Also any good videos?
I wanna crawl before running if that makes sense. Nothing too crazy at the moment, all I've done is choking, spanking, and light face slapping, not even name-calling or spitting, which is something I guess I'll work in soon.

>>16893559
>Any advice?
Throw that book away. And the rest of the series, if you have them. It's not just badly written; it's misinformed to the point of being flat-out dangerous to newbies.

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>>16893568
Two Knotty Boys for bondage videos, always have scissors at reach, agree with your partner the do's and not do's before hand, have a safe word, respect it and don't believe the crap you read in 50SoG

>>16893578
Just the first thing that comes to people's minds when BDSM since this kinda put it in spot light.

Advice on what? Though whatever your goal is, seriously, burn the book. There are plenty of websites where you can get info if you're interested in trying out BDSM, literally any of them would be better than this shitty book. If you want to read properly done BDSM erotica, read The Boss by Jenny Trout instead, it's actually well written and a lot more informative and realistic.

>>16893559
fetlife.com is really the best jumping off point for people who are new to bdsm. if you don't have one already, I recommend making an account and lurking some groups.

>>16893605
>>16893720
Any mild/light BDSM porno videos?

>>16893720
seconding this, also a common newbie mistake is wanting to have BDSM sex spontaneously, like in the stories. But that's always a bad idea, any kind of scene needs to be planned ahead of time so you both understand eachother's boundaries and have an agreed upon safeword. Another common noob trap is springing your interest on a partner, finding them decently receptive then NEVER wanting to have vanilla sex again.

>>16894089
>>16894069
Like no dungeon shit, with ropes. Just bedroom stuff rough sex with tying done with ties or scarves.
>>16894089
My current girl has been tied up and blindfolded, so I really want to be able to do BDSM with her. I give her amazing sex, she's told me, but I have legit never done this other than slight choking and face slapping. So I really wanna make this good for her.

>>16894104
stay away from the choking, its very easy for that to go wrong since asphyxiation can lead to cardiac arrest

anyway you say you want to do BDSM with your gf but you've already had her tied up and blindfolded, bondage IS BDSM, what did you think the B stood for? Did she enjoy it and show any interest in doing more of it? Have you talked at all with her about what your fantasies are?

>>16894125
as in she did it in the past, but with not me.

>>16894143
why wont she do it with you?

kek punch

>>16894154
She wants to, we've talked about it, I've just never really initiated it other than what I've described.

>>16893720
Get on fetlife and join the local groups.
There are informational events where you can learn tips and tricks for the bedroom. Some of them are held at nerdy conventions too.