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3 months ago I got rejected by a girl who was my close friend
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3 months ago I got rejected by a girl who was my close friend at the time.

I deleted her off facebook a few days later, couldn't face her at all.

I miss her as a friend, have I burned my bridge (is it far too weird for me to try and speak to her again?) or is it alright for me to try and contact her?
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Well you already fucked up by being a little bitch and cutting contact with her because she rejected you. So she probably thinks you're shit, but maybe you still have a chance at recovering whats left of that friendship if you admit to her that you were stupid. If she even wants to talk to you
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>>16893928
alright that's really good advice, fucking hell why do I even come here

hang yourself you trip using mongoloid
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>>16894012
she thinks you're a fucking autistic sperglord cunt now, which coincidentally is what you actually are.
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>>16894017
fucking hell you actually disabled your trip just to write that

really you are truly pathetic, end your life by suicide DeltaSneeze you fucking runt
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>>16894029
Wut
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>>16894029
Look at number of posters down there you autist.
I know it's hard to wrap your head around the fact that you have an ugly personality, which makes you an unlikable person, but you should know better since your close friend rejected your dumb ass.

hahahahahahahahahahhhah
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>>16893922
That all depends on her personality as well as yours

Can you handle only being a friend knowing that nothing will happen?

Rejection really isn't that big of a deal in and of itself if you are both mature about it and can move on - but if you couldn't handle unrequited love the first time to the point of dropping her as a friend there's a good chance she'd be pretty apprehensive about a friendship again.

That's not to say you can't be friends again - only that it won't be the same as it was before.
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>>16894077
you're disabling your trip and posting from a proxy, it's blindingly fucking obvious you're the same person by the reply times and the fact that tripfags always do this when they get called out

get lost, there's no need for you to be in this thread
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>>16894130
Yeah OK, that's pretty measured advice and sounds right. This was my first time really falling for someone, I was being childish and I was being and idiot.

I've spoken to her a few times in person, I wished her a happy birthday too. She seemed to be happy to speak to me every time, those were all casual encounters though.

I sort of want to reconcile as well, it would be good to get some closure.
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>>16894149
Lol whatever dude.
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>>16894149
Fail harder sperglord.
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>>16894155
I would suggest talking to her, apologizing, admitting it was childish, acknowledging you two will never be anything more, and actually talking about the situation rather than just pretending it never happened and trying to move on.

Otherwise it's best to make your apologies, get some closer, and cut your ties all together.
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>>16894164
>>16894163
>le writing two posts within seconds of each other

your autism is so fucking extreme
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>>16894149
You know a trip has fancy letters and numbers after his name right...
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>>16894169
Yeah, that makes sense, I won't do anything for a while anyway, I'll just think about it for a bit more.

It's sort of weird, I don't really know if I am fully 100% over her and I just want to talk to her for the endorphins or if I was right the first time, and this is the best way for me to move on.

Heartbreak is really weird. It definitely did help me not talking to her for a while.
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Move on. You already have. You made the adult decision; you wanted her as a girlfriend and didn't want her as a friend.

Mission accomplished.

You have some remorse, and that's normal. Move on with your life.
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>>16894183
Thats spooky
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>>16894186
wow I can tell ur tripfagging to support yourself how pathetic fucking tripfags everytime!
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>>16894189
wow autism
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>>16894183
>>16894186

This niggers talking to himself
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>>16894198
wow nice trip faggot
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We're all delta here apparently
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>>16894198
>>16894202

This niggers talking to himself.

Still.
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>>16894208
>>16894207
samefagging tripfag wow
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>>16894208
Still
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delta.
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