>turned 19 last week
>no one wished me happy birthday except my mom
>oneitis is basically rejecting me
>all of my friends essentially abandoned me when we didn't get into the same greek organization
>now all I do is class, eat, lift, vidya, 4chan
>very little human interaction
>kissless virgin, too
Dunno what to do brahs. I'm lonely. I really thought things between me and this grill were gonna work out, but guess not. Any advice for what I should do to improve my life?
>>16892244
Get new friends, duh. This shit ALWAYS happens in college. You fucked up by believing early 2000s movies about friends being friends forever after high school.
College is about meeting new people, making new bros and having fun. You're not doing any of that. So get started on it. Join clubs, attend any and every event on campus, talk up bros at the gym. Girls come later when you have a new circle of interests and friends who will bring all of the girls they have.
Stop being a pansy and make some friends.
>>16892250
>>16892253
I have friends from my club sport, but we dont hang out that much unless we smoke weed. I can't even go to the formal this Friday because I have no date...
>>16892244
>I'm 19
>i already met me one true and only
>but she doesnt like me
dont be silly. using a word like 'oneitis' only makes it harder on yourself for no reason. admit what she is: a girl you liked that didnt return the feelings.
there are plenty of other women in the bar.
>only mom wished me happy birthday
you could be grateful for what you got, or you can whine about what you dont. at the very least you can reflect and say 'gee, if literally no one wished me a happy birthday in this the day and age of facebook where it automatically tells people its my birthday, then maybe its time i expand my life. it cant be the entier worlds fault that i have no friends. its likely my own. and therefore i should strive to make friends so i can plan a party next year'.
>>16892268
I deleted my Jewbook because it was too distracting.
>>16892263
Step 1 find a girl
Step 2 ask her if she would go with u as a friend
Step 3 if she says no ask another girl
Repeat steps if needed
>>16892272
sure. focus on that.
>>16892244
Join the military
>>16892244
>oneitis is basically rejecting me
What do you mean by this? Have you asked this her out? What did she say?
>>16892410
I asked her to go study today and she made some BS excuse up about her friend "maybe" visiting, so she wasn't "sure yet". Last time a friend visited she posted it all over her snapchat story; this time, there's nothing. I took this as rejection.
>>16892382
Fat chance. I go to one of the most prestigious universities in the United States.
just go outside OP ffs
