weird guy, and also to keep from making others uncomfortable. Also the other habits are fine bro, I dont think theyre anything that'll take over your life.
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>>16901440
Well guys I said I don't really know what's a appropriate thing to do in social situations . I didn't expect him to react so negatively
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>>16901458
M8 you should google for appropriate etiquette, read some wikihow articles. Dont send loli to people.

Dont go "oh well" either. Better yourself.
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>>16901463
With my "internet friends" ( peopel I know I will never see irl ) I really let loose with my thoguhts . I told one friend that with little kids I fantasize about chasing kids in the park and tickling them. I get this feeling he is creeped out by me. When I go back and read the text chat it is really cringy and creepy feeling but it felt great if in the moment.
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>>16901458
Don't limit yourself with statements like that. I used to be a socially retarded autist but I listened to my friends and don't really have awkward moments like that anymore, unless I'm trying to spit game with a girl, and then it's just poor timing or bad comkunication. The fact that you come up with this excuse contributes to your "lack of understanding of social situations."
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>>16901433
You...have issues aside from the stutter.
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>>16901480
Even with internet friends, you still have to hold back a bit. Not everyone is open to crazy stuff right away, internet or not.
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>>16901517
What kind of issues?
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>>16901574
Nothing craigslist escorts can't fix.
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