Is it considered as cheating if I jerk off on webcam with other people? What is the difference to watching porn?
>>16900508
Ask your unfortunate partner, not us
Sigh.
I broke up with my bf for this kind of shit. Seriously, unless she isn't fucking you...there is no reason to do this. Get it together.
>>16900508
...how unfulfilling are you people's sex lives that you feel the NEED to do shit like this?
Every relationship I've ever been in, I've had enough access to great sex that I didn't even consider watching grainy video footage of drugged up slags shoving golf balls up their holes. Value what you have before it gets up and leaves you for being a bag of slime.
>>16900508
cheating is the act of engaging in a sexual activity (or romantic activity) with someone other than the person you are committed to.
masturbating to porn doesnt involve interaction. its just you and yourself with stimuli.
cyber sex, like oral sex, is still sex, and therefore cheating. if you are interacting with another person to get your rocks off, it is cheating.
if its not cheating, tell your ex.
>>16900508
>Is it considered as cheating if I jerk off on webcam with other people?
That's for your SO to decide. Not us, and not you. But most people would consider it cheating. And given that you're asking us and not your SO, I think it's safe to guess where your SO stands.
>What is the difference to watching porn?
Watching porn is a solitary activity: even if other people coincidentally happen to be present, when you watch, you watch alone. No one but you is getting you off.
Camming together is interactive: you are specifically and explicitly doing it with another person. That your own hand is the one that goes through the motions is irrelevant: the other person is getting you off, and vice versa. This is the only difference, but it makes all the difference.
And so, while I may not be qualified to judge your situation (only your SO can do that), I'm going to act a bit presumptuously, based on their likely response: stop trying to get away with cheating by playing the lawyer. If you're tired of your SO, that's your prerogative, but do the decent thing and end one relationship before starting the next.
>>16900738
I love you
