I quickly get sexually bored of women, even if I like being around them.
When I was in high school and early college, I wasn't very successful with girls and until age 23 I could count all my partners on one hand. Then I started lifting, my face started looking older, I became more social and suddenly I had way more sex than ever before, both recurring and non-recurring partners. But the more girls I had, the less I became interested in any of them. Basically for the first 5-10 times I'd be really into them, but after that my interest in sex just kinda dropped. It'd be like masturbating but more work and with someone else involved. Another issue is that I would sometimes cheat just to get that "new girl" rush, even when I was still really into the girl personally. Most girls I had some sort of relationships with were really nice and I enjoyed being around them, spending time with them etc. Just the sexual desire eroded after a while.
I don't watch a lot of porn btw, only masturbate maybe once a week. Have sex maybe twice a week depending on conditions and logistics.
Anybody has similar issues? Am I becoming numb from being with a certain amount of girls? I don't want to feel this feel.
>>16894480
Stop having casual sex and try to have a lasting, meaningful relationship with someone you genuinely care about. Don't rush into a relationship just for the sake of having one. You'll go from fucking to making love, and there's a world of difference between how each will make you feel. Also, stop the cheating. You'll devalue your partner pretty quickly.
It's called being a ho.
>>16894480
>Have sex maybe twice a week depending on conditions and logistics.
That's completely normal. Even once a week is healthy.
Do you think women have anything to offer other than sex? Because it sounds like you think all women have to offer is sex.
>>16894492
no like I said sometimes I even prefer doing some sort of activity together over sex, especially after I've been with her for a while. I don't hate women or anything.
>>16894495
You realize that's normal... right? That's what happens when you're with someone for a long time, unless you actively put forth effort to spice things up.
>>16894536
so why do people get married and shit? how do they even do it?
>>16894573
>so why do people get married and shit? how do they even do it?
Well, I've been with the same person for more than half my life. Early on, we would have sex every day, multiple times a day. We would absolutely ravage each other. Now it's slow, heated and passionate. We go about 2-4 times a week, but it feels so much better when you're not constantly at it. The work up, the teasing, the anticipation... It's amazing. It's probably hard to imagine when you're young and your libido is through the roof.
Go for compatibility. Not just mentally and physically, but sexually. I got really lucky.
>>16894480
Similar story here, but with guys. I used to be shy but I got more confidence, got healthier, got a better body etc. I hook up with guys, sometimes just once, sometimes multiple times.
Sometimes I can go for a long time without really caring about hooking up. I think this kind of "numbness" comes from the fact that you know if you wanted to have sex, you could have it quite quickly and easily with someone.
>>16894597
>the fact that you know if you wanted to have sex, you could have it quite quickly and easily with someone.
yeah but this is true for all women and only a small fraction of guys
>>16894610
>yeah but this is true for all women and only a small fraction of guys
That's completely irrelevant, because OP is that "small fraction." Don't derail the thread.
>>16894480
nice thread. I was just thinking the same thing these past couple days. Except I'm worse than OP at keeping gril around. Bang a few times and then I lose interest. The three exceptions so far have been 1) girl is arguably hotter than me 2) girl is creepily younger than me 3) girl is hot, kinky, and really cool. Problem for me is those three kinds of girls usually drop the hooking up before double digit fuck-dates. I'm game to try a relationship but standard courtship seems silly and archaic. I would date a slutty gril who started out as a random fuck if the sex was good and we click, but that hasn't happened yet and I'm starting to fret like OP here. I don't know about OP, but I'm rationalizing that being w/o gf is okay bc I'll probably bounce to a new city w/in 18mo's. Another problem atm is that I really don't have time to do both dates and fucking, so I prefer the sex obviously. I think when I'm on that career ladder I'll be in a better place to try my luck with monogamy.
>>16894665
OP here. Yeah I feel pretty comfortable without a gf pretty much, which probably contributes to losing interest quickly after a couple of times. I still like hanging out but like you would hang out with friends maybe. I'm pretty apathetic when it comes to breaking of relationships, even very nice and enjoyable ones.
>>16894480
ever tried guys?
>>16894610
>>16894615
Sorry, I should have made it clearer that I'm a guy.
Also, I know I'm a fag, but >>16894687 is definitely something worth considering if you're open to the idea of fooling around with a guy.
Yeah
>>16894480
Op that's called asexuality, it's normal don't be scared.
Kill yourself for being a cunt.
>>16895110
Found the angry female
