So like 5 days ago I met this guy at a show, and we talked a lot and we exchanged Facebook and I think numbers. It's been a while since I've made any friends and i'd like to at least have one. But I feel weird being a guy asking another guy to hang out. I get that classic "WHAT ARE YOU A FAG??" voice in my head. How should i message him? Will it come off weird? Anyone else like this?
Say something like "hey man going to any shows soon?" or "i'm going to this show soon, wanna go?"
almost any conversation can be started by discussing something you have a mutual interest in
Don't put so much thought into it. Just talk to him like a bro. It's not like you want to fuck him or anything... right?
>>16896395
No of course not. But I feel like a queer when I want to have a connection with another human being.
Also >>16895740
Thank you
I have the same thoughts when I try to make male friends. Tips and advice would be nice.
P.s. I am not a fag
Hey man I used to be the same. Just ignore the fleeting feelings, it's all in your head. The process you're describing is how to make new friends. He'd be flattered you want to hang out if you guys got along.
>>16896574
What's your situation? Are you trying to make a friend now?
>>16896603
Man you sound like you've killed off all your anxiety. I'm envious
