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I want to fucking die, how do I stop that feeling?
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I want to fucking die, how do I stop that feeling?
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Well, by killing yourself of course.

Or you could tell us what is troubling you.
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Have you tried doing anything differently to normal?
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Find something worth living for.
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>>16898073
I hate myself but everyone likes me. I'm literally incapable of having any appreciation for myself.

My dick doesn't work and I'm only 20 and still a virgin. I'm thinking it's ED, performance anxiety, I fap too much or porn ruined my tastes. I've given up on dating lest I embarrass myself in the bedroom like the last couple times

My career choice is retarded and I chose it because I kinda liked it in high school

Life in general doesn't seem worth living, I can't think of anything that would make me want to live it

>>16898076
>>16898095
Like what?
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>>16898113
Well all of those things are fixable,anon.
Go see a doc for the dick problem, or maybe just stop jerking it for awhile. Being a virgin is not that big of a deal, especially not one to kill yourself over. As for your career, maybe start looking into something else? It IS possible anon. You just gotta really want it.
Please don't kill yourself.
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>>16898113
>Like what?
Well, if most of the things that you do make you want to die, then do them differently, or stop them and do new things instead. You are in complete control of what you do and don't do. It's quite liberating when you fully realise that.
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>>16898113
1. Stop watching porn.
2. Stop participating in degenerate hookup culture.
3. Stop pretending that you are your career. You can quite your work at any time and start something different, believe it or not.
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>>16898134
I'm too much of a fucking coward to do it anyway. Not to mention that I've apparently made such an impact on so many people's lives that it'd be too selfish of me to leave them behind

But fuck, I really want to

>>16898143
I guess that's true but I really have no idea where to start

>>16898154
>Stop watching porn
>Stop participating in degenerate hookup culture

Why wouldn't you do one or the other? Either way I just wanna get laid so I can confirm that I can be in a healthy relationship at all, my dick needs to work for that to happen but I'm too afraid to roll the dice on trying to fuck anymore for fear of not being able to get a boner
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>>16898172
>I guess that's true but I really have no idea where to start

Well, what would you like to do that you don't currently do? If you don't have an answer immediately, keep the question in your mind for as long as it takes to come up with some answers.
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>>16898051
Stop thinking the world owes you anything or that things will magically get better with a few words from an anonymous image board. I'm not saying this out of disdain or pity. But out of indifference.

Realize that all the things you thought would make you happy and want to live aren't really going to do the trick. Instead it is the drive and pursuit of those people, experiences, and things that make you happy.

If you can't really find that happiness or drive within you just kill yourself, no shame in it really,
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>>16898172
>I just wanna get laid so I can confirm that I can be in a healthy relationship at all

Ah, so you're insecure about your own abilities. You don't really want a relationship, you just wanna prove that you are "normal". Lay off with that, grow some real confidence. No girl wants that kind of boyfriend.
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>>16898194
Yeah I'm fucking insecure about it but it's got nothing to do with what I want, I could do a relationship without sex if that were at all possible. The real concern is that all dating and relationships just boil down to sex anyway, I don't want to get to know a girl, get to appreciate and love her just to not be able to satisfy her sexual needs. A relationship without any sex wouldn't last long and I'd rather not endure that embarrassment and waste my time on something I'd know would be fruitless going in
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>>16898240
>>16898240
That won't work out. Women and men are sexual creatures. In most cases without sex from you she'd long to find it somewhere else if it was that rare between you.

Relationships boil down to more than that, sex is what is promoted because that can be considered one of the rawest forms of emotion in the relationship(also society pushes its importance). Here's the deal, relationships come to dominance and confidence. A man's confidence in himself and a woman's confidence in her man. It's a woman's nature to test this, to make sure he's on his toes. As they're always looking to see if you're the best they can do. So you need to check her and remind her that you lead this relationship(while still showing love and affection). The problem is, over time most men get caught up in the gentlemanly thing and lovie dovie nonsense and become pussified. Their women see them as their equals and lesser than them rather than a leader.

Don't get caught up in showing them all of your love, rather love them but lead them in the right direction and impose your will.
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